Because you and the women you would otherwise have dated, are that much older & wiser too now, and those kids they had back when, are teenagers, or on their way out, and she is now looking for someone to give that time and devotion to as she feels a need to give it to someone, and the kids don't often want the attention any more, at that age. Admittedly dealing with kids and partners is a difficult situation. But the dynamic changes as time goes on.
Don't fall in love with your regular SP
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The issue with online dating, is that men and women have an ideology they want. I was 41 when i went online dating and wasted 4 years on there, I met my fair share of women and i have been told with the response i got that i was in fact lucky, meaning that for around 100 messages sent i got about 30 replies.
The divorce rate and separation is much higher than 50% its much more like 85%. I got message by a few women that i had no interest in and i never ever replied something nasty or evil. Hurting someone was never my goal, but man did i get some nasty replies back from some of those women.
How can you take something seriously when the persons profile starts with (if you are not at least 6 feet) considering that most men are around 5 foot 8. If you have a gut (sorry but i sure don't have the six pack i had when i was 25 i am now 51), if you lose your hair (hair loss in men is a common thing i have normal hair thinning).
If you have tattoos you score extra points.
I met a 50 year old women, she was the one who came to talk to me, after we spoke on the phone i said ok lets meet, went to a small Italian restaurant in Laval, she literally brought with her all her assets, her house, she had a daycare, how much she was making, selling insurance at night, and that at 50 she was an alpha women and was in demand. That she ghosted 3 men to meet me and i was lucky to be with her. She is now 60 and still single.
I met a Romanian women and with the issues we had to communicate she was able to make me understand that her visa in Canada was expiring in 6 months and she had to get married to stay in the Country.
A part from the time i got ghosted, planing dates, reservations etc and the girl never showed up.
Women telling you that her standard in men is Shemar Moore. Baggage they all had baggage from the one who lost her driving permit for 1y do to drunk driving, and at 41 with 2 kids was banging a 27y old did not message me for 1 month because she thought that it would work between them, to the ones who have super high standards, the ones on depression and of course the ones being online only to chat with you with no intentions to meet only to pass time.
I have spoken to men and also women who went online and its safe to say that all of them had the same opinion, getting off online dating was the best choice.
I was on a facebook group, they ask to ^post sexy pics of ourselves, at 45 i posted one i am pretty built 6 feet 258 pounds been training for a very long time, then the younger guy post a pic of himself clearly on a steroid cycle all tanned and all the women went nuts. So there you go this is online for you, you compare yourself to others you get discourage you develop low self esteem and you leave.
At 51, when i am well dressed i still get attention from women, the weird thing is they are younger women, when i go out with friends etc, but yet online dating with women my age i get nothing.
The divorce rate and separation is much higher than 50% its much more like 85%. I got message by a few women that i had no interest in and i never ever replied something nasty or evil. Hurting someone was never my goal, but man did i get some nasty replies back from some of those women.
How can you take something seriously when the persons profile starts with (if you are not at least 6 feet) considering that most men are around 5 foot 8. If you have a gut (sorry but i sure don't have the six pack i had when i was 25 i am now 51), if you lose your hair (hair loss in men is a common thing i have normal hair thinning).
If you have tattoos you score extra points.
I met a 50 year old women, she was the one who came to talk to me, after we spoke on the phone i said ok lets meet, went to a small Italian restaurant in Laval, she literally brought with her all her assets, her house, she had a daycare, how much she was making, selling insurance at night, and that at 50 she was an alpha women and was in demand. That she ghosted 3 men to meet me and i was lucky to be with her. She is now 60 and still single.
I met a Romanian women and with the issues we had to communicate she was able to make me understand that her visa in Canada was expiring in 6 months and she had to get married to stay in the Country.
A part from the time i got ghosted, planing dates, reservations etc and the girl never showed up.
Women telling you that her standard in men is Shemar Moore. Baggage they all had baggage from the one who lost her driving permit for 1y do to drunk driving, and at 41 with 2 kids was banging a 27y old did not message me for 1 month because she thought that it would work between them, to the ones who have super high standards, the ones on depression and of course the ones being online only to chat with you with no intentions to meet only to pass time.
I have spoken to men and also women who went online and its safe to say that all of them had the same opinion, getting off online dating was the best choice.
I was on a facebook group, they ask to ^post sexy pics of ourselves, at 45 i posted one i am pretty built 6 feet 258 pounds been training for a very long time, then the younger guy post a pic of himself clearly on a steroid cycle all tanned and all the women went nuts. So there you go this is online for you, you compare yourself to others you get discourage you develop low self esteem and you leave.
