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What is the definition of GFE for you ?
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I understand both sides of the argument on what GFE could be. I mean if you go strickly on the words themselves, there is a debate to interpretation. And yes going trough acronymes do not guarentee pleasure or a good experience.
That said, using the universal code for GFE being BBBJ, Kissing and Daty just make it so much easier to read ads or inquire without wasting anybody's time. Personally i can adapt to different style of sessions. I can enjoy a more "PSE aproach" as in lets bang, fake moan, dirty talk etc, but i can also enjoy a sensual more warm session. I try to gauge a bit how the provider behave and see where it go. Im adaptive on that side. BUT the BASE acronymes are ...well the base, for me. I have no interest in a CBJ and a session without AT LEAST some light kissing would feel weird. Its what make me hard and THEN i pull my pants down lol. I need a bit of foreplay. Even a PSE session i want that. if you ever looked at a Brazzer skit and scene, most of them start by kissing as well, PSE or not lol.
So basically i like to make sure an indy or agency is "GFE" before wasting my and her time contacting them. PSE on the other hand is much more open to interpretation. But for the years i been doing this in Montreal GFE always related to the 3 base services while someone that would not be GFE would list themselves as "providing full service" or in french "le service complet". Some also use "safe gfe" maybe because they offer as some of you point out, a more girlfriend attitude but without the acronyme. I think everyone that see "Safe-GFE" knows what it mean as well so im fine with it to differenciate.
I know some providers will probably read this and say "im sure i could make you leave very happy even with a CBJ". Yes its possible. But considering the frequency i meet and the options in Montreal, i rather go for what i enjoy the most directly. If i was booking once a week, i would surely squeeze some non-gfe encounters in there sometimes
That said, using the universal code for GFE being BBBJ, Kissing and Daty just make it so much easier to read ads or inquire without wasting anybody's time. Personally i can adapt to different style of sessions. I can enjoy a more "PSE aproach" as in lets bang, fake moan, dirty talk etc, but i can also enjoy a sensual more warm session. I try to gauge a bit how the provider behave and see where it go. Im adaptive on that side. BUT the BASE acronymes are ...well the base, for me. I have no interest in a CBJ and a session without AT LEAST some light kissing would feel weird. Its what make me hard and THEN i pull my pants down lol. I need a bit of foreplay. Even a PSE session i want that. if you ever looked at a Brazzer skit and scene, most of them start by kissing as well, PSE or not lol.
So basically i like to make sure an indy or agency is "GFE" before wasting my and her time contacting them. PSE on the other hand is much more open to interpretation. But for the years i been doing this in Montreal GFE always related to the 3 base services while someone that would not be GFE would list themselves as "providing full service" or in french "le service complet". Some also use "safe gfe" maybe because they offer as some of you point out, a more girlfriend attitude but without the acronyme. I think everyone that see "Safe-GFE" knows what it mean as well so im fine with it to differenciate.
I know some providers will probably read this and say "im sure i could make you leave very happy even with a CBJ". Yes its possible. But considering the frequency i meet and the options in Montreal, i rather go for what i enjoy the most directly. If i was booking once a week, i would surely squeeze some non-gfe encounters in there sometimes
I'm not sure what you mean by FWB experience may have DFK 'but has low priority'. Low priority in what sense? What would be the difference between FWB and GF experience?
I've never really heard anyone bring up FWB so just curious what each one would look like or how you would differentiate the two.
No but that's what I'm asking lol what is your interpretation? I'm just not sure I understand, that's why I'm asking
Some years back I had a regular thing going with an SP who I laughingly referred to as the Jealous Girlfriend Experience. She had no patience for clients who strayed with other SPs.
Man I miss that girl.
Man I miss that girl.
That's as close to GFE as you are gonna get, lol
A list of activities is not what gfe is. That is just basic service. Gfe is the expierience of comfort and familiarity an sp can provide.
This is an endless debate. I do agree with you but when agencies state that this girl or that girl is GFE (or else), they mostly refer to the services she provides
They do. But doesn't mean they are correct in calling it GFE then. It means they are misusing what it actually stands for. Because a gf doesn't make you feel like a transaction, a gf doesn't walk out the door the moment you cum and a gf, well a good gf doesn't make you feel rushed, on edge, or like you don't matter.
Refering to GFE is refering to a kind of expierience. And if they use GFE just to state a series of what is allowed in the bedroom, a GFE honestly is meant to be an expierience like being with a gf. And if your gf treated a guy the way some of them do. They wouldn't be gf's for long. So it a form of false advertising to call it that then. In my personal oppinion.
And is why I personally avoid men who are looking for a basic service, and aren't looking for GFE. Personally i find it insulting to be dismissed the moment he climaxes, and often won't return to the client the next time he contacts when that is how it goes down.
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Well said, I totally agree. For me, GFE is more about the total experience, than just the sex part. GFE is when the lady makes you feel wanted, it’s not rushed, we enjoy talking and cuddling afterwards, there’s intimacy, etc.
I’ll take that over a lady that promises a bunch of acronyms, but gives a rushed service and there is very little intimacy.
My 2 cents!
Well said, I totally agree. For me, GFE is more about the total experience, than just the sex part. GFE is when the lady makes you feel wanted, it’s not rushed, we enjoy talking and cuddling afterwards, there’s intimacy, etc.
I’ll take that over a lady that promises a bunch of acronyms, but gives a rushed service and there is very little intimacy.
My 2 cents!
Kiss me to some extent (no need to DFK until tongues touch stomachs, but show some affection), be sweet, cuddle, then have good sex with no rush and go with the flow. My definition of GFE can lead to wild sex or it can be really slow pace and simple. Each time can be different.
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