Wasted time.....
- Thread starter Thor Jr
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EagerBeaver, you had a once in a lifetime experience. Those specials meetings are quite rare. Like you say stuff can happen when you have been around long enough.
Please take no offense. I thought that you were joking. The difference between you and Thor was that you got 20 intense minutes and that's enough. Thor, on the other hand, had a conversation and performed DATY and then was left holding his dick.
If that's true (you are not a warm fuzzy guy and I don't believe that ) she did you a favor. I love to talk for at least 10 minutes or so but that last line was hilarious.
Hey no worries Hungry, no offense taken. It is pretty much what Willis indicated. Herman’s pretty much taken charge on this RDV. We got into a bit of an argument in the shower this morning. I expressed my concerns about the provider and he just pretty much told me to STFU, take a 5mg pill of cialis to help him with his hangover and to get my shit together as we were going through with this.
will keep you all informed.
will keep you all informed.
To me, an hour appointment with someone new warrants 10-15min chatting. Usually my client is in the shower when the first 15min have passed. If I sense you absolutely don't give a shit about my personality (and some of you don't and that's totally fine), the chemistry just won't be there in bed. Hence why I always make sure that someone who wants to see me wants to know me a little bit as well. Most of my clients need the chat, as they are often very nervous. Good thing there are tons of different providers who caters to different clients 
we shouldn't assume that one's needs are the needs of everyone. With that said, I will always take the lead past those 15 minutes, as I'm well aware you guys don't just come to hear me talk.
we shouldn't assume that one's needs are the needs of everyone. With that said, I will always take the lead past those 15 minutes, as I'm well aware you guys don't just come to hear me talk.
That makes total sense to me! I think what makes this business amazing is the variety of offerings and demands there are. I wouldn't want to kiss someone I've never met right away. I also know several providers who feel the same way. To each their own I'm sure
I now feel even worst for the sp that see me. My refractory period is non existent. Even less time to chat.
More Bing bang boom time
Hungry. I am definitely warm and fuzzy! I am a rabbit
I only see Indys and most times I book more than 60 minutes so this leaves ample time for chatting and having a glass or two of wine with some pastries.
It doesn't matter if it is before or after.
As I mostly do repeats I love being with these gorgeous women and the social time is just as important.
They are not only gorgeous but fascinating as well and some have a good sense of humour also.
Now if I was still in my 20-30 then perhaps I would be all about action also.
It doesn't matter if it is before or after.
As I mostly do repeats I love being with these gorgeous women and the social time is just as important.
They are not only gorgeous but fascinating as well and some have a good sense of humour also.
Now if I was still in my 20-30 then perhaps I would be all about action also.
There have been other threads discussing time wasting generally but this thread is a bit more interesting because if you read through all of what Thor said, there were myriad different things that created the final situation:
1. The girl was new and did not recognize or understand cues on when to move things along;
2. She was overbooked and Thor could not extend the date or get a 90 minutes or 2 hour session with her;
3. Thor's MO is to drink wine and chat and he (like I and many others) enjoys the precoital banter;
4. Thor, perhaps due to drinking wine, or perhaps due to the unexpectedly lively conversation, lost track of time and did not adequately budget his time, something that has happened to all of us although perhaps not with the same end result.
I have been in the situation of having to artificially rush the action at the end, and usually I can pull it off because I can come fairly quickly with any lady who can do at least a serviceable BBBJ. It did happen to me once that I did not cum from a rushed ending, now that I searched my memory banks a bit further, but it was due to drinking too much, and I subsequently adopted a no drinking policy before and during.
Although I have never met Thor Jr., he is a veteran. I have met one lady and a few other people who speak well of him, and from his postings, I think his MO as a client is very similar to my own as a client. So Thor Jr should be given a pass. This thread is a good exemplar of "shit that happens in the hobby". I am myself a veteran of misadventures, of different kinds, even including having an escort menstruate on me, something I started a thread about in 2005 mainly because it was so damn funny that later on I had a bar full of senior MERB members laughing hysterically in disbelief. Also among my misadventures was locking myself out of my hotel room in my underwear in Montreal in April 2006, another incident which I posted a thread about because it was horrifying but, in retrospect, quite funny as well, as was the menstruation incident. It is all in the "shit happens" category, and it has now happened to Thor, but it's understandable and not quite as horrifying as this:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...-in-Montreal&highlight=bizarre+easter+weekend
or this:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?15720-Embarassment-at-Hotel&highlight=locked+underwear
I am not sure if I mentioned it but the latter incident was caused by waking up early from an alarm or wake up call to drive to the USA after having taken a sleeping pill the prior night.
