What made you try it first

[Mistral]

Great story hungry. Yellow pages omg I can't imagine.

My start more or less coincided with the beginning of escort forums in the late 90s, so I never had to resort to yellow pages.

Before escorts I started with strip clubs and massages. One of my earliest memories was a strip club in Indianapolis in 1998 when I was traveling. I decided I was finally going to try a lap dance for the first time. I was kind of nervous. I asked a beautiful brunette who gladly agreed. We waited for the song to end. She sat beside me topless, with her beautiful natural breasts on display. I tried not to stare. I couldn't believe I was actually doing this. In the private dance area she moved her beautiful body all over me and blew in my ear. I was kind of in heaven. I couldn't resist going with another girl and it was the same. I remember distinctly telling myself... you mean I just have to pay some $ and I can experience THIS ?

Since then... between clubs and MPs and SPs I have spent time with probably close to 1000 women in 15-20 countries. Thanks to Al Gore for creating the internet lol.

 

[Mistral]

But it's fighting with the "I don't wanna pay to have sex" idea.

Oh I totally get that. I went through that phase a little bit. But I'm a practical man, and already knowing that I wanted variety and quality, I asked myself how else would I achieve that? The answer was obvious to me. It depends what you want in life. Porn is pretty damn good too. So is abstinence, if that's what inspires you.

 

[acoly]

Got out of a long relationship a few months ago, was a waste of some of good years (plus the sex, if any, was mediocre at best). Bad break up on top too. Im also very busy in my professional life now, so started seeing SPs and MPs to offload, see a variety of girls, and get more experience. I also want to use this time to cross a bunch of stuff off my bucklet list until I start dating again.

 

[ryorin]

haha don't be sorry for the advice Jalimon, but yeah I've been 12 years with someone and now i just celebrated my 30 two weeks ago... Never been single , so never been on Tinder also.

 

[MrProfiteroles]

The next day, a couple of colleagues arrived. The bell captain at the Omni sent us to the Grand Prix FS bar which was off island. It was a mind blower. We were all sworn to secrecy. I had sex in a booth with a girl that out of a scale from 1 - 10 was a 10,000!!!!! This was the type of girl I wanted but it still was a CBJ.

Haha! I have been there few times too! This place was own by the bikers and have been shutdown about the same time of SharQ operation. Yeap CBJ, digit, CG and RCG. I was always waiting a little bit before picking the prettiest stripper after all of them come to see me first. I still remember the pipe system with sucsion they use to throw the condom after the stripper clean you up with a baby wipes. This is the reason I started the hobby, I wanted more than what the strippers were offering!

 

[hungry101]

Great story hungry. Yellow pages omg I can't imagine.
My start more or less coincided with the beginning of escort forums in the late 90s, so I never had to resort to yellow pages.
One of my earliest memories was a strip club in Indianapolis in 1998 f... you mean I just have to pay some $ and I can experience THIS ?
Thanks to Al Gore for creating the internet lol.

Haha...I could have easily written about my trip to the Indy 500 in 1987 and a great strip club where the ladies gave DFK as part of their dance. That same weekend I saw a girl walking at 100 yards and I said to my friends "street walker" and I ran after her. She was another blond mulatto and she looked pretty good. She was staying at the same motel as we were and I got a BBBJ from her. I walked back to the room and over the next few hours, my other three friends walked down to see her and got BBBJs. That was one of my earliest pay-of-play experiences and while it relieved some stress, it was nothing like a Montreal GFE session.

Just a note - I can't remember when I started to rely on the Internet. There was a time when I wouldn't dare go on the net because I thought I would get busted by using my corporate laptop. I didn't realize that they were only going to bust me if I was on the corporate server so I clung to the Yellow Pages for a long time. Also, you would get these pop-ups from porn on your work computer....It was about 2006-2007 before I dared go out on the Web to look for pay-for-play sex.

Haha!. I still remember the pipe system with sucsion they use to throw the condom after the stripper clean you up with a baby wipes. This is the reason I started the hobby,

Mr. Profit - This was my first weekend in Montreal and it was the first time I walked away from a pay-for-play session and didn't feel cheated. I couldn't believe that something like the Grand Prix really existed. It was beautiful. My friends and I still talk about it today. In fact, the name of the city that the Grand Prix was located has become a verb among us three for searching for professional pussy (We miss pronounce it as Rochelle). That was my first really good pay-for-play experience and I wanted more.

I remember the suction system too. Money want in one tube and used condoms the other I believe (am I wrong?). It was like having a vacuum from the car wash in the booth. Maybe the drive through at the bank is a better analogy.

 

[Dr. Richard Kimball]

The 2/1 coupon that came in the Publisac.

