That does seem like torture! Hmm, perhaps I would like to get tortured like that heheheI am a toxic ex, I use my favourite exes for validation. When my self esteem is low because of work or social media, I send them nudes so that they can tell me that I’m hot, that they miss me and that they’d like to see me. Then I go back to not speaking to them.
They’re not complaining but it’s not really fair to them.
Edit: I confess, I lied one person complained but he’s not an ex. Just an ex tinder date. He complained that I was torturing him with nudes because he can’t have sex with me even though he keeps trying to find ways to.
you can use a pseudonym!I thought about it but I feel like my books will pretty much tell my life stories and my family and friends may recognize the characters even if they are fictional names. Plus if I want it to be known as “writing by a SW” (which I would like) I kind of need to do a coming out and reveal my identity.
Don’t know if it will be a smart move or not!
I have favorite clients too! but it's not a matter of the person being more attractive or giving more gifts for me. My favorite clients are the ones I have the most interesting conversations with and I agree it's best not to tell anyone they're a favorite. I've noticed that a some clients get uneasy when I give them genuine compliments for some reason..Yes, SPs have their favourite clients. I confess I have a few, I think they can tell but I would never tell them. I don’t want to ruin what we have.
Sometimes when you flatter people too much they start acting weird.
Are you talking about..... Alice !?One of my favorites is coming back on the scene...I had no choice to tell her I found a new one.
I'm fucked up anyway...too far, no time and not enough money to see her again... Too bad she is such a true gem
C’est une confession alors c’est moi qui parle…Are you talking about..... Alice !?
same. i don't hide what i do from my friends, but i know i might not be able to travel.I wish I didn’t have to hide this job from the world. I’m not ashamed, I just want to travel and not be severely punished because I suck dicks from time to time.
Heya, would you rather have a favorite client not call you again or him saying upfront he is turning the page and pursuing a newly found relationship?I have favorite clients too! but it's not a matter of the person being more attractive or giving more gifts for me. My favorite clients are the ones I have the most interesting conversations with and I agree it's best not to tell anyone they're a favorite. I've noticed that a some clients get uneasy when I give them genuine compliments for some reason..
I would prefer if he said something honestly! I actually had a client tell me that recently and I was really happy for him!Heya, would you rather have a favorite client not call you again or him saying upfront he is turning the page and pursuing a newly found relationship?
Thanks for your opinion, I appreciate it!I would prefer if he said something honestly! I actually had a client tell me that recently and I was really happy for him!
Did he tell you I before or after time together?I would prefer if he said something honestly! I actually had a client tell me that recently and I was really happy for him!
He actually met someone one week after the last time we saw each other, and I offered to stay friends with him because we really got along, which isn't something I would necessarily do.Did he tell you I before or after time together?
What kind of things do you usually like to find out about your clients?Sometimes I want to ask clients questions when we’re together but I don’t because I respect their privacy. I just think about it very hard and hope they will just reveal the information on their own. It works most of the time.
Are there things you're less likely to want to know?
Not that I think of. I for sure don’t want them to walk in my apartment and talk about their gastrointestinal issues.