In addition to dating a Blasian lady, I also dated 2 Blispanic women. The first was Black and Puerto Rican and the second was Black and Portuguese. The Bluguese woman said to me, on our first date, "I bet you that this is the first time you ever dated someone who is half black and half Portuguese?" And she was right- it was! Interesting thing about her is that although she has dark skin, she really does not have any African features. She looks like Ariana Grande and has the same body type. The other Blispanic girl I dated had African features. The Blasian lady was the most attractive of those 3. What a wonderful mix she is. Try and picture a young Halle Berry with Asian eyes and that is her.
Jalimon- sorry to hear of your ban. You will have to start a new profile- with new email unless they can track your IP address somehow. If you are too direct girls will report you. You have not said whether you were using English or French in your offending postings. There are some English code words that can be used, like intimacy rather than sex. Never use the word sex or any acronyms associated with sex acts as we do here on MERB. SA is not MERB. Captain Renault did post some good advice about saving the details for in person, on any sexual acts and especially compensation for same. However, even in person the way I always frame payments are "allowances" for "dates", not specific payments for specific acts. You talk about the date details in person. The girls use Code as well. One I dated would call it "play", which of course is a vague word that can mean many things. Others say stuff like "private time." You need to know the SA language. The language is different than MERBese.
The critical key to success on SA, which is now just calling itself "Seeking", is communication skills, not money. The only guys who think the key to success on SA is money are the guys who have none. My success rate on SA improved dramatically over the course of time due to learning the lingo through experience. It is a fucking game. Just like the game of football or hockey, the second year player is better than the rookie, and the third year player is better than the second year player, and so on in most cases. I am a 5th year player now in the prime of his career- I have another 5-6 years before I start to get too old and show it. Experience improves you in the game. You make mistakes, do not get dates and learn what works and what doesn't. I recently had my first doubleheader of SA dates in New York City. I saw one lady for lunch on 35th Street at 2 pm, and then met the second at a bar on 36th Street at 5 pm. Both ladies were great and I intend to see both of them again. I was kind of surprised both dates went as well as they did. Both girls offered up an intimate date at the end of the platonic first date and quickly gave me their cell numbers, so now the only question is picking which one is first and when I can actually meet her.
One thing I can share that I think is important and cannot be overstated is behaving like a normal, courteous person and treating a woman with respect. Respect is manifested in how you communicate and whether you are able to express yourself tactfully and gentlemanly while at the same time letting the girl know that intimacy is the end game. There is a large % of the male population which simply cannot do it, from what I hear from my SA dates. They find many men rude, and to me that is code for being too blunt and not taking a slow and steady strategic communication path. I think a lot of guys do not even think strategically, they just open their mouths and spontaneously spew words. My verbiage is always calculated. I go into any date, especially a date to nail down an arrangement, with a plan in my head which includes answers to the likely questions you will be asked. The unprepared hockey player who has no plan of what to do will get sweep-checked and stripped as he rushes the puck up ice. Similarly, guys with no plan on SA do not get past first base.
