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World Charter For Prostitute's Rights

Do you agree or disagree with the World Charter For Prostitute's Rights

  • Yes I agree but I prefer to remain anonymous

    Votes: 12 54.5%
  • Yes I agree and I sign it here in this thread

    Votes: 6 27.3%
  • Maybe with some changes done to this Charter

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • No, I refuse it.

    Votes: 2 9.1%

  • Total voters
    22

Lilly Lombard

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10-19 said:
Korbie (and all the clients),

I also support every protection for the ladies but there's an obvious question that intrigues me. Would you give your full support to the chart knowing that the next French-Canadian flavour of the month would cost you $325/hour instead of the usual $180/$200.

I'm asking the question because give or take $10 that's how much a SP would cost you should prostitution go legit in La Belle Province (and I would have an easy time demonstrating it).

Lilly, are you starting to see why I said that the reasons why this chart doesn't get much support from sexworkers and operators are obvious?


So what you are saying is if prostitution is legalized, more women will enter it so the ration offer/demand will be in favor of the demandors so for competition pursposes prices will go down and there won't be any more decent money to be made out of this?

So overtime, it might mean the extinction of prostitution...

Am I following right?
 

eastender

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Lilly Lombard said:
So what you are saying is if prostitution is legalized, more women will enter it so the ration offer/demand will be in favor of the demandors so for competition pursposes prices will go down and there won't be any more decent money to be made out of this?

So overtime, it might mean the extinction of prostitution...

Am I following right?

Suspect that the point is that once prostitution is legalized then the new layer of bureaucratic administration would increase costs significantly and the prices would rise.

Whether more women enter the trade is hard to answer. An analogy could be made with other "formalized" activities. Kids sports. A complex administrative structure reduces the number of kids playing. Taking it a step further - the part-timers who enter the trade to solve a temporary financial situation might be discouraged by the high upfront costs.

Not sure if a definite answer exists.
 

Merlot

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10-19 said:
Korbie (and all the clients),

I also support every protection for the ladies but there's an obvious question that intrigues me. Would you give your full support to the chart knowing that the next French-Canadian flavour of the month would cost you $325/hour instead of the usual $180/$200.

I'm asking the question because give or take $10 that's how much a SP would cost you should prostitution go legit in La Belle Province (and I would have an easy time demonstrating it).

Lilly, are you starting to see why I said that the reasons why this chart doesn't get much support from sexworkers and operators are obvious?

Hello 10-19,

No one wants to pay more, but I am sure you are not saying the ladies should continue to face all the risks and abuses just so their price won't go up. RIGHT! Not a sweetheart stud like you buddy. If the main reason why this chart hasn't gotten more support is higher prices...then shame on the selfishness over equal rights and safety. Boys...are you really so desperate for cheap sex that you want to keep it so tough for the ladies?????????? I mean...well...I want all the cheap sex I can get ...but... hmmm... awww ...geeeez ...gotta care about the ladies too. Complete selfishness is so poor.

peeeuuuuu,

Merlot
 
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eastender

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wtf is going on? said:
Not sure if the prices would change much, it is very hard to say. Although some costs would go up the middle man(agency owner aka pimp) would probably no longer exist and that may be enough to offset pricing.

wtf

The various levels of government would in fact become the middle men or pimps. Would be an experienced bunch BUT at a much higher hourly rate with ratios per employee etc. so chances are that prices would go up quite a bit.
 

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Hello everyone,

Let's keep this thread on topic before some people get suspended. If Elf happens to pop up to cause trouble just ignore his posts and do not respond to them. We will remove them soon enough.

And please leave merc posts on merc where they belong. Any posts that were made over there should be dealt with over there, not here.

Thank you,

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Lilly Lombard

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It was like playing Ouija....

Mod 8 said:
Hello everyone,

Let's keep this thread on topic before some people get suspended. If Elf happens to pop up to cause trouble just ignore his posts and do not respond to them. We will remove them soon enough.

And please leave merc posts on merc where they belong. Any posts that were made over there should be dealt with over there, not here.

Thank you,

Mod 8

I called the spirit and it came! :eek:

Ok, ok, I'll leave the dead alone...
 

misunderstood

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It would be interesting to know the feeling of agency owners about all this.....

On another note,the problem with getting sp's to sign this is that as others before me have posted one of the advantages of being an SP is the undeclared income and most wouldn't want this to change.