1. The girl was new and did not recognize or understand cues on when to move things along;
2. She was overbooked and Thor could not extend the date or get a 90 minutes or 2 hour session with her;
3. Thor's MO is to drink wine and chat and he (like I and many others) enjoys the precoital banter;
4. Thor, perhaps due to drinking wine, or perhaps due to the unexpectedly lively conversation, lost track of time and did not adequately budget his time, something that has happened to all of us although perhaps not with the same end result.
I have been in the situation of having to artificially rush the action at the end, and usually I can pull it off because I can come fairly quickly with any lady who can do at least a serviceable BBBJ. It did happen to me once that I did not cum from a rushed ending, now that I searched my memory banks a bit further, but it was due to drinking too much, and I subsequently adopted a no drinking policy before and during.
Although I have never met Thor Jr., he is a veteran. I have met one lady and a few other people who speak well of him, and from his postings, I think his MO as a client is very similar to my own as a client. So Thor Jr should be given a pass. This thread is a good exemplar of "shit that happens in the hobby". I am myself a veteran of misadventures, of different kinds, even including having an escort menstruate on me, something I started a thread about in 2005 mainly because it was so damn funny that later on I had a bar full of senior MERB members laughing hysterically in disbelief. Also among my misadventures was locking myself out of my hotel room in my underwear in Montreal in April 2006, another incident which I posted a thread about because it was horrifying but, in retrospect, quite funny as well, as was the menstruation incident. It is all in the "shit happens" category, and it has now happened to Thor, but it's understandable and not quite as horrifying as this:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...-in-Montreal&highlight=bizarre+easter+weekend
or this:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?15720-Embarassment-at-Hotel&highlight=locked+underwear
I am not sure if I mentioned it but the latter incident was caused by waking up early from an alarm or wake up call to drive to the USA after having taken a sleeping pill the prior night.
I’d lie if I said I’m not giggling at your post EB hahaha be right back I have to go read these posts you wrote. I was aware of the menstruation story (I think you mentionned it here in the last year or two) but not the underwear story and now I’m giggling
EDIT: I went and read the underwear story. That whole thread cracks me up. Hahahaha thanks for the laugh before sleep, I appreciate.
EDIT: I went and read the underwear story. That whole thread cracks me up. Hahahaha thanks for the laugh before sleep, I appreciate.
I wouldn't want to kiss someone I've never met right away. [/QUOTE]
Ok rosedelacourt,if i understand you well,after 15 min,you know the person enough.....for kissing? thats it? Hummmmm
Ok rosedelacourt,if i understand you well,after 15 min,you know the person enough.....for kissing? thats it? Hummmmm
I know what I need to put me at ease. Make fun of me all you want, but that's how I've been doing my job for almost 5 years now.
Based off how Thor explained his story, seems like both him and the lady lost track of time. If that isn’t the case, if you think things are taking too long to progress to the « next stage » you can simply ask her that you would like to move things to the bedroom. Its polite but blunt and it gets your attentions across and has yet to fail me, although I only had to do it 2 times so far. But if you do that and she still stalls then that is a cause for concern.
I think quite a few guys forget that you don’t have to court or seduce a provider to get to the action, sure its a big plus if you can, and i’m sure alot of the ladies appreciate the effort but if it’s not working as intended just ask politely where you want things to go and she will be happy to oblige. After all it’s what you are both there for. Not having to jump through hoops and make all the right moves is why hobby exists to begin with, take advantage of the luxury you payed for (obviously while being respectful and getting consent).
I think quite a few guys forget that you don’t have to court or seduce a provider to get to the action, sure its a big plus if you can, and i’m sure alot of the ladies appreciate the effort but if it’s not working as intended just ask politely where you want things to go and she will be happy to oblige. After all it’s what you are both there for. Not having to jump through hoops and make all the right moves is why hobby exists to begin with, take advantage of the luxury you payed for (obviously while being respectful and getting consent).
Telling you guys if you do not enforce DFK at all on first meet up you will get to the action much sooner Works for me. Even worked for me with Rose
DFK is very intimate. Myself I do not feel conformable to throw my tongue in the mouth of a pure stranger after 2 minutes. Imagine the young lady having to do so to a dude 20-30 year older.
