Soldier of adventure.
Colonel Lawrence - I love it. There is another thread for that. This one may make the cut.
Soldier of adventure.
Man, why are people on the internet so rude? Why is there so much resistance to civil conversation? Why as a culture are we so averse to intelligent, thoughtful discussion? I truly, truly don't understand incivility and hostility in a conversation that could be interesting. I guess I'm just old school; I like to hear what people are thinking and I like exchanging ideas. I don't see any point in exchanging insults; no one learns anything, no one listens, nothing gets done.
Well if Maria and Tiannas do not object I guess I feel compelled to withdraw my objection. Although I used the term in the past I always thought it to be an odd word choice. When I was a kid my hobby was building and firing model rockets made by Estes (and a few of my own design). As an adult my hobby is paying women for companionship and sex. It struck me as odd, and potentially trivializing the pursuit to use the word hobby. I imagined Maria Divina cross examining me and saying, "and your hobby as a boy was model rockets.....and now it's me? So I am like a model rocket??????"
And that is where I thought the offended women might be coming from. Like talkinghead I really do try not to be offensive with women and try to be sensitive. It doesn't always work out with the word choices that come out of my mouth.
I was with a SP who has an absolutely gorgeous body. To my eyes, it's objectively and awe-inspiringly awesome. Perfect breasts, no tats, hourglass shape, tight abs on which I could bounce quarters if I tried, full round ass, no imperfections, etc. etc. I was admiring her body and tried to think of the last thing I had seen that was so amazing to my eyes. And it was a $1,000 wedding cake I had seen which was like the most amazing wedding cake I had ever seen. So I told her "your body is like an amazing wedding cake, you know just a work of art." And I can tell as soon as I said that I shouldn't have, although the truth is her body was inspiring as was the artistic perfection of that cake.
Anyway "hobby" is by far not the most offensive thing one can say but the point is that we should be careful - and not have no regard whatsoever to our words or their possible meaning.
Carry on!
And since, like you, my words don't always align with my brain, all I can think to ask is: did you have your cake and eat it, too?
Yes I did. Conversation happened post-coital. She wasn't happy with the comment but I have seen her many times so she kind of knows me anyway. It's not like it was an awkward moment on a first date. It was just one of those things that just sort of spewed out of my mouth like lava from a volcano, and once it is out, there is not much you can do about it except run or duck. LOL.
Got it. Like lava from a volcano. Krakatoa?
I was thinking Mt. St. Helens, but you can choose your volcanic eruption:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1980_eruption_of_Mount_St._Helens
If you want to help for real, maybe something much more accessible for all of the Merbists.... You could just try still to find beautiful words to describe escorts and all the Sp's around and also all the women,
and react and don't let other guys around use of negative heavy words while they are talking about "us" all,
and that could begin directly on the review board, in the discussion & in the reviews, what do you think of my suggestion?
Men are at the first best place to stop any kind of violence toward women by reacting and not letting other men doing it freely without protesting, just saying.