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    Confessions

    Hello,

    It's been a rather long time since i have posted here, but ihave been keeping up on the goings on every day. Interesting lives we lead.
    I have been a long time hobbiest, since 1989, since i was 17 years old. I have posted numerous posts here and in the old canbest. Oliver can vouch for me.
    Well, the reason i am back is to get a few things off my chest and move on....
    I have been out of the hobby for about 6 months now. Before that i would indulge in incall services, massages and street walkers about 3 or 4 times week. It was an expensive hobby as many as you know, but often times fun, and rewarding, (think of that perfect massage from clara at lotus etc.)
    In my 17 years of hobbying, i have spent enough money to buy a new house all paid in cash, in todays market. Now that i need to get a house, i'm in a bit of a jam. My hobby was verging on an addiction.
    I broke that addiction, because i found out i am going o be a dad for the first time, ad that all my money needs to be going to raise up this child and bring it up right....to boot, i found out that i am having a girl, and that really, instantly changed my perspective on things, on the hobby, on the entire industry.....like chris rock once said in one of his stand-up skits "from the moment your little girl is born, your only goal in life is to keep her off the pole!" Is that ever true....
    When i found out about all this, it was time to get some life insurance. Never needed it before. Anyways, i needed to do complete blood work, and that's when i realized my hobbying may be back to haunt me.....i have not had blood work done in over a dozen years...and in that time, indulging in the hobby, i did some incredibly stupid things....INCREDIBLY STUPID!!!!!!
    I have had sex unprotected with about a dozen sp's, massage therapists, incall girls and street walkers. Some of them more than once and some of them that we have all shared. At the time it was a severe case of the lower head controlling the shots...and anyting was a go....
    While the blood tests were being conducted the stupidity of my past kept running through my head!....I went over each and every girl i had bareback sex with, trying to remember details that may give away a sign of STD, if i had seen them around recently, meaning they were still alive and healthy looking.....ever thought kept racing through my head....
    There were even a couple who were on their period when i had them....HOW CRAZY IS THAT....i was kicking myself...i was terrified....It took about a month for the insurance company to get back to me with their results and decisions......in that month, i could not eat, i could not sleep, i was jumpy, cranky, and got an ulcer.....now...to add to your worries you get an ulcer, that makes you think that maybe your diseases are starting to manifest....so you worry some more!!!
    It was insane....finally...the call came from my insurance agent....
    I was breathless...waiting....and the news was.....
    GOOD!
    I was accepted.....fully insured....clean bill of health too....almost perfect i'd say.....WHAT A RELIEF!!!!!!!!!!
    I cannot describe to you that feeling of relief....of liberation of happiness.....surprise.....of the dozen women i had been barebak with, half were street walkers, all of whom were heroin or crack users.....high high risk, the massage gals were russian, very liberal services often provided coming from a high risk country, and the incalls were quebecoise, and one mullatto from new jersey....
    Was i ever lucky or what?,....but luck can run out fast....an i am in no way going to jeapordize my life any longer....my life has changed for the better....i am fulfilled, and though i am not saying i will never indulge in the hobby again, if i do...it will be with the best protection possible....no more stupidities......silliness...or danger....getting too old for that...and have too many things going on for me at the moment that i want to enjoy!

    All in all...what i am saying...especially to the younger members....play safe....the stress of unsafe sex with high risk people willwera you down and drive you insane, ill etc.....get checked once a year at least....life is good....don't push your luck to the brink.....

    Unitl later...

    Latenighter

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    Quote Originally Posted by latenighter
    ...the stress of unsafe sex with high risk people willwera you down and drive you insane, ill etc.....get checked once a year at least....life is good....don't push your luck to the brink.....
    Hi latenighter,

    just having SAFE sex with sps is enough to wear a lot of people down psychologically, knowing the risk is never nil despite the best precautions, so I can't imagine how stressful it must be knowing that one has had bareback sex with sps on a number of occasions.

    fml

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    I smell a rat...

    I will wait for Olie to vouch for your sincerity...

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    Quote Originally Posted by latenighter
    All in all...what i am saying...especially to the younger members....play safe....the stress of unsafe sex with high risk people willwera you down and drive you insane, ill etc.....get checked once a year at least....life is good....don't push your luck to the brink.....

    Unitl later...

    Latenighter
    I have some better advice... practice safe-sex with EVERYONE! If you find someone you are ready to have unprotected sex with - make sure you both get tested and both agree to be exclusive. Why in the world one would have BB sex with ANYONE they are not exclusive with is beyond me!

    I am glad things turned out okay for you...

    xoxox
    Anik
    Last edited by Just-ass-weet; 04-08-2006 at 03:15 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Just-ass-weet
    I have some better advice... practice safe-sex with EVERYONE! If you find someone you are ready to have unprotected sex with - make sure you both get tested and both agree to be exclusive.

    xoxox
    Anik
    Good advice but the reality is that you'd be a fool, suicidal or seriously deranged to pick up a streetwalker who is high on heroine and engage in bareback sex with her while she's on her period.

