What is the definition of GFE for you ?
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Non, ça c'est comme dans l'expression, je t'expliquerai.
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I noticed on this forum that some people see GFE differently than others peoples's opinion of GFE. Some think a session is GFE if DFK is included and some don't care.
How about you? What do you think?
For me, my definition of GFE is after when the sex is done, the SP is willing to chill/relax with you, talks with you during the remainder of your session like she's your girlfriend, and she's cool with you. And also, you can tell she's enjoying the moment... almost as though you two already know each other for a long time.
I met some SPs where it felt like that. Most recently with Leyla at Euphoria. She was cool to hang out with, after the sex and she was totally down and enthusiastic to socialize. She felt like a friend to me.
Also... while I think DFK is cool, it's not my no.1 priority.
How about you? What do you think?
For me, my definition of GFE is after when the sex is done, the SP is willing to chill/relax with you, talks with you during the remainder of your session like she's your girlfriend, and she's cool with you. And also, you can tell she's enjoying the moment... almost as though you two already know each other for a long time.
I met some SPs where it felt like that. Most recently with Leyla at Euphoria. She was cool to hang out with, after the sex and she was totally down and enthusiastic to socialize. She felt like a friend to me.
Also... while I think DFK is cool, it's not my no.1 priority.
For me GFE is when DFK and BBBJ is offered. If only DFK with CBJ, then it is safe GFE.
GFE is a gentleman allowing me to come to our date with my hair up, sweatpants and no makeup. Now that would be the ultimate GFE
More seriously I would say, everything you’d wish to do with a girlfriend as long as it’s safe so: kissing (light and deep), massage, conversations, MSOG if time and energy allows, cuddles and overall just a laidback session.
I cannot include BBBJ in that because I know some people that practice CBJ with their actual boyfriends.
More seriously I would say, everything you’d wish to do with a girlfriend as long as it’s safe so: kissing (light and deep), massage, conversations, MSOG if time and energy allows, cuddles and overall just a laidback session.
I cannot include BBBJ in that because I know some people that practice CBJ with their actual boyfriends.
yes to all this but it also need to include the "stupid list". At least, she has to be open to it, when her conditions are met.
We all know, us the decent gentlemen, hygiene will play a big part in her decision so, if I do, meet her hygiene standards( and vice-versa), I will certainly be turned off if I see that, she tries to make all kind of odd excuses not to go on with it.
GFE at its very basic definition in the hobby is objective I believe. It just means LFK/DFK, BBBJ, MPOS, and that's it. That is GFE
I agree with Cloud, but what will make it even more GFE is when she will blast you if you look at or talk about another girl. (especially Asians in parlors)
Very relevant, I’ll add that to my thread on the dos donts, tricks and tips
thank you!
hum...rendu à un certain âge...loll.....c'est de passer un bon /plaisant moment ensemble combinant agréable compagnie /intimité et petits moments coquins...reloll....et pour moi le plaisir de l'autre is as much important than mine...et ça toujours été comme ça.
Passionate DFK, DFK and BBBJ and of course lot of respect from both sides.
I understand both sides of the argument on what GFE could be. I mean if you go strickly on the words themselves, there is a debate to interpretation. And yes going trough acronymes do not guarentee pleasure or a good experience.
That said, using the universal code for GFE being BBBJ, Kissing and Daty just make it so much easier to read ads or inquire without wasting anybody's time. Personally i can adapt to different style of sessions. I can enjoy a more "PSE aproach" as in lets bang, fake moan, dirty talk etc, but i can also enjoy a sensual more warm session. I try to gauge a bit how the provider behave and see where it go. Im adaptive on that side. BUT the BASE acronymes are ...well the base, for me. I have no interest in a CBJ and a session without AT LEAST some light kissing would feel weird. Its what make me hard and THEN i pull my pants down lol. I need a bit of foreplay. Even a PSE session i want that. if you ever looked at a Brazzer skit and scene, most of them start by kissing as well, PSE or not lol.
So basically i like to make sure an indy or agency is "GFE" before wasting my and her time contacting them. PSE on the other hand is much more open to interpretation. But for the years i been doing this in Montreal GFE always related to the 3 base services while someone that would not be GFE would list themselves as "providing full service" or in french "le service complet". Some also use "safe gfe" maybe because they offer as some of you point out, a more girlfriend attitude but without the acronyme. I think everyone that see "Safe-GFE" knows what it mean as well so im fine with it to differenciate.
I know some providers will probably read this and say "im sure i could make you leave very happy even with a CBJ". Yes its possible. But considering the frequency i meet and the options in Montreal, i rather go for what i enjoy the most directly. If i was booking once a week, i would surely squeeze some non-gfe encounters in there sometimes
That said, using the universal code for GFE being BBBJ, Kissing and Daty just make it so much easier to read ads or inquire without wasting anybody's time. Personally i can adapt to different style of sessions. I can enjoy a more "PSE aproach" as in lets bang, fake moan, dirty talk etc, but i can also enjoy a sensual more warm session. I try to gauge a bit how the provider behave and see where it go. Im adaptive on that side. BUT the BASE acronymes are ...well the base, for me. I have no interest in a CBJ and a session without AT LEAST some light kissing would feel weird. Its what make me hard and THEN i pull my pants down lol. I need a bit of foreplay. Even a PSE session i want that. if you ever looked at a Brazzer skit and scene, most of them start by kissing as well, PSE or not lol.
So basically i like to make sure an indy or agency is "GFE" before wasting my and her time contacting them. PSE on the other hand is much more open to interpretation. But for the years i been doing this in Montreal GFE always related to the 3 base services while someone that would not be GFE would list themselves as "providing full service" or in french "le service complet". Some also use "safe gfe" maybe because they offer as some of you point out, a more girlfriend attitude but without the acronyme. I think everyone that see "Safe-GFE" knows what it mean as well so im fine with it to differenciate.
I know some providers will probably read this and say "im sure i could make you leave very happy even with a CBJ". Yes its possible. But considering the frequency i meet and the options in Montreal, i rather go for what i enjoy the most directly. If i was booking once a week, i would surely squeeze some non-gfe encounters in there sometimes
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