Hey everyone, (sorry for the long message in advance!)
Since reading all of this thread helped me out a lot in discovering SA and the world of sugar daddies and sugar babies, i wanted to write about my experience with SA as it could benefit others.
A couple of months ago, after reading this thread and in search of variety (i was always seeing the same MP/SP), i registered a free account on SA and was browsing the women in my area and was pleasantly surprised by the nice women i was seeing so i decided to try for 1 month only (due to the very high price of 80$ US per month to be able to exchange messages!!)
During that month, i tried to get as many contacts (phone numbers) as possible before my account expires and then i would decide which one(s) i would see. I did put photos of myself (im a guy next door, no brad pitt) and i was surprised by the amount of women coming to talk to me! Most of them told me it was because i was young (below 40 years old). I barely did have to make the first steps, they came first! I only had to choose!
I told the same thing to all women that i discussed with, i told them that i was looking for simple SD/SB relationship to go out and have fun but i was most looking for "intimate relationships". I told them i would pay all expenses and i was willing only to pay a fee per encounter. So right from the start they knew what i wanted and i was offering them 300$ per encounter (i was requesting a minimum of 2 hours). I also told them that they could have other SD if they wanted and told them i might have other SB's.
In 1 month, i got a total of 11 phone numbers. I also discussed with 5-6 women where they werent interested or i didnt pursue further because i had too many contacts (i am not that rich to sustain that many relationships all at the same time! ha ha ha)
1st SB: She contacted me within minutes after i paid for my account. She was a 24 yo girl next door, a little chubby but she was taking care of herself. She wanted 2000$ per month for one encounter a week but was willing to meet at a 300$ encounter once to see if it clicked. However i never met her. She was always busy and i found hotter chicks so i just never messaged her back
2nd SB: A super hot 20yo asian college girl, she messaged me and was totally up for the offer but she was asking for 500$ per encounter. We went to have a drink in a bar, she was so hot that most of the guys were turning their heads to look at her when we were passing through and looking at me with a smile. We did chat for about 2 hours and were having fun and i invited her home and we had sex on the first night. Sex was good but she was mostly on her cell phone all the time so she wasnