Yeah it could sound objectifying cause it does remind of how it is written on those boxes, but we can surely use it . There is also a song by Sting called Fragile which conveys this beautifully.
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Yeah it could sound objectifying cause it does remind of how it is written on those boxes, but we can surely use it . There is also a song by Sting called Fragile which conveys this beautifully.
I also believe fragile is more appropriate. Most people are to some degree.
A question many men wonder and rarely/never ask is:
“Why did you decide to escort?”
When you get to know someone you suspect, or know, is/was “successful” in “real life”, you can’t but wonder why they do this.
Many reasons but like most things in life, there are many and it’s complicated.
Love sex, intimacy, companionship…
Relationship issues and/or Mental health conditions like ADHD, Bipolar or eating disorders.
Of course they need to earn a living and this pays way more than Provigo, with more independence.
Knowing someone’s personal story is a double edged sword. (<< arme à double tranchant >>?)
Do you really want to know that they were abused as a child, while working as a young adult, or they tragically lost a partner.
If you are an empathetic person, especially if you have daughters, you may rethink things. You may want to help.
Does that make you a white night or a “simp”? (Sorry, I’m sympathetic and hate that word.)
You love your time together, but don’t want to be a sucker (<<jobard>>?)
Do you keep seeing her as you respect & treat her well?
You can’t rescue her or buy all of her time.
There are many threads here about dating or marrying your fave.
Don’t remember seeing a “happy ending”
More questions than answers because life is complicated & messy.
A question many men wonder and rarely/never ask is:
“Why did you decide to escort?”
When you get to know someone you suspect, or know, is/was “successful” in “real life”, you can’t but wonder why they do this.
Many reasons but like most things in life, there are many and it’s complicated.
Love sex, intimacy, companionship…
Relationship issues and/or Mental health conditions like ADHD, Bipolar or eating disorders.
Of course they need to earn a living and this pays way more than Provigo, with more independence.
Knowing someone’s personal story is a double edged sword. (<< arme à double tranchant >>?)
Do you really want to know that they were abused as a child, while working as a young adult, or they tragically lost a partner.
If you are an empathetic person, especially if you have daughters, you may rethink things. You may want to help.
Does that make you a white night or a “simp”? (Sorry, I’m sympathetic and hate that word.)
You love your time together, but don’t want to be a sucker (<<jobard>>?)
Do you keep seeing her as you respect & treat her well?
You can’t rescue her or buy all of her time.
There are many threads here about dating or marrying your fave.
Don’t remember seeing a “happy ending”
More questions than answers because life is complicated & messy.
You're right. Poor choice of word by me that can be interpreted as objectifying, which wasn't my intention. I have heard this particular phrase, word for word, more than once. Doesn't mean it's right.
Lena, every time I realize that you posted in a discussion in which I'm involved, I feel like there is a 50/50% chance that I'm in trouble lol
More than just respect, I really really like the way you think and handle yourself
I like reading you and your threads are relevant. While I may not always agree with everything, you always convey your messages with respect and accepts discussions/challenges with an open mind.
Please keep posting
Well said! We shouldn’t be quick to judge people, each person has their own story.Knowing someone’s personal story is a double edged sword. (<< arme à double tranchant >>?)
Do you really want to know that they were abused as a child, while working as a young adult, or they tragically lost a partner.
If you are an empathetic person, especially if you have daughters, you may rethink things. You may want to help.
Does that make you a white night or a “simp”? (Sorry, I’m sympathetic and hate that word.)
You love your time together, but don’t want to be a sucker (<<jobard>>?)
Do you keep seeing her as you respect & treat her well?
You can’t rescue her or buy all of her time.
There are many threads here about dating or marrying your fave.
Don’t remember seeing a “happy ending”
More questions than answers because life is complicated & messy.
I agree that knowing their personal story can be a double-edged sword. I am somewhat empathetic, so I try to listen and be supportive, when it’s needed.
As the damaged girl, I get asked this a lot. I’m going to have to marinate on it and come back with an answer because whatever explanation I have I can’t quite formulate right now.
What he means in damaged is likely the ones that had more than a normal share of those “normal” traumatic experiences.
also, you’re coming off a bit abrasive. I would tread carefully.
wow glad to know Kimi has her fans! We had good compatibility mentally but not physically Its nothing personal she is a great girl but maybe that is just how it goes.
