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Taking a break and might stop all together

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vanhamm

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I am 50 years old and i started a long time ago my first escort i book was back in 1993 i was 21 at that time, i have always use escort service in between girlfriends.

My ex dumped me and cheated on me after 9 years a house etc, that was back in 2013. I did try to find another women but failed miserably online dating and introduction that lead to nothing, no one likes to be rejected, insulted etc. So i just gave up on dating and finding women. I tended to forget myself in relationships anyways and put my significant other in front of me all the time, ended up being miserable anyways.

I became aware of the private ads on sites like humpchies about 3 years ago, the thing is there are dangers when you book a new SP you never really know what is waiting at the other end. I saw Katrina from Ferrari many times when she was working for the agency hot great service then she want private and tried to screw me over with her pimp at motel metro for 180$ had to call the cops, long story short i did get my money back and her and her pimp got in trouble, the cops told me to leave motel metro and never come back heavy on drugs and gang related that place was dangerous.

During this time i also met a few SP that fake their pictures gave bad service and look plain dirty. I stop dealing with agencies because most of the time the bookers are going to lie to book the escort, i am a more sensual man i love a cuddling women kissing etc, then the escort arrives at your place no kissing no daty condom blowjob very mechanic and you are down 240$/h and that'"s when they stay the full hour.

I was seeing a regular escort charged me 140$, saw her for a good 2 years but to be honest depending on how horny i got 140$ per week sometimes twice that was around 600-800$ a month for sex, i am a simple working man, just put 20k on a new car, my bank account dropped like crazy, and i would love to retire by 60.

My grandmother died last year at 98 she was living with my mom who is 78, i had issues with my condo the neighbour was a pot smoker and the complex was looking more like a daycare for kids, running around and screaming, i work night time so you can image. I sold my condo and invested the money in mutual funds.

I guess i been doing this escort thing for a long time and i did spend lots of money back in 2015, i blew my credit card 6500$ and it took me 10 months to pay it back. Right now i am a caregiver for my mother i pay rent of course and we plan to renovate the family home.

My regular SP was starting to take a lot of place in my life, regular texting, everyday, buying me gift when i saw her, asking me personal questions about my life, but still keeping me at a distance when it came too serious. Her service was never amazing she was cheap and had big boobs and that was it. I ended everything last week when she got mad at me for not texting her back that same night, i was working and i was in a rush, then she wanted to bang me before going on vacation for a week even if she was in her period, had to this all her cursing and not being that feminine, i decided to block her and stop seeing her.

I guess everything i put money on an SP now i look at how much grocery i could have bought or what i could have done with that money instead of investing it in sex.

I am not saying i will stop seeing SP but for now i am taking a break.
 

MCTJ

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If you feel like it's turning your life upside down, then sure, it's a good idea to stop. Physical exercise is a good distraction.

That being said, you mentioned you became aware of classified ads like Humpchies 3 years ago. I am sorry to say it, but you (re)started on the wrong foot. . This is the most sketchy side of the industry (same with Ferrary and "agencies" that operate out of motels). Agencies that advertise here on Merb provide excellent service 9 times out of 10 with minimal to no safety issues. Good luck for the future.
 

TheJames101

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If you're going to spend any money on SP's, might as well make it count. So you're a merb member. Therefore you know that reputable girls advertise here, as do good agencies.
Either you spend your money where it counts, or this hobby just isn't for you anymore.

No more of that Humpchies BS. Baffling that people book shady girls. You get what you deserve as far as I'm concerned when it comes to that.
 

bimma328

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Lol she wanted 140$ before going on vacation and got mad because she couldn't get it. Probably went to Cuba for 700$ all inclusive hahahahahha. At least you got rid of her. Good for you!
 

Numerati

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Lots of SP don't understand that men go see them to have sex, when it gets too friendly and the SP start to slip on her service and gets away with it doing what ever she wants its time to call it quits.
Ya. When the SP gets into even a hint of girlfriend like territory you hit your ULTIMATE and time for you to move away because it is no where but a time wasting down from then on. I mean if no money up front is involved okay you might play along for a while but still.
 

Numerati

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Simply put I hate to be you or even be in your shoes lol.

Your decision and risk assessment skills are second to none. Ha ha.

You could of take that money and invested to dress up like a bat and go crime fighting at night when it is a full moon.

Doh!
 

Numerati

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Well given YOUR situation and all the predicaments that came with it plus all your shitty choices that you made all the complaining that you are doing right now is no one’s fault but YOUR OWN. I mean in this hobby you still end up picking the shit that is below the shit. Doh! Not to be dissing you or anything but you just literally choose to walk the crap path and you are doing naturally.

Do you have any kids?
 
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