What is the definition of GFE for you ?
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I noticed on this forum that some people see GFE differently than others peoples's opinion of GFE. Some think a session is GFE if DFK is included and some don't care.
How about you? What do you think?
For me, my definition of GFE is after when the sex is done, the SP is willing to chill/relax with you, talks with you during the remainder of your session like she's your girlfriend, and she's cool with you. And also, you can tell she's enjoying the moment... almost as though you two already know each other for a long time.
I met some SPs where it felt like that. Most recently with Leyla at Euphoria. She was cool to hang out with, after the sex and she was totally down and enthusiastic to socialize. She felt like a friend to me.
Also... while I think DFK is cool, it's not my no.1 priority.
How about you? What do you think?
For me, my definition of GFE is after when the sex is done, the SP is willing to chill/relax with you, talks with you during the remainder of your session like she's your girlfriend, and she's cool with you. And also, you can tell she's enjoying the moment... almost as though you two already know each other for a long time.
I met some SPs where it felt like that. Most recently with Leyla at Euphoria. She was cool to hang out with, after the sex and she was totally down and enthusiastic to socialize. She felt like a friend to me.
Also... while I think DFK is cool, it's not my no.1 priority.
For me GFE is when DFK and BBBJ is offered. If only DFK with CBJ, then it is safe GFE.
GFE is a gentleman allowing me to come to our date with my hair up, sweatpants and no makeup. Now that would be the ultimate GFE
More seriously I would say, everything you’d wish to do with a girlfriend as long as it’s safe so: kissing (light and deep), massage, conversations, MSOG if time and energy allows, cuddles and overall just a laidback session.
I cannot include BBBJ in that because I know some people that practice CBJ with their actual boyfriends.
More seriously I would say, everything you’d wish to do with a girlfriend as long as it’s safe so: kissing (light and deep), massage, conversations, MSOG if time and energy allows, cuddles and overall just a laidback session.
I cannot include BBBJ in that because I know some people that practice CBJ with their actual boyfriends.
yes to all this but it also need to include the "stupid list". At least, she has to be open to it, when her conditions are met.
We all know, us the decent gentlemen, hygiene will play a big part in her decision so, if I do, meet her hygiene standards( and vice-versa), I will certainly be turned off if I see that, she tries to make all kind of odd excuses not to go on with it.
GFE at its very basic definition in the hobby is objective I believe. It just means LFK/DFK, BBBJ, MPOS, and that's it. That is GFE
I agree with Cloud, but what will make it even more GFE is when she will blast you if you look at or talk about another girl. (especially Asians in parlors)
This is so funny but actually so accurate. Being 100% myself with a Mr; not stressing to do all the acronyms and positions in the world and laughing out loud about something embarrassing that just happened is such a good way to describe a GFE. Pleasing each other; Cuddling and having a conversation after intercourse. Yes the GFE includes some practices but it should come naturally not demanding ABSOLUTELY for it to happen ( even though we know it will happen). It’s the illusion of making love to your girlfriend. Or even seeing me with my bonnet (lol) ready to go to bed for an overnight; sleeping close to each other and waking up with messy hair and puffy eyes .
*Disclaimer : I think ( PERSONALLY) it’s okay to lightly describe (not trying to sex text with us for free) what you are looking for as an experience while inquiring so that we ( SP ) can know if we are okay to offer it as GFE or if we consider that as an extra. But asking for a « menu » or what do you include in your rate or what’s your service is a little harsh and sounds a little bit like « I’m comparing what you offer in your rate to other SP and I will choose the cheapest with a lot more things available ».
I do know some people don’t want to have that much of intimacy with an SP ( you can get attached ) and are there purely for the physical part and that’s okay. But you should still respectfully ask for WHAT you want. Respectful and straightforward. Don’t make us make a list of things we offer because we may offer less when you inquire and have more restrictions but offers A lot more when we met and we physically clicked.
Example of how to ask ( my opinion ) : « thank you for answering my inquiry. I was wondering if you offer natural oral sex on both of us and French kiss » or « I was wondering if you offer Daty; DFK; bbbj and possibly MSOG in your services » instead of « can you describe me how a session will be »; or « what do you include in your service » or « what’s the menu and restrictions »
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Very relevant, I’ll add that to my thread on the dos donts, tricks and tips
thank you!
hum...rendu à un certain âge...loll.....c'est de passer un bon /plaisant moment ensemble combinant agréable compagnie /intimité et petits moments coquins...reloll....et pour moi le plaisir de l'autre is as much important than mine...et ça toujours été comme ça.
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