As for your rant I haven’t experienced this but you should be upfront with your provider on this and if you don't get a satisfactory reply just don’t book them. If you are spending your hard earned money on someone they should not simply get away with it cause they should respect your time and your individuality as well . Self respect should always come first.
Just wondering ...
Why not post these comments in a thread created for this lady and posted in the appropriate section ?(I understand she is an independant provider)
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Bashing a specific SP by name in the lounge is just weird. I notice you haven't written a review for her.
How is this bashing I am honestly telling how I felt cause her name came up in the “bitching thread”.
I don’t want to write a negative review because she was complaining about people putting in bad reviews and I kind of said that I wont do this to you so I cant , but at least while we are in the bitching thread we should be allowed to share our inner most feelings.
She suggested me to get circumcised, and I was so shocked that I could just feel my heart sinking but I couldn’t say anything cause I felt there was something wrong with me cause I am not circumcised, before this I haven't even heard of this and I was like man now I got to think about this too ?! Can you imagine the level of ignorance some people have suggesting me something like that. But later i realized she was wrong cause this is like body shaming , It never even comes to my mind to ask any girl to get anything done cause I accept them as whole, even if I don't like something I take it as a practice to become more accepting towards other humans and try my best not to show it cause i believe If I feel like this about someone’s body then there is something wrong with me and not them.
But even apart from that , I don’t believe how you can find her sensual, not the looks but the personality .
And those “dolled up glam girls” , maybe people don’t like them cause they are not realistic for you in the sense that you realize that you can never get with them irl so maybe Kimi adds a sense of realism to your experience. To each is own , I personally like appreciating beauty in nature art music and naturally women and I feel great with them cause they understand beauty and try to enhance it . For me they decorate and liven up this mundane world and make it a better place cause they inspire with their beauty(Just like Montreal as a city) so what is wrong with that I wonder.
This is starting to make more sense. However, I found it a bit much that you mentioned "she smells bad like seafood". You removed that portion but how dare you insult seafood. As a Mediterranean I take pride in my seafood!
Oh that is not ok though. We should never make fun, embarrass or make people feel uncomfortable about their genitalia. I am sorry this happened to you.
Yes that was kiddish and smalI to say that I agree I used to eat meat but I cant dig it anymore you know cause of you know we can’t be hurting animals but man I really like your food it tastes amazing and smells so appetizing
She didn’t ask me anything, I was the one that said I would never post on MERB , look at me nowThey simply don't attract me the slightest, nothing to do with who I can or cannot get. Meanwhile, I'd definitely date a girl like Kimi. To each their own I guess
If she asked you to not write a review, you should take it as "don't write anything about me on a public forum". She might have noticed that you weren't into her and didn't want the bad press. So I'd say the 2 choices really would be:
1. Ignore that request entirely, and post an actual review to share your negative experience and re-summarize concisely why it was bad so that other members can benefit from it.
2. Respect her wishes and delete your posts in this thread.
Of course no one is forcing you to do any of that, but I think it would be the courteous thing to do. Otherwise by reviewing her in a random thread it gives her the bad press and won't even help members reading her review thread, so it's the worst of both worlds.
But wont posting a review have the same effect I am confused. I can delete the previous posts but not this one , cause it felt like a purge
Thanks for understanding It didn’t feel that embarrassing cause she actually said I am attractive and I really liked the honesty, but I was not ready for this. She may be honest but not courteous, so I get it cause sometimes I am like that as well. Something that both of us might need to work on. But honestly you guys have been so supportive and thanks for not calling me abrasive or openly threatening me like some other people(providers) in this post.
When someone writes something people will always interpret it the way they want to based on their perception of the comment. Always keep that in mind.
BTW the comment about the seafood was sarcastic. Don't take it seriously.
Brother your experience is your experience and sharing that experience good or bad is helping others make informed decisions. Being true to yourself and expressing your experience and how you feel about things that are said about you by others is the proper way to deal with bad and hurt emotions.
There is nothing wrong with the way God has created you and remaining intact with foreskin is natural, no shame. Psychologically shaming a man for the way God has created them is not a very nice, or pleasant experience. You surely will rise above this bad experience as you have chosen the proper manner in which to deal with it, that is, by expressing yourself and letting it out in words.
More power to you brother!
Remember, seeing the topic of seafood has come up in this discussion that there are plenty of fish in the sea!
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