Minority guys (e.g. asian, east indian etc) have it really rough. Girls of their own race marry out with no problem but very few white girls would even look their way. I know 2 or 3 guys who'd make great husbands but just couldn't get any traction at all in the dating world.
who has it easier? Men or women?
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Minority guys (e.g. asian, east indian etc) have it really rough. Girls of their own race marry out with no problem but very few white girls would even look their way. I know 2 or 3 guys who'd make great husbands but just couldn't get any traction at all in the dating world.
The journalist, Tim Pool, who reports on this video is top notch excellent:
Woman Uses Tinder As Man And Is SHOCKED How Awful Women Are To Men, The Culture War Is A Gender War
Woman Uses Tinder As Man And Is SHOCKED How Awful Women Are To Men, The Culture War Is A Gender War
Interesting. However, this demonstrates again that women don't really know themselves what makes a man attractive to them. (And I'm saying this like if we knew ourselves what makes a girl attractive.... it's so subjective!).
But what I mean is that women SAY that they want a good man, someone kind, intelligent, reliable, who has a good job, funny, etc. And then ACT differently. They pick the next bad guy. So no surprise that this sister has a discovery moment when realizing that the qualities she tries to sell in her brother's profile don't attract much attention.
Bottom line: don't listen to the sheep's advice on how the wolf should hunt for them!
(and ladies, I'm not despising you! Males are no better. Turn this argument around and it works for us too.... we don't know what we want, even if we think we do!)
Because Asians and East Indians in their culture they prioritise studying and getting a high degree. Most are in IT or studying medicine. All that studying means they got not much time to be cool or socialize hence the lack of social skills especially with women. Also they usually do not work out so they usually are skinny again because most of the time is spent studying and saving money to buy property. Also in their culture the priority is to get property. Their main focus is to buy a house. But girls are drawn to cool bad boys that are fun, I seen many girls with cool bad boys who are broke.
I say women, they don't have to learn game and they don't have to deal with being rejected.
They just pick the guy they like, of all guys that approaches them.
They just pick the guy they like, of all guys that approaches them.
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Not sure about this. I've known many girls over the years who were very pretty yet very lonely. It depends on their social circles and life preferences. They get hit on, but not necessarily by guys they want. And just like for us, the guys they want ends in someone else's bed (usually someone with bigger boobs, and then they become self-conscious). (Anna, I'm interested to hear you on this)
In the end, mating is a challenge for everyone. And learning to game allows you to meet more people, hence the wider the variety, the more chance to meet someone with mutual chemistry.
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East Asian here.
When I'm on dating apps, I get close to zero hits in Montreal... But when I go to Toronto or Vancouver, the matches come through, mostly from other Asians but also other races. I think physical preference plays a big role.
I talked to an SP once and she told me that the black girls gets the least amount of business and Asian women are super popular. Again, preference of most ppl.
Until recently, there hasn't been much Asian male representation in our culture (Shang-Chi). We grew up watching white male as the leader, the dominant character in a storyline, the main event. This translate eventually into the women's preferences. As for why Asian women are popular, if you look at past movies and whatnot, they were often portrayed as submissive, family oriented, obedient housewife basically.
As for the theory of studying alot and not having any social skills, or putting priorities on buying a property makes you seem boring, I just think that's being responsible for your own life and all those are attractive traits imo to most girls looking to settle down. I also don't think that studying alot makes you bad at socializing. By that logic, most ppl with a high/hard degree are weirdos at parties. Maybe there's certain truth to that for select few but it definitely has not been my observations.
Bad boys gets more girls? I think it's more about the confidence. Most Asians are raised as more of a beta. Take care of parents. Of family. Financially support them. All live under one room type of mentality. Alphas exudes more "male" character. Stronger. More confident. The quarter back in highschool if you will.
I found that if you have confidence (not to be comfound with cockiness or being a dick) girls will have an easier time to Gravitate towards you.
In the dating world:
Women 15-30 have it made. A barely average girl is swimming in male attention 24/7. It doesn't mean she loves the following she's attracted but she has plenty of attention.
Men 35+ dating becomes much easier if you kept yourself in shape, have decent fashion, and have a job. In this range you can easily date girls in their 20's. A decent guy in his 40's will find girls in their early 20's to date.
I agree over time things will even out. Girls shine early and bright but burn out quickly. Guys never reach the selection power of a cute 22 yo girl but they ramp up in value as they age. If you want an eye opener go on dating apps and look at the desperation level of >35yo women. It's not pretty.
Women 15-30 have it made. A barely average girl is swimming in male attention 24/7. It doesn't mean she loves the following she's attracted but she has plenty of attention.
Men 35+ dating becomes much easier if you kept yourself in shape, have decent fashion, and have a job. In this range you can easily date girls in their 20's. A decent guy in his 40's will find girls in their early 20's to date.
I agree over time things will even out. Girls shine early and bright but burn out quickly. Guys never reach the selection power of a cute 22 yo girl but they ramp up in value as they age. If you want an eye opener go on dating apps and look at the desperation level of >35yo women. It's not pretty.
women no doubts, the social and government protect women in every possible way.
Women have the advantage in the area of relationships and sex. Most of them just have to exist to get male attention.
Meanwhile, most average to below-average men have to like hundreds of women on dating sites to even get a single match
Meanwhile, most average to below-average men have to like hundreds of women on dating sites to even get a single match
^^^^^^ I agree. Blame it on libido. The average man as a stronger libido than the average woman.
I find this post very funny and inaccurate haha. I don’t know based on what you are claiming that minority guys have it rough. I’ve seen a lot of white guys being rejected all the time even by average women. I think personality plays a huge role on seducing a girl as it increases your chances by a lot. Obviously, if you’re a very good looking guy life is gonna be easier on this matter and that applies to all races.
I'm pretty below average looking, and very rarely get likes from women on dating sites (I use OKC), maybe 1 or 2 a month.
I once created a fake profile as an experiment, and used pictures of a stereotypically 'handsome' guy; the profile description itself was as vapid and superficial as possible. The result? I got 100 likes and messages within days.
Every woman I messaged was receptive and flirty, even the ones that rejected me under my real profile. I could have easily gotten laid by at least 7-8 gorgeous women that week alone if I looked like that; it would be completely effortless
Imagine a good looking girl, she must receive more than 1000 likes and messages with f..king dick pics
I say when it comes to actual results and this goes for both women and men looks can only take you so far. Yeah if you are attractive/hot you definitely have a head start and get picked out quick. Then long term wise looks mean zilch if you are an absolute empty piece of shit to put it lightly. There ain't no short cuts in life you have to put in the effort so you can have the results. Thinking and using looks as a short cut you may end up pissing the wrong people off. Heh.
Looks are more important to women then it is to man despite the stereotype we here all the time. It is more essential that a man be good looking and tall because women got it so easy in the dating world. I see memes like this quiet often posted by women on social media. Behold.
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