    Again, let's all wait for Olie to vouch for this guy because I am not buying it, not for a second.

    GG

    P.S. Yes, you should all test yourselves every three months but the probability of catching something with MOST of the SPs discussed here is LOW. I would worry more about the regular scrap you pick up at your favorite pickup bar.
    Last edited by General Gonad; 04-08-2006 at 01:18 PM.

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    I dont get it, now how would Olie be able to vouch for this guy.

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    just curious,

    why would i make something so stupid up?.....These were some of the stupidest, suicidal, fucked up ignorant, blind things i have ever done, that tormented my soul...I am sure that many of you have done the same things. I can tell from certain posts members have made about the same girls that i am refering to that this goes on quite often.
    I wanted to get it off my chest and share with you all my experiences. Stupid as thet were..and i am hoping to never repeat them.....that's all....take it as you will.....I am happy to be clean, and i am happy that i have peace of mind. I wanted to know if my past would come back to haunt me or not...obviously i prefered not, but not knowing was torcher!!!
    It's always best to know......puts the mind at ease...

    later...

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    You're missing the point gentlemen - his story doesn't need to be vouched for. There is tons of stuff posted here and everywhere else on the Internet every single day and if we have any intelligence we take it all with a grain of salt. Now in the case of this post under discussion I personally don't know if it's true or not and I also personally don't give a fuck. The point is that his ADVICE is very good for anyone who is too inexperienced, impulsive, or stupid to have thought things through - and for that reason latenighter is performing a valuable and selfless public service regardless of the veracity of his story. By the way for what it's worth I think his story is true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oliver kloseoff
    if your street smart you will do ok but even then prepeare yoruself to be burnt a few times
    oliver
    Olie, the last time I picked up a streetwalker, I was eighteen. She was hot but it all went downhill when I went to finger her and discovered she had a hotdog between her thighs! (note: I have never picked someone off the streets, not even a hitchhiker).

    On a serious note, now that you vouched for latenighter, I will wish him the very best in his life and to focus on the most important thing in the world: his daughter. The best years of your life are ahead of you, watching her grow up. Take care of her and enjoy the experience.

    GG

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    Quote Originally Posted by oliver kloseoff
    i drink a lot of water.
    1st and most important both my parents will be 78 yrs old this year-both are in excelent health-perfect weight for their heights.
    my mom was a model when she was young and is 5'6 118 looks not a day over 50.
    my dad is 6' 190 he trains every day as well.

    Olie,

    You've got good genes but I have seen your pics and you sure didn't take after your mom!LOL!

    I agree with you that exercise is extremely important to maintain a younger body. You don't need to go ballistic - a la Olie - but you need to stay active. Also, you're right about drinking water and getting lots of sleep - it's essential. As far as vitamins, I stick to a few that have scientifically been proven to help your health.

    The big problem I have is eating right when I am in a rush. I guess I can always go to Subways but I get sick of eating crap.

    GG
    Last edited by General Gonad; 04-08-2006 at 03:33 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaempferrand
    So GG rubbed a Magic Lamp. I hope you got your Three Wishes.
    I recently got two wishes come true: Samy, Gabby and I am about to get my third one.

    GG

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaempferrand
    I think you should ask for more dough because at the rate you are going, as I am sure you are quite satisfied in more ways than one and one happy SOB, guess like you'll be eating Spam and ketchup soup for a while!

    Yup, it's been an expensive six months! WTF, it's only money and I will never eat Spam!

    GG

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    Health

    Posted by Latenighter: '' was accepted.....fully insured....clean bill of health too....almost perfect i'd say.....WHAT A RELIEF!!!!!!!!!!''

    Tests passed, when negative, by insurance compagnies do not ensure a clean bill of health. Exemples: they do not test for chlamydia, herpes simplex (there is at least 8 types of them), HTLV1 which is a virus that gives leukemia after many years, etc. Yes, they do test for HIV, but most often on urine with an ELISA test and not a RT-PCR.
    DocProstate
    Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but then again, neither does milk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by General Gonad
    I recently got two wishes come true: Samy, Gabby and I am about to get my third one.

    GG
    You do, of course, realize that the next time you announce that you are quitting the hobby no one is going to believe you. Is the third one the intelligent, classy, lady who has you over a barrel when it comes to verbal sparring ? if so, please ensure that you pick up a good bottle of Champagne.

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    Quote Originally Posted by General Gonad
    Good advice but the reality is that you'd be a fool, suicidal or seriously deranged to pick up a streetwalker who is high on heroine and engage in bareback sex with her while she's on her period. ar.
    Hey GG,

    I've been told on quite a few occasions by sps that BB proposals from clients is far from being rare...

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