 

[sexdor]

I was the typical curious teenager buying magazines , then I came across the theaters only showing Porn and went in a few times but rarely, no internet back then. When I was still young working in Construction the crew would go in to the Strip joint for lunch on occasion. This then lead me eventually to the Strip joint across from the Orange Julep... Sexe D'or ( where I took my handle ...just made it one word ) We were regulars at this place and it was, back then like Cheers, and had a great atmosphere and was just fun going in and seeing old friends and chatting with the girls...no contact back then and it was far less seedy .
From there I progressed to trying it for the first time in my twenties. I remember it well, we all do, my first time picking up a girl on St Catherine east of Place des Arts...she took me up into this Hotel right there which was like something out of the stereotypical movie setting inside of it and I felt like Hauldon Caufield in Catcher in the Rye !!.
I just have never stopped and have been lobbying for over 35 years now and seen the industry go through huge changes obviously in terms of marketing. Back then it was either meeting someone on the street or the Yellow Pages. Then came the Mirror with the ads at the back and then the internet explosion. The parties or get togethers were more common back then as long time members will recall....Hotel de La Montagne ring a bell.
I have probably lasted so long because I have always kept it in perspective and have never gone overboard as many many do. Its like anything , in moderation is the key. Many hobbyists go nuts spending far far too much money splurging on one girl after another and usually after a few years go bankrupt or just burnout. I average maybe once a month, sometimes two and have been like this always. Gone long periods zero and then come back but never in excess. Met a lot of nice women over the years and have become friends with some. One former SP we are friends 15 years later and go out for dinner just as old friends do once to twice a year and just chat .
I imagine there are a few , not many , out there have pretty similar stories as mine .

 

[gologill]

For me my first experience wasn't really plan. I was at the Solid Gold strip club wich I was going to quite often back in the beginning of the 2000s since I was working evening shift and I was living right behind the solid gold.

On night I was in a boot with a really nice blonde with a perfect body stripper. After like 3 dances I told it was enough and she try to convince me to stay for more like they always do. I said no it's ok since it will only make me want to fuck her more, then she told me that since I was a nice guy she would love to gome home with me to have sex if I gave her 200$ then. She was so beautiful that I jumped on the occasion. So I gave her my adress and went to get some money and went home waiting for her wich I wasn't really sure she would come to see me.

To my suprise she came to my place and I had the best sex I had ever had to this point in my life. We've seen each other quite often after even sometimes when I didn't had enough money she would come to my place for some free sex. Even one day I wasn't at the bar and she text me to know if she could come see me, i said ok but I am low on cash then she told me no problem she just want to have fun and she made enoigh at the bar. When she arrived to my surprise she had brough one of her sexy stripper friends with her. Wow I had my first threesome and it was so incredible. I have seen her very often someting paying sometime free and some other threesome she's the one who got me into this.

When she stop and made a boyfriend I started seeing girl in mp first and after sp too. Since then I am still seeing girl when I have the extra money to do so.

 

[J. R. Ewing]

I tried it the first time in my 30s. I became a free agent and wanted to try a few things I never tried before.

 

[wonderlust]

Tire of jerking off to porn and get callus on my jerking hand and I didn't want to be a Shyman anymore

 

[azzaro]

Your first escort experience in Montreal (Let's hear it from ALL of you at MERB)

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Mine was in 2002. ABC incall. Downtown Montreal.

She was Italian and nice. She kinda knew after I talked for a minute that it might be my first time with an escort in Montreal.

I was clumsy but she was patient. I had not had sex for over 5 years (was in the USA. 'nuff said)

:smile:

 

[Bbw hunter]

If we are talking escorts as opposed to streetwalkers then I guess the first time would have been in 1989. I had been with some red light district girls but the first actual escort was someone I met on Ste Catherine street. It was a beautiful hot spring night and I had just finished work and was enjoying the sight of scantily clad women downtown. I spotted one tall blond with a slender but curvy body walking in front of me. She had high heels and the tightest short skirt that actually made her ass sway from side to side. Also had spiky hair...it was the 80s after all. Had no idea she was an sp...just thought she was a hot chick and I wanted to meet her! Caught up to her and struck up a conversation. Told me she was a stripper who did escorting on the side and gave me her number. A few days later I met her at her apt in NDG and we made hot monkey love! She told me I could have MSOG for the hour and back then I was still young enough to pull that off lol. There was plenty of intense dfk and the windows were wide open bc it was warm....the whole neighborhood must have heard her screaming her head off! The damage was $200 which was alot for 1989. I remember one of my buddies thought I was crazy to pay that much, but she was so worth it!

