I'd agree that there are indeed some 'losers' among the 'johns' population, but there are losers everywhere. But there are many different reasons why some men decide one day to see an escort & continue to do so. The same goes with escorts. There are many different reasons why a young woman (and an older woman) one day decides to start selling her body for money. Some reasons are valid & understandable, others not. However, it's no one else's business since they're not the ones having to live with the consequences. The same goes for the 'johns'. It's their money, they can chose what they want to do with it, the reasons are not always the right ones, but it's no one else's business.
It's actually normal that a young escort who hasn't been in this business very long might be under the impression that most men seeing escorts are losers. After all, most of the men she's known in her short lifetime never paid another person for sex. But what they haven't learned yet is that it's not always about sex. They've also failed to learn that older men don't always have the time (with their busy schedules) to go out & socialize in order to meet someone & possibly get laid....for free. For many 'johns', calling an escort is a shortcut to getting sexual gratification. For others, it's a shortcut to get to meet someone of the opposite sex....someone new. It's a shortcut to intimacy. For others, it might simply be an easy & cheaper way (for some) to get laid. They ask themselves "why should i go out, spend a ton of $$ on someone, not even knowing for sure she'll come to my place at the end of the night? Why bother?"........so they grab the phone, and instead of calling for a pizza, they call an escort. It ain't that much different, right? Except this time, the pizza delivery girl is the one staying for an hour or so, not the pizza.
For many, a couple hundred bucks is nothing. For others, it is & that's why they have to follow a budget & 'hobby' with moderation in order to stay in the game & enjoy it. And finally, it's no big secret that many 'johns' are married men. Many of those 'johns' have been married for years & their sex life has been dead for years. They need to find that spark that will bring them sexual gratification....a human need....something that will bring them pleasure & happiness once again. Something that, believe it or not, might actually save their marriage & family life. So they decide to see an escort once in a while. Who could argue with that?
So to all who read this, the next time a young escort tells you that she considers that men who call escorts are losers, instead of reacting negatively to her comment, simply share your experiences & make her realize that there are dozens & dozens of reasons why men decide to see escorts. Who knows, she might change her mind after your discussion & she might even be more understanding.
