What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

[Cubbie]

I spent 95% of my time making my "big head" happy.

I spent 5% of my time making my "little head" happy.

This ratio used to be reversed in my 20s.

Since I no longer have the time and energy to chase after girls in social settings, this hobby is the next best thing.

In its lowest form, It's a release, it keeps me sane.

At its best, it's enlightening and invigorating, almost life re-affirming.

As with any other pleasure-seeking activity, the key is to enjoy it, but also keep it in perspective and not overdo it.

Easier said than done.

 

[testing1]

I don't see them much now as I am dating someone but I would consider myself decent looking in late 20s and no real problem dating but I like my job and pays well so I can easily afford it so why not see a beautiful women for $300 and no drama instead of trying to meet a women when no intention for it to last. In my experience when I have met women and said I wasn't looking for anything it often ended badly at times they wanted something else so SPs are the easy alternative. I will admit you can date cheaper but when I knew i had no intention of dating it felt misleading.

 

[jilpale]

I am dating someon

How'd you meet your date?

 

[testing1]

How'd you meet your date?

On Tinder, the various dating apps are pretty good I find and pretty much just like dating sites so the idea they are all for hook ups in also misleading so don't expect that haha

 

[djlucky7]

Good looking guy in early 30s here. I have dated several women that were 10s (at least in my books), some even friends of a few escorts that work in the most popular agencies in Mtl. I'm currently in a relationship with the most beautiful women ever (again in my books) but for some reason i'm addicted to this hobby and this lifestyle. I do not have sex with my partner as much as I should and it's because I easily get bored of the same person. Everything new is always more exciting. I currently active subscription on Seeking and it's going well, especially with 18-20 and I get to have fun with them in their actual bed without getting kicked out after an hour lol. When there's new talent in XO or Eup, I always particate into trying to new talent, the curiosity makes me horny even at work. I know lots of nurses at my hospital that have range-rovers and i'm always turned on to the idea that one day i'll knock on that door and see one of them...It's addicting and I need help. There was one week this year where I had spent more than 5k in a week. Thank fucking good im doing lots of overtime due to the rona. As of right now, no ragrats

 

[Sylar]

Interesting topic. I guess we are all pursuing this hobby for different reasons and have our own individual backgrounds.

As for me, I dipped my toes into this pastime when I was really young, almost two decades ago. Since then I went through some phases where I actively engaged with it, but also had long hiatuses where I didn’t see a single SP. I think my motivations, needs and desires changed over time too. The thrill of the hunt and the opportunity to try something new (fetishes, tastes & experiences) were and are my main drivers. More recently the comfort and accessibility played a big role as well.

I never had an issue hooking up with women, and dating apps made things even easier. I guess, I am quite lucky in this regard.
But being able to pick and choose exactly what you want based on your desire of the day is just too convenient compared to dating or hooking up. As I am getting older, I also start to value time over money. My investment correlates with that.

 

[thingsthatmakeyou]

I guess we all have our own reasons.
I first tried it out in Thailand with a buddy from my work at the time. We were both single and in our late 20s.
This was back before 2000!!! It was so good we even went back around 4 months later, too be honest it was the original GFE, well maybe!
Anyway I enjoyed the surrealness of it all.
I then left it alone for 22 years and after a couple of long term relationships and a few marriages I am having another go.
Which brings me to this wonderful site.
Now it all comes down to being 50, good job but absolutely no compulsion to date, let alone someone in my age group. Marriage is off the table, I would rather be boiled alive!
Also woman in late 30s or 40s scare the crap out of me, they all want commitment and I just want to have fun. Also they all seem to want is quiet nights in!!! I can do that on my own!
So now I have had a small taste, I think I will be hobbying for the foreseeable future.
The thrill and getting someone that I simple could not get, plus the openness of the young ladies is a liberation for me. Makes work even more worthwhile!
For once in my life I can spend money on a hobby that makes living far more fun and exhilarating, plus I adore woman and I have my own needs.
So happy I live close to Montreal.

 

[sene5hos]

But being able to pick and choose exactly what you want based on your desire of the day is just too convenient compared to dating or hooking up. As I am getting older, I also start to value time over money. My investment correlates with that.

