I'm always the one that gets dumped and never the other way around lol.
I know a Muslim girl that would ask for bacon every time she came to my house, true story!I know a Muslim girl who broke up with a man because he was eating bacon and didn’t want to stop for her.
She knew this before they started dating so I don’t know what she was expecting
well I understand more this reason than the legs training!youre pretty much on the ''spinner''sides I try to figure out what about the legs training lolllll....nothing negative,im just wondering lollllI know a Muslim girl who broke up with a man because he was eating bacon and didn’t want to stop for her.
She knew this before they started dating so I don’t know what she was expecting
Lying to a person is a sign of disrespect. It’s to take them for fools. And the person probably already suspects that you’re lying to them or will figure it out eventually. And once they’ve caught you lying to them they’ll always suspect you may be lying to them even if you’re telling the truth, which can be very irritating to you when you’re 100% telling the truth & no one believes you.Not petty whatsoever, but never lie to anybody who trust you and don’t trust anybody who lies to you
I’m in that exact same similar situation with a provider as well. Compulsive lying, but in my mind, it’s for her own protection, so I’ve somewhat let it go, but for me the “relationship” doesn’t work anymore. I’m not stupid. I know what’s up and at some point you think the other person would compromise just a little bit and stop with the lies but oh well to each their own.Lying to a person is a sign of disrespect. It’s to take them for fools. And the person probably already suspects that you’re lying to them or will figure it out eventually. And once they’ve caught you lying to them they’ll always suspect you may be lying to them even if you’re telling the truth, which can be very irritating to you when you’re 100% telling the truth & no one believes you.
One time an sp i was once very fond of repeatedly lied to me & to most of her clients. The worse thing to happen to her was that many of her clients who had caught on to her lies began to chat together & compare notes. We all realized that she was a compulsive liar. Always lying for no reason other than to lie. She seemed to be allergic to telling the truth. Finally one day we were together & getting ready to go out to dinner when the subject was brought up. She remembered something i had recently told her where i casually alluded to the fact that i’ll accept whatever she said although i didn’t believe a word of it but it was no big deal. So before we went out she said this had been troubling her for the past two weeks & wanted to have a discussion about it. I said no since discussing it would upset her & I didn’t want to ruin our evening. I told her it was no big deal & not to make a big case out of nothing. But no, she refused to leave the room until we discussed the reference i had previously made. So she promised that she wouldn’t get upset. I told her she would. She said she would remain calm.
So she then said “you think i was lying about that thing i told you, right?” So i replied “Yes, you lied 100%! Like you always do! You’re addicted to lying! You can’t help yourself!” She replied “I didn’t lie. I never lie.” So i gave her the proof of how i knew she had lied. And then she absolutely blew up! So i told her i was right: she’d get upset. And she was shouting that she wasn’t upset at all! Lol. Finally she admitted that she had made up some story. But that she hadn’t lied. So i told her “ See? You just lied again.” Then she went on a tirade that she felt that she was in a big brother tv show where everyone knew everything about her & that it wasn’t fair to her that we were comparing notes & accusing her of lying & that she didn’t lie! So i told her okay, she admitted to lying & making up some bogus story but in her mind she wasn’t lying & wanted me to believe that she wasn’t a liar although she had just admitted to making up stories & lying to her clients for multiple reasons. “Okay my dear, you are not a liar & you never lie. Happy now? So let’s go out to dinner.” And we went out to dinner.
Her lies & stupid bogus excuses never stopped & i then started to realize that either she’s some narcissistic sociopath or thinks i’m just a fucking idiot! We stopped talking to one another for a few years over some stupid disagreement & to be honest it was a relief. The worst thing is to get yourself involved with a compulsive liar with narcissistic sociopathic tendencies!
Good point. We did argue a lot for the stupidest reasons! LolThis sounds like a marriage more than an SP/client relationship hahah
I don't understand how this can be discovered so much later? Unless you mean like by the 2nd / 3rd date.-Several times i dated attractive women whom i ended up discovering were also smokers. This has always been a no-no for me. So i stopped dating them.