At 51, when i am well dressed i still get attention from women, the weird thing is they are younger women, when i go out with friends etc, but yet online dating with women my age i get nothing.
Rebaynia my next door neighbor moved in with is hair dresser girlfriend and her 3 teenagers, 2 of them were suicidal, and one of them was ADD. She could not keep a job, he build a hair salon in the basement for her to get some clients, but summer time she did not take clients, she said in summer time she wants to enjoy her summer she was more in the pool then anything else. Her kids could not keep their jobs either, and my neighbor was stuck to pay for this whole joly crowd. Until one day he got stomach pain that would not go away. They broke up, she left with her kids and is stomach pain magically disappeared.
I have so many stories like this the neighbor that was there before him was a tall man and not being gay but he looked real good, he moved with is girlfriend and she had 2 teenage daughter. One day i went to visit my mom, is girlfriend was in front of the house on the tree kissing a morbidly obese man. I was completely shocked at what i was seeing. Then it hit me because my ex left me for a Tunisian guy who is short and chubby and everyone of her friends told her she was nuts.
I gave up, i have a great job now i am able to save money and i am a caregiver for my mom, so i take care of her, when everything is done i have a huge house for myself and money in the bank looking for an early retirement.
My heart now goes out to my cats, yes i am a huge cat lover, lost 2 last year still very sensible when i think about them, but i adopted more i have 4 in total. I love to spoil them. A perfect night for me is with my babies around me watching a good movie and i am in heaven.
There is no sure recipe for anybody. Some got lucky and find love in the strangest place possible such as this hobby world where it is constantly supressed and eradicated. The most however just fell for an illusion and it is a very sad story. The greatest chance to experience love is when you and your partner are both young and stupid. Then you have chance to grow it to something more durable: a true friendship.
I think I'm finally getting over the SP I was "in love" with. After seeing her about 30 times in the past month, I'm starting to get sick of her 
I think I'm finally breaking free of her spell!
I think I'm finally breaking free of her spell!
If you saw your SP 30 times in a month, you probably made her rich and she can now retire. I see mine like 3 times per month she as a good price and i feel its still expensive looking at a full month of groceries and extra cat food for my babies that eat like crazy.I think I'm finally getting over the SP I was "in love" with. After seeing her about 30 times in the past month, I'm starting to get sick of her
I think I'm finally breaking free of her spell!
You should totally fall in love with her. It’s one of the greatest things you can do for yourself. Experience it. Revel in it. Stare into her eyes like she’s the mother of your kids as you fuck her one last time before going to war.
But it’s not real. I guess it would have been more real if you were divorced while you pay alimony and child support. Or maybe it would have been better to have your heart put through a blender a couple of times with different civilian chicks. That too is very real.
But the shame of getting heartbroken by a Provider. Be thankful, because in our touchless, sexless society most men in their 20s will never have the opportunity to experience a heartbreak. You never knew pain of such magnitude could exist. It is beyond your imagination. You took a shot, and got hit. Now square up, regain your composure, and fire again. Rinse and repeat. To have your heart broken, is the price you pay to transform your life. It’s a right of passage to manhood.
Who would you rather be stuck in a dark alley with, a cuck who masturbates to other people fake fucking on a screen that’s prerecorded and edited, or a fucker who earned money and took a risk to fulfill his desires by thinking outside the box?
But it’s not real. I guess it would have been more real if you were divorced while you pay alimony and child support. Or maybe it would have been better to have your heart put through a blender a couple of times with different civilian chicks. That too is very real.
But the shame of getting heartbroken by a Provider. Be thankful, because in our touchless, sexless society most men in their 20s will never have the opportunity to experience a heartbreak. You never knew pain of such magnitude could exist. It is beyond your imagination. You took a shot, and got hit. Now square up, regain your composure, and fire again. Rinse and repeat. To have your heart broken, is the price you pay to transform your life. It’s a right of passage to manhood.
Who would you rather be stuck in a dark alley with, a cuck who masturbates to other people fake fucking on a screen that’s prerecorded and edited, or a fucker who earned money and took a risk to fulfill his desires by thinking outside the box?
Some SP give you the time of your life, after my 9 year relationship my ex was the worse sex i ever had, missionary 10 minutes hurry my show starts in 10 minutes.
She gave the worse if i can call it that blow job i ever had. Why did i stay with her, because i had this idiot mentality that i did not want to die alone. We had a beautiful house we travelled and we went out a lot. But she was always a selfish self centered twat.
I got to Cuba at 41 and i had loss so much weight due to depression with a tan i had a beach body and to my big surprise younger women came on to me.