Also,usually the one's being abused are SW's who are usually doing it to pay for their addictions and not to buy a condo.They would never sign such a chart.

I did not vote on this poll because I cannot make up my mind but I'll allways be a defender of human rights.
 

eastender

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misunderstood said:
It would be interesting to know the feeling of agency owners about all this.....

On another note,the problem with getting sp's to sign this is that as others before me have posted one of the advantages of being an SP is the undeclared income and most wouldn't want this to change.

Also,usually the one's being abused are SW's who are usually doing it to pay for their addictions and not to buy a condo.They would never sign such a chart.

I did not vote on this poll because I cannot make up my mind but I'll allways be a defender of human rights.

You raise some interesting points.

Agency owners are free to answer for themselvs BUT history has shown us - after Prohibition was repealed in the USA being a prime example, that certain operators adapted to the legalized business model while others did not.

In the pre-contact days in SCs there was talk amongst the dancers about unionizing. Remember this was the era(1970's) in Quebec when everyone was unionizing. The loss of the undeclared income was a consideration BUT the transient nature of the business combied with the total lack of obligation were other cosiderations as well. Specifically the girls wanted to retain the right to move to another club without notice and they were not going to give anyone the right to call a strike when it would hurt them financially.

You raise the issue of SWs which I will balance against a point raised by Lilly earlier and pasted below:
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The categories, divisions, sub-divisions, and the sub sub categories : that comes from the sex workers themselves to have an easier time accepting what they do : "I do hand jobs but no penetrations... I am not a prostitute... " because prostitute used to be use in a negative way.

But the bottom of it, no matter what sex act you are performing IN EXCHANGE OF MONEY, you are prostituing yourself. Period.
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Not interested in getting into the merits of the definition BUT will make a few points.

When contact was allowed in the SCs(early 1980's) the basic complaint from a large number of the dancers was that to retain jobs they would have to become prostitutes and that prostitutes would be allowed to work in the SCs.

This raises the second point and that is do we define the act or the person.
If we are simply trying to define the act then the definition outlined by Lilly serves as a starting point. If we are trying to define the person then it fails.

In the Hochelaga / Maisonneuve / Ville Marie area of Montreal you will find a cross section of SPs. From sexy waitress restaurants, to massage parlours, SCs, incalls, outcalls, SWs and whatever else you wish to throw into the mix.

The restaurants, massage parlours and SCs have managed to integrate themselves into the mainstream of the neighbourhood. Whatever happens inside the premises stays inside the premises. The providers do not go outside to target venues that attract people nor do they dump condoms or syringes wherever they might use them.

The SWs in particular but some of the incall/outcall as well do target venues that attract people and will try to solicit in bars going against the mainstream of the neigbourhood.

This distinction should be accounted for in the definition.
 

Lilly Lombard

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eastender said:
The categories, divisions, sub-divisions, and the sub sub categories : that comes from the sex workers themselves to have an easier time accepting what they do : "I do hand jobs but no penetrations... I am not a prostitute... " because prostitute used to be use in a negative way.

But the bottom of it, no matter what sex act you are performing IN EXCHANGE OF MONEY, you are prostituing yourself. Period.
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Not interested in getting into the merits of the definition BUT will make a few points.

When contact was allowed in the SCs(early 1980's) the basic complaint from a large number of the dancers was that to retain jobs they would have to become prostitutes and that prostitutes would be allowed to work in the SCs.

This raises the second point and that is do we define the act or the person.
If we are simply trying to define the act then the definition outlined by Lilly serves as a starting point. If we are trying to define the person then it fails.

In the Hochelaga / Maisonneuve / Ville Marie area of Montreal you will find a cross section of SPs. From sexy waitress restaurants, to massage parlours, SCs, incalls, outcalls, SWs and whatever else you wish to throw into the mix.

The restaurants, massage parlours and SCs have managed to integrate themselves into the mainstream of the neighbourhood. Whatever happens inside the premises stays inside the premises. The providers do not go outside to target venues that attract people nor do they dump condoms or syringes wherever they might use them.

The SWs in particular but some of the incall/outcall as well do target venues that attract people and will try to solicit in bars going against the mainstream of the neigbourhood.

This distinction should be accounted for in the definition
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Huh... soooo (I am so sorry, I have a terrible cold that has put me down for a few days so maybe it also makes me lose my English so I can barely undertstand things properly anymore) if the act is done inside you mean she isn't (or might not be) a prostitute? So just the SW would be a prostitutes?

