Jalimon, based on your posts & posts about you, you are a man of great charisma & I think many SPs are pleased to see you. Words can be an effective form of foreplay, but I think you are probably much more of a man of action. For me - I am happy to recite a poem if it puts a more passionate woman in a better mood. Hell, I would sing O Canada if it would contribute to a better response from the lady. For me, I need to visit for a little while to get comfortable anyway. I guess that's the most important preparation for a visit to an SP - I've got to be myself & be comfortable. My partner can't relax if I can't do so myself.