When i came back here i called Ferrari they sent me Marie she is retired now but she gave me the best blow job, while she was performing ahaha i was thinking what an idiot i was for missing on this for 9 years.
Then i got a few big boobs i love big boobs, and i was like my god those are incredible. Of course i did not get all good service but there were a few blew my mind and in all the girls i dated only 2 of them were insane in bed the rest were really crap.
The SP i am seeing right does have some limits but she got some insane beautiful breast, and a great ass she is fit and she gets tanned. I know its all fake she kisses me she compliments me on my physique even if now i look more like a fat polar bear or guy at my job called me Reacher, i laugh and say yeah fat reacher.
But all in all the price i pay seeing her a few times a month,. coming back home to my beautiful cats, and having total freedom, not having a women who you never know if she will cheat on you, even if you invest in her she barely invest in you, losing 2 houses due to separation no way never again.
I guess that if i ever meet another women at my age, i have tones of experience, and this time around i will pay attention to the red flags and not make the same mistakes i made with my past relationships. But who am i kidding i don't go online dating, and i don't meet women and at my age i don't really go out either.
She gave the worse if i can call it that blow job i ever had. Why did i stay with her, because i had this idiot mentality that i did not want to die alone. We had a beautiful house we travelled and we went out a lot. But she was always a selfish self centered twat.
I got to Cuba at 41 and i had loss so much weight due to depression with a tan i had a beach body and to my big surprise younger women came on to me.
When i came back here i called Ferrari they sent me Marie she is retired now but she gave me the best blow job, while she was performing ahaha i was thinking what an idiot i was for missing on this for 9 years.
Then i got a few big boobs i love big boobs, and i was like my god those are incredible. Of course i did not get all good service but there were a few blew my mind and in all the girls i dated only 2 of them were insane in bed the rest were really crap.
The SP i am seeing right does have some limits but she got some insane beautiful breast, and a great ass she is fit and she gets tanned. I know its all fake she kisses me she compliments me on my physique even if now i look more like a fat polar bear or guy at my job called me Reacher, i laugh and say yeah fat reacher.
But all in all the price i pay seeing her a few times a month,. coming back home to my beautiful cats, and having total freedom, not having a women who you never know if she will cheat on you, even if you invest in her she barely invest in you, losing 2 houses due to separation no way never again.
I guess that if i ever meet another women at my age, i have tones of experience, and this time around i will pay attention to the red flags and not make the same mistakes i made with my past relationships. But who am i kidding i don't go online dating, and i don't meet women and at my age i don't really go out either.
I think I'm finally getting over the SP I was "in love" with. After seeing her about 30 times in the past month, I'm starting to get sick of her
I think I'm finally breaking free of her spell!
For anyone wondering, this strategy does not work. Do not attempt this.
I think I'm finally getting over the SP I was "in love" with. After seeing her about 30 times in the past month, I'm starting to get sick of her
I think I'm finally breaking free of her spell!
What happened, got more attached?
Maybe take her on a trip overseas and see if that breaks the spell.
Joking aside, don’t you think that’s excessive?
He took a day of rest in a month so it's not excessive.
Maybe you should share who she is. As your wingmen, we'll get her fully booked so you won't be able to see her anymore
Maybe pricey, but not necessarily excessive.
In the past I have demanded more than that from guys I was in a relationship with. 1 time a day was a minimum.
Oscar Wilde said "moderation is fatal. Nothing succeeds like excess".He took a day of rest in a month so it's not excessive.
(I just googled that.)
But yes, I thought maybe excess would solve the problem. It didn't. Only made it worse. Now I'm broke
By being broke you’ll end up being creative and eventually find ways to make more money to satisfy your carnal appetite.Oscar Wilde said "moderation is fatal. Nothing succeeds like excess".
(I just googled that.)
But yes, I thought maybe excess would solve the problem. It didn't. Only made it worse. Now I'm broke
I feel you!
But I do think that what is happening here is that you aren't a self-centered twat.
And when you aren't a self-centered twat, it is a hard realization that a vast majority of people actually are self-centered twats... certainly not just women. Easily 9 out of 10 people are self-centered twats...
Welcome to the non-self-centered twat minority!
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By being broke you’ll end up being creative and eventually find ways to make more money to satisfy your carnal appetite.
The endless vicious circle of making more money to hobby more and still be broke. I feel for those who are truly addicted.
They move on to the next ATM.
Whenever you need a hard reminder of how most SPs really feel for you, take the money out of the equation.
To do this job, most girls must learn to hide or repress their feelings so in the end they feel practically nothing. They don't feel love, they don't feel hate. And if they feel anything, it's mostly contempt.
Lots of hobbyists are easy preys. Just flatter them.
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