Dude same thing with missionary position. Unless your fit as Fly I suggest not to throw your hole body over the girl in miss... Even worst trying to kiss at the same time. Pretty invading if you've met the girl 20 minutes before! And the girl fucking hate it! Take position that keep some distance while still enjoyable. Leave her space to breath and enjoy.
It's possible to nicely fuck a pure stranger within 5 minutes. You just need to not invade her too much
Cheers,
Works for me. Even worked for me with Rose DFK is very intimate. Myself I do not feel conformable to throw my tongue in the mouth of a pure stranger after 2 minutes. Imagine the young lady having to do so to a dude 20-30 year older.
Dude same thing with missionary position. Unless your fit as Fly I suggest not to throw your hole body over the girl in miss... Even worst trying to kiss at the same time. Pretty invading if you've met the girl 20 minutes before! And the girl fucking hate it! Take position that keep some distance while still enjoyable. Leave her space to breath and enjoy.
It's possible to nicely fuck a pure stranger within 5 minutes. You just need to not invade her too much
Cheers,
I only read the first page but from what I gathered she was very willing to sleep with him its just the timing that is off. I personally have never been able to take care of my business in one hour. Thankfully I reached that conclusion on my second attempt at the hobby, so no big loss there. I don't like thinking about time, or budgeting my time, which is why I book for 2-3 hours minimum. Over the years I've realized that in 90% of the time its the woman who will take the first step and make sure things move along. In fact one of the reasons I absolutely enjoy taking my time in the pre-coital conversation and drinks (as EB put it) is because I love seeing all her little cues and moves.
In my 14 years (wow its been a long time) in the hobby I have only had 2 instances where I had to start dropping the subtle hints and cues, without success. The first time it happened, I had to explicitly ask her to move things along, and it not go well and I could not get into it. The second time I decided to make up an excuse and asked her to leave and paid her for the first hour. Not every session is going to be a slam dunk. The more you hobby the better you get at identifying who will provide you with a good experience, but there will be the occasional snafu. I really would not think twice about it unless it developed into a pattern.
In my 14 years (wow its been a long time) in the hobby I have only had 2 instances where I had to start dropping the subtle hints and cues, without success. The first time it happened, I had to explicitly ask her to move things along, and it not go well and I could not get into it. The second time I decided to make up an excuse and asked her to leave and paid her for the first hour. Not every session is going to be a slam dunk. The more you hobby the better you get at identifying who will provide you with a good experience, but there will be the occasional snafu. I really would not think twice about it unless it developed into a pattern.
Saw my friend again. This time I booked a half hour session as I didn’t want a repeat of last time where she stalled for 40 + minutes. I knew I needed to get the ball rolling quick today so I took a piece out of Willis’s playbook. When she went to go hang my coat up I quickly took my cloths off and sat naked on the edge of the bed waiting for her to return. She walked into the room and had this really puzzled/WTF look on her face and asked me why I booked only half an hour today and not an hour. I explained to her that she is quite popular and this was the only option provided to me by the agency. As she hovered over me with her arms crossed she mentioned that someone had cancelled and now I could extend for an hour, or longer! I told her I had to be somewhere in 45 minutes. She asked me where? I then told her that I was actually lying and that I really don’t have anywhere to go and was just embarrassed that I didn’t have any more $$ on me. She then offered to have me E-transfer funds to her. I sat there cold, naked and with a limp Herman in my hand probably looking helpless. 10 min had already expired we only had 20 min left. Not sure what got into her but she asked me if I had showered @ home to which I said yes. She then mounted me and serviced me silly for the next 20 minutes
on the fence about booking an outcall for this weekend.
on the fence about booking an outcall for this weekend.
This is hilarious^^^
Sounds like you can book 30 minutes, 1 hour or 2 hours and you will get 20 minutes of sex with her. This is my issue with longer dates. I can only perform so long anyway and you end up paying top dollar to talk and drink with someone. You can meet up with other hobbyists and even if you got stuck with the bar tab or dinner tab you would spend a lot less.
Sounds like you can book 30 minutes, 1 hour or 2 hours and you will get 20 minutes of sex with her. This is my issue with longer dates. I can only perform so long anyway and you end up paying top dollar to talk and drink with someone. You can meet up with other hobbyists and even if you got stuck with the bar tab or dinner tab you would spend a lot less.
Jalimon is SPOT ON . I don’t always agree with you but man you said exactly word to word what i would say ahahahah !
I agree as well! Fly is fit!
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