I have to admit that 80% of my sessions with an SP involves just standard sex. I've dabbled with a bit of kinky stuff but almost always revert back to standard sex. Even when the SP ask me what I like, I cannot sum up the courage to tell her that I want to get kinky. I usually just try to lead her into the kinky stuff that I like but it never gets to far. I'd just like to tell her when she walks in that I want to get kinky and jump right into it.
I guess all I want to know is that I'm not alone with my thoughts and that other hobbyist have the same views and how do I go about telling the SP "I want to kink it up!".