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Thread: What Are Your Limitations?

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    What Are Your Limitations?

    I'm pretty open in bed. I'm generally into slow, sensual, vanilla stuff, but sometimes the person I'm with wants more. If I can define my limitations, it pretty much comes down to: no water sports, and don't try to shove anything into my asshole. Beyond that, we're pretty much good to go. But sometimes women request things that kind of leave you floundered for a moment, and then you think, "Well, okay, if that's what you want..." There's this one thing in particular that one woman always asks me to do, and I'm not really into it. I kind of think of it as this thing I have to do for five minutes until we can get back to the other stuff. Ugh, instead of beating around the bush, I'll just come out and say it: she wants me to choke her while she's giving me oral and to shove her head up and down on my dick. I'm not kidding. She asks me to do this EVERY time that we're together. Sometimes I think of her as the Sex Nazi: "Come over here. Sit down. Open your legs more. Don't touch me there, touch me here. Keep your back straight. DON'T MOVE!" Now, she's really as funny as hell, so when she does this to me, I just go with it. But what are your limits, and what quirks do you sometimes see in your partners?

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    1. I DO NOT like it when a girl attempts a prostate massage. Nothing in my butthole! Buttholes are supposed to be doing butthole stuff.
    2. No DATY if the girl floods/squirts. Many likes to drink from the magic fountain. Not me.
    3. No water sports.
    4. Lots of guys in here are into... https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread....your-companion. Not me. I would take the companion out to the "best" restaurants. In some cases the first moment I meet her even though that is on a rare occasion. I don't do the dining in thing in this hobby.
    5. I would not wake up next to an SP in the morning. She comes in amazing and she leaves amazing.

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    Items in my bum are a no no. Also flames, not a fan of that either.
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    lol funny thread...

    Well for me

    Ass : She can lick it if she want(altough not much do that haha, not that i ask for it either) but nothing going in there for sure...
    Shemale/Gay : No no no... not interested
    DATY : I may do it if i feel really at ease with the person, like REALLY, either by a multiple time i see her or i dunno, if there is that little special with her. Sometimes girls kinda open there leg and all and i know they think i want to go down there but no, almost everytime i manage to make a move so it does not happen and look awkward but well. Thanksfully as the client you can be a bit more in control...
    Watersports : I would never allow it on me, i mean in my mouth or face hell no... lol. I could tolerate it on my leg in shower or something like that but thats about it... As for giving it, i wouldn't mind if she ask for it, but its not something i would ask for personally..
    Scat : NO !!! not even giving it , even in shower... the only place ill take a shit is in the toilet bowl... lol
    Now when it comes to BJ, i love all style of BJ, but i really love a good fast one with lot of succion for a while. I mean a "slow tender BJ" is fun for starter, but at some point i like when she goes faster. I never tried any "hard deep throat" or stuff as you describe in the original post because i would always fear to hurt her or at least make her unconfortable. To me its not something i see as default service from an escort. But if she would ask to do it, i would be happy to oblige... Truth be is i am very vanilla in bed cause i want to be sure my partner is "at ease" and when she leaves my hotel room she sees me as a good client, a gentlemen in the best possible way. I do sometimes put my hands behind her hair but i keep up with her own "flow" and not force anything.

    For me its very simple, i like getting blown, have sex in the usual positions (mostly CG as it gives a very good view) and at the end i will be very pleased if she allow CIM or COF. Wich one i prefer best? Depend on the mood, sometimes i will enjoy more a nice fast BJ til a big orgasm in mouth, and sometimes i just feel for a more naughty "porn style finish"

    I know CIM/COF is not something all SPs are ok with, i try my best to book the ones that does do it and don't mind it, but thats the only thing "not very vanilla" i ask for. And when i do happen to book one that does not allow it, either as taking a guest or "she look so hot ill book her anyway" i settle for a COB... wich is not as fun but well... better than nothing.