What a wake up call am I getting this morning. You're right, I do things behind closed doors, besides earsays and rumors about what I do, where do I say and confirm what I really do? I am an escort : I escort people, some kind of hostess, I sell companionship, not sex (it even says it right on my website)... I'm not a prostitute!!!

I can call my mom and talk about work now! :D
 

Lilly Lombard

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wtf is going on? said:
Miss Lilly,

We all know that the ladies do not sell sex and we do not buy sex as we are clearly paying for companionship only but what happens behind closed doors between two consenting adults is anybody's guess, so yes you can call your mom:)

wtf


Well, as EE's analogy suggests : except for Street Workers. When you walk by a SW she will often blink at you and ask if you want to have "some fun" or if you want a "quickie". Unless she means a good laugh or a quick chat. :p Then that would mean there are no prostitutes.

Personaly, I prefer to believe that we're all prostitutes : me, you, doctors, lawyers, the neighbour, his grand-mother... we all have a price and we'll all sell ourselves for it. Everyone draws the line where they are comfortable and many will end up crossing it (even if it is only slightly) if the offer is very good. So the BS that the Street Workers are prostitutes and the general Sex Trade Workers are not, well, I do not buy it!

Believing only the SW are prostitutes is very hypocritical... it's like believing only a man who carries a gun would be a criminal.
 
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eastender

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Lilly Lombard said:
Huh... soooo (I am so sorry, I have a terrible cold that has put me down for a few days so maybe it also makes me lose my English so I can barely undertstand things properly anymore) if the act is done inside you mean she isn't (or might not be) a prostitute? So just the SW would be a prostitutes?

What a wake up call am I getting this morning. You're right, I do things behind closed doors, besides earsays and rumors about what I do, where do I say and confirm what I really do? I am an escort : I escort people, some kind of hostess, I sell companionship, not sex (it even says it right on my website)... I'm not a prostitute!!!

I can call my mom and talk about work now! :D

Just trying to make a rather obvious distinction between those providers who understand that their chosen activity is limited to the confines of a defined place of business and in harmony with the neighbourhood mainstream and those who think it is perfectly correct to take their place of business where it suits them - offering sex in arena washrooms, schoolyards after dark etc. and then dumping used condoms where it suits them.

Some how this distinction has to be accounted for.
 

Merlot

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eastender said:
Just trying to make a rather obvious distinction between those providers who understand that their chosen activity is limited to the confines of a defined place of business and in harmony with the neighbourhood mainstream and those who think it is perfectly correct to take their place of business where it suits them - offering sex in arena washrooms, schoolyards after dark etc. and then dumping used condoms where it suits them.


Lilly Lombard said:
Huh... soooo (I am so sorry, I have a terrible cold that has put me down for a few days so maybe it also makes me lose my English so I can barely undertstand things properly anymore) if the act is done inside you mean she isn't (or might not be) a prostitute? So just the SW would be a prostitutes?

What a wake up call am I getting this morning. You're right, I do things behind closed doors, besides earsays and rumors about what I do, where do I say and confirm what I really do? I am an escort : I escort people, some kind of hostess, I sell companionship, not sex (it even says it right on my website)... I'm not a prostitute!!!

I can call my mom and talk about work now! :D

LOL Lilly,

I guess the old axiom about the most important element in business being location, location, location has special implications in "prostitution". Sex in seedy locations is illegal prostitution, but sex in nice hotels and residences is just an okay lifestyle choice to have sex with a cash bonus. It's logic like that that gives the boards their entertainment value. Let's both go and tell everyone what we do without worrying about any repercussions. Well...maybe not.

snicker,

Merlot
 

eastender

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Another Perspective

Merlot said:
LOL Lilly,

I guess the old axiom about the most important element in business being location, location, location has special implications in "prostitution". Sex in seedy locations is illegal prostitution, but sex in nice hotels and residences is just an okay lifestyle choice to have sex with a cash bonus. It's logic like that that gives the boards their entertainment value. Let's both go and tell everyone what we do without worrying about any repercussions. Well...maybe not.

snicker,

Merlot

Another perspective would be if Lilly and her fans are comfortable and perfectly happy being grouped with those who discard condoms in parks and schoolyards while soliciting amongst pre-teens then so be it. The world will move on without them.

If they are concerned about these issues then perhaps they might offer a solution.
 
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