 

[Dude824]

My first escort experience was in March of this year; a one-hour outcall to the cheapest AirBnB I could find in downtown Montreal. I booked Nikita from Vogue (now Elena @ XO). The details are in her outcall review thread, but the bottom line is I learned I'm better off doing incalls.

As far as what led me to try it, I'd say I decided it was worth a try after I had a fun time during my first erotic massage, which was at La Suite 300 the month prior.

I went to the MP after discovering erotic massage parlours were a thing in Montreal while planning a getaway there earlier this year. As an American, I was pleasantly surprised to learn such services were legal and available just north of the border.

 

[testingsite]

Mine was in summer 2017. I went to an independent SP incall location in downtown Montreal. Since, it was my first time seeing an escort and was not a member of merb at that time, I was so afraid of getting busted by LE. Here is some funny conversations with SP I still remember
SP asked: "How old are you? Is it your first time seeing an escort?" I answered: "No, not my first time. I just look a little young" - Lied about it and tried to act cool
Before starting, I took a shower. When I came out from washroom SP asked "Why have you put your clothes back on after taking a shower?" I answered "hmm..I am little shy "
SP starts to do BBBJ and I lasted about couple of seconds. SP say "Wow! I did not expect that. Do not you do any masturbation at home?" I answered "no, i do not". - It was true BTW.

Overall, SP was really nice the whole time but I was nervous, inexperience and did a lot of stupid things.

 

[TheJames101]

I had not had sex for over 5 years (was in the USA. 'nuff said)

People in the USA don't have sex?

 

[azzaro]

People in the USA don't have sex?

LOL. They do. But most American fuckable hottie girls are gold-diggers/prudes these days (American hottie fuckables...10% gold-diggers and 90% prudes) ..

IT IS ONLY the guys with a lotta dough or above average looks that get laid WITH AMERICAN Fuckable hottie girls these days...I would say 10% of the American guys FUCK 90% of the fuckable Hottie American girls...It's been like that since the late 1970s...

And No..An average guy..in the right place at the right time....DOES NOT stand a chance getting laid with American hotties (because of above reasons)...USA might be the ONLY western country with such a phenomenon...!!

Most of 1960s and 70s are a different story....There was American hottie fuckable pussy everywhere for almost ALL American-Canadian guys.

I lived for almost 15 years in the USA off and on for the past 40 years...NO..it was not in southern California...

 

[Bbw hunter]

Interesting theory Azzaro. I used to get laid regularly when I went to the USA, or when American girls used to come here to flood the bars during summer or on New Year's eve. American girls never struck me as being particularly uptight. Just curious...which State were you living in? Lol.

 

[azzaro]

Interesting theory Azzaro. I used to get laid regularly when I went to the USA, or when American girls used to come here to flood the bars during summer or on New Year's eve. American girls never struck me as being particularly uptight. Just curious...which State were you living in? Lol.

I lived ALL over the big cities in Nebraska, Minnesota and Michigan. American girls coming to Canada...that might be less than 1 in 10,000 of them (very few Americans travel to Canada). Those girls coming to bars on the Canadian side might be the ones that are in a class by themselves....the "travelling Hos"...as I might call them. There is no "whoring" accepted in USA...so they come to Canada to do it...perfectly understandable...that's the reason Romanian girls come to Germany to work in FKKs..cuz "Romania" is home...and they don't wanna be called whores. These "Travelling Hos" from the USA might be the ones that can be called "bitches"..who want to have sex but could not where they lived in the USA. These are the ones "with" the money..so they don't need money. They need lots of sex. Do they still come over ...to Canada?...

Watering holes in USA are expensive (except for College bars) .... and ALL you see these days ..past 2 decades at least...is hundreds of girls in "groups" . The ones out of them that are fuckable Hotties...are NOT looking for sex..with average guys..which are 90% of the America males in the 25-50 age group.

Only very good looking guys and guys with a deep pocket may have a chance in the USA these days to get laid with hotties. I have observed this phenomenon for the past 2 decades... of "Epstein-type" dudes and "super-hunks" being swarmed by hotties and most average guys "in the corner just looking"....in hundreds of bars and venues in the 3 states..plus 7 others.... The rest of American guys...90% of the American males in the 25-50 age group....are average..money and looks wise ...use the 10 billion dollar porn industry to satisfy their needs.

American women are the most "superficial" women...for this reason...and most males in this world..know it if they have ever dealth with American women for at least 2 years.

 

[hungry101]

Interesting theory Azzaro. I used to get laid regularly when I went to the USA, or when American girls used to come here to flood the bars during summer or on New Year's eve. American girls never struck me as being particularly uptight. Just curious...which State were you living in? Lol.

It's only lately with the #MeToo movement and before that, with what has been happening on college campuses. .