I really liked your last paragraph. Your approach is inspiring.

I too have become wiser as I get older. The quality of the girl before, during, and after the meeting becomes more important than just having sexual pleasure.

When you can have it all, it's a truly unique opportunity.

 

[RoyBatty69]

I am addicted to sex and also in my head I am always wanted to be a philanthropist so helping struggling college & Uni babes for a good cause like putting them through school to get a decent education or helping them saving up for a Tesla Model X while making the other head happy too so be it. Considered it a win-win situations for everyone involved

 

[sene5hos]

I am addicted to sex and also in my head I am always wanted to be a philanthropist so helping struggling college & Uni babes for a good cause like putting them through school to get a decent education while making the other head happy too so be it. Considered it a win-win situations for everyone.

We must always combine the useful with the pleasant.

Very beautiful principle of life.

 

[IamNY]

What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

I really, really, really, really, really, like banging hot Quebecois girls!

 

[sene5hos]

The more respectful we are, the hotter the girls.

 

[applebaum]

Beautiful civilian women intimidate me.

 

[Pierrecoeur]

Simple and truthful answer - I am a horndog with lots of money.

Complicated Answer - I moved to British Columbia and the Strip Clubs and Lapdances are "no touch" and the most expensive in all of Canada. So decided - Why Should I let the Conservative Club owners screw me out of money, when Beautiful Escorts will screw me for my money and after I spent an hour with her, I leave with more money in my pocket than I would have left after an hour at a strip club?

 

[plal099]

Here are my excuses to see SP

After breaking up with multiple GFs and being single again in late 20's and early 30's, I realized that I enjoy single life way more than being with GF except being getting laid. That made me become more open towards trying other options like SP.

Initially I started with Asian MP's when I was staying in LA area, but soon realized I was not able to connect with asian MP girls tat well (maybe language barriers ?). So over time I switched to SPs, and I realizes following

- Most SPs I met are more intelligent and funny than my college educated GFs
- Most SPs I met are in better shape and enjoyed sex
- They were more clean and hygienic that my GFs
- I really enjoyed being with SPs

Since I moved out of California and started traveling for projects, I was able to try and enjoy SPs from many different parts of world.

When I first visited Montreal for a work, I had chance to see some SPs in MTL.
Since I have seen SPs in multiple cities and countries, I can easily compare MTL SPs. IMO SPs in MTL are one of the best quality SPs. You guys in MTL are lucky

 

[mysiteonly]

Things got a little boring at home, and I just love pussy. I love hot and sexy women, its my drug. I don't even know what to do with myself. I am so addicted.

 

[mat514]

Great thread, my reasons here below.

- At 23, it was to lose my virginity and to experience sexual pleasures because I was having a hard time finding girls. I felt at the time I was too old to still be a virgin. I then met 5 other girls, once each, within a year, before stopping and settling with a first GF when I was 24.
- At 28, 4 years later, my girl broke up with me. It was a second breakup so it hurt much less, and I knew it was a permanent breakup for good, which immediately opened the flood gates for me to get back into it, which was actually very exciting. I like to get very personal with girls, amongst a handful of SP's I tried out, I hunted down the girl I lost my virginity to 6 years prior, who made an exception to see me because she thought it was cute when I told her what she meant to me. That led to me regularly seeing her at her apartment, and for a good year she moved literally 5 minutes from where I lived and she was letting me swing by whenever I wanted for $40 BBBJ CIM COF sessions.
- Now at 31, my reason is to experience very young and pretty college-like girls, and the increasing age gap with young girls excites me more and more. I've let go of the girl I mentioned previously, and was so lucky to find a 19 yo girl, who's 20 now that I've seen at least once a month in the last half year.

 

[curious2012]

Companionship and sex without the responsibilities, headaches and heartaches of a couple's relationship. Wisdom of my fifties for me loll

 

[Robert39]

I don’t agree with the “ur paying for it one way or another” bullshit, but I digress.....

Am very interested in what you mean by this...

 

[Fradi]

Am very interested in what you mean by this...

Very simple, not every woman is a gold digger.
You can have a loving relationship with the woman of your dreams, you just need to find the right one.
There are women that can be an equal partner in everything and share in building a family and life that you can only dream about.