What is more dangerous?

[jalimon]

Ok, all this porn is getting out of hand, and pun is intended...I get much more excited from a women wearing clothes then when they are naked, a women wearing tight jeans, a white sheer silky buttoned down blouse, with the first couple of buttons undone so you get a peak of the top of her breasts every time she leans forward, always has me walking around with a hard on. Hell, i went to the bank yesterday, a very pretty young lady, nice smile,full silky smooth lips, green eyes,her hair was brown, up in a pony tail, slightly tight olive green buttoned down blouse, sleeves rolled up, proportionally fitting black slacks, and as she counted the cash, her breasts swaying back and forth, getting a glimpse of her red bra strap every other second was enough for me to walk out of there with a half a woody, i know i am a pig, but my point is, if you have a structural imagination, let it run wild. Just think, when you watch porn, its naked people having sex, but when a woman is wearing cloths, she is at her sexiest, the curves, the mystery of it all, the fun of later having the pleasure of sharing in helping her disrobe, slowly.

Ok, im done.


Thor Jr

Right on! If you think you are a pig because you admire and get half erection by looking at sexy clothed women in real life situation, then I am a major pig myself, and proud of it!

This is the reason I am always disappointed when SP receives you already naked (or almost). I love it when they are fully clothed, even if the outfit is not sexy I don't care, I will get to discover, that is what exites me!

Cheers,

 

[Mithridate]

Hi Thor Jr
You are not a pig if you are I am one also, and there would be countless of pigs out there, ISIS would be scared by us, what you describe is surely arousing, especially in summer and the physical reaction depend of the age, at my age i am mentally aroused, but the body do not react as if I was 30, but still it is indeed pleasing.
However, as I said in this thread Porn is a tool, when its winter at -20C on a Sunday night and you have an urge, its difficult to find what you describe, so porn will do the job at least in part, I bought some tools also very effective, and when i watch, what excite me the most is two lady together, am i a deviant for that, no, I have 3 principle, Be in accord with what you do, never justify yourself, and never judge ( the last one is sometime tough)
Qapla
M.

 

[FreeG]

If I got caught watching porn by my SO, she'd be disappointed, maybe a little pissed, but we'd get over it. If I got caught with an SP, it'd be all over. So in that sense, seeing SPs is more dangerous.

But I think porn is potentially more "insidious". I've gone thru periods where I spent over an hour a night watching porn. Looking back, what a waste! (come to think of it, I've spent about 30min on MERB already....yikes!) Anyway, my point is that like others have said, it can be addictive, partially because it is SO easy and cheap. If done in moderation, its a nice distraction or break or, I think, gets the libido going, adds to fantasy, etc. But done in excess, its a time waster plus many of the issues others have stated.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Merb is more addictive lol,
actually a middle ground:less interaction than sp but more then porn,if one doesn't talk to himself lol

 

[friz888]

Merb is more addictive lol,
actually a middle ground:less interaction than sp but more then porn,if one doesn't talk to himself lol

I talk to myself all the time, for the sake of improving my english, sometimes repeat movie scenes in my mind, sometimes just imagine what I would like to talk about and rehearsal it, so when I actually get the chance I wouldn't sound stupid.

It actually helped a bit.

 

[ct320]

I think porn is more dangerous, because you can easily find a lot of videos on internet and spend a lot of time at watching videos. And you don't really develop your social skills by watching porn

 

[CLOUD 500]

Arizona is the nastiest state in the United States when it comes to prosecuting prostitution cases (this was an old case, but it involved s stunning release of the client list, something the federal government and other states don’t do).

Not surprised as Arizona is one of the most conservative state in the US.

 

[Bred Sob]

Not surprised as Arizona is one of the most conservative state in the US.

This claim is demonstrably false.

https://content.gallup.com/origin/gallupinc/GallupSpaces/Production/Cms/POLL/8eqallhjmkup6qbzxsysza.png

 

[CLOUD 500]

This claim is demonstrably false.

https://content.gallup.com/origin/gallupinc/GallupSpaces/Production/Cms/POLL/8eqallhjmkup6qbzxsysza.png

Not at all

https://www.forbes.com/pictures/gfii45img/most-conservative-no-1/#24f2fd01792a

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Cloud, you mentioned Arizona is one of the most Conservative "states" which is false and you come back with a "city" example.
Google what you want but nothing shows Arizona as one of the most Conservative states. Majority Conservative yes but that is about it.

 

[Gil Grissom]

It all depends on which is doing the most harm to you. If you are bankrupting yourself with the hobby then you need help. Porn may be obsessing you to a point where there is nothing else in your life.

 

[hungry101]

Which is more dangerous...Hmmmm! If you are are caught surfing porn on your work station or you miss a meeting or two or can't get sleep at night due to surfing porn and you lose your six-figure income prematurely, then I would say porn is worse than prostitutes. If you catch something and pass it on to your significant other or if you are caught by a police decoy and your name and face is made public on the 6 O'clock news and you lose your six-figure job then I would say the hobby is worse than porn.

All things in moderation. Moderation is the key.

 

[Ponce de León]

People can drink alcohol all their life and not have it affect them negatively. It is when it drains their time or money that they have to be worried. Porn and hobbying is the same. Do not let it take over your life.