    As for Anal, not really something i am that much into, did it twice in my life, both times it was included in base price, i could maybe do it again if its include and she really does not mind it, but i don't see myself paying 100$ extra for that... What i mean is it can be fun, add spice and all, but its not something i enjoy to a point justifying a huge extra for it... (Personally)

    Well i think it covers it all lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Halloween Mike View Post
    Shemale/Gay : No no no... not interested
    Scat : NO !!! not even giving it , even in shower... the only place ill take a shit is in the toilet bowl... lol
    Thanks for bringing them up. Those are default givens so that was why I didn't include them. The only Adam's Apple I am interested in is MINE!.

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    I once had a similar limitation to "taking deliveries to the shipping department" until about 4 years back when a wonderful young woman, now retired, introduced me to the amazing pleasure center that is the prostate. Not only did it open up a whole new world to me, but it made me ever more aware that you're never too old to learn a new trick.

    My primary limitation revolves around pain. I just can't bring myself to inflict pain on a woman, no matter how slight. I know some who take pleasure in it, but I just can't do it.
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    Don't kill me.

    Also no toys in my butt.

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    With time, i've become fairly wide open to whatever sex play a woman may want. I've met all types over the years.

    Although i'm very open-minded and have tried many things over my adult life, i've never done the orgy/groupsex/gangbang thing, nor the gross stuff like golden showers. I draw the line at the gross stuff and it's fair to say i'll never even try it. It simply doesn't turn me on. So i guess you could say that this is where my limitations are.

    I had a 'prostate massage' only once in my life. With a Euro sp visiting from NYC. She had posted an ad on the top board at the time, indicating she was visiting Mtl and was seeking a french canadian client. She had f$&# every nationality on the planet except one: french canadians. And this non-business trip would be an opportunity to check off an item from her bucket list, so to speak. So i figured why not, wrote to her and told her i was available if she wanted. Lucky me, i was the lucky winner. So on that day (following a gt), i walked over to her hotel, which was only a few blocks away from mine. I had no clue what a prostate massage was when she offered it to me. She'd perform it while giving me a bbbj. As it turns out, my eyeballs were literally coming out of my head as i was cumming & to this day it may be the strongest orgasm i ever had minus my very first one ever. It's very likely the best bbbj i ever had in my entire life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    As it turns out, my eyeballs were literally coming out of my head as i was cumming & to this day it may be the strongest orgasm i ever had minus my very first one.
    Same here, Doc. Utterly mind-blowing. That said, it was an orgasm of the standard up-front variety. While I've gotten tremendous pleasure from my prostate toys, I'm still awaiting the so-called prostate "Super O." If you've seen the seemingly never-ending orgasm that only women experience, the Super O is supposed to mirror that. I've often said that while men crave sex more, women seem enjoy it more. The prostate is the equalizer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rumpleforeskiin View Post
    Same here, Doc. Utterly mind-blowing. That said, it was an orgasm of the standard up-front variety. While I've gotten tremendous pleasure from my prostate toys....
    Mine didn't include a toy, though. She applied a condom (plus lube) on one of her fingers and off to work she went! She later told me that she also got pleasure from doing it due to what she was feeling from the prostate gland as i was having my tremendous orgasm.

    p.s. I later read that prostate massages can cause serious damage to the gland if it isn't done or massaged properly. That's the big reason why i haven't spoken about this to most of the girls i've met.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    p.s. I later read that prostate massages can cause serious damage to the gland if it isn't done or massaged properly. That's the big reason why i haven't spoken about this to most of the girls i've met.
    Exactly. I've read the same thing, which is why I stick to toys for the back door.
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    I have only ONE restriction: please don't touch my butthole = no rimming, no prostate massage, no digits, no whatever. It's a no-no!

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    Only unhealthy stuff are not cool with me. The rest is fine, actually encouraged

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    This thread should be named the "Don't touch my butthole" thread.

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    @GentlemanJon LOL

    I like butt stuff on girls but (no pun intented) when it comes to my butt nothing crazy plz. I've had girls lick near it, that felt awesome and one put her finger in a bit. It just felt weird not painful or great feeling just weird.

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