Well said! We shouldn’t be quick to judge people, each person has their own story.Knowing someone’s personal story is a double edged sword. (<< arme à double tranchant >>?)
Do you really want to know that they were abused as a child, while working as a young adult, or they tragically lost a partner.
If you are an empathetic person, especially if you have daughters, you may rethink things. You may want to help.
Does that make you a white night or a “simp”? (Sorry, I’m sympathetic and hate that word.)
You love your time together, but don’t want to be a sucker (<<jobard>>?)
Do you keep seeing her as you respect & treat her well?
You can’t rescue her or buy all of her time.
There are many threads here about dating or marrying your fave.
Don’t remember seeing a “happy ending”
More questions than answers because life is complicated & messy.
wow glad to know Kimi has her fans! We had good compatibility mentally but not physically Its nothing personal she is a great girl but maybe that is just how it goes.
Just wondering ...
Bashing a specific SP by name in the lounge is just weird. I notice you haven't written a review for her.
How is this bashing I am honestly telling how I felt cause her name came up in the “bitching thread”.
This is starting to make more sense. However, I found it a bit much that you mentioned "she smells bad like seafood". You removed that portion but how dare you insult seafood. As a Mediterranean I take pride in my seafood!
Yes that was kiddish and smalI to say that I agree I used to eat meat but I cant dig it anymore you know cause of you know we can’t be hurting animals but man I really like your food it tastes amazing and smells so appetizing
She didn’t ask me anything, I was the one that said I would never post on MERB , look at me nowThey simply don't attract me the slightest, nothing to do with who I can or cannot get. Meanwhile, I'd definitely date a girl like Kimi. To each their own I guess
If she asked you to not write a review, you should take it as "don't write anything about me on a public forum". She might have noticed that you weren't into her and didn't want the bad press. So I'd say the 2 choices really would be:
1. Ignore that request entirely, and post an actual review to share your negative experience and re-summarize concisely why it was bad so that other members can benefit from it.
2. Respect her wishes and delete your posts in this thread.
Of course no one is forcing you to do any of that, but I think it would be the courteous thing to do. Otherwise by reviewing her in a random thread it gives her the bad press and won't even help members reading her review thread, so it's the worst of both worlds.
Thanks for understanding It didn’t feel that embarrassing cause she actually said I am attractive and I really liked the honesty, but I was not ready for this. She may be honest but not courteous, so I get it cause sometimes I am like that as well. Something that both of us might need to work on. But honestly you guys have been so supportive and thanks for not calling me abrasive or openly threatening me like some other people(providers) in this post.
When someone writes something people will always interpret it the way they want to based on their perception of the comment. Always keep that in mind.
Brother your experience is your experience and sharing that experience good or bad is helping others make informed decisions. Being true to yourself and expressing your experience and how you feel about things that are said about you by others is the proper way to deal with bad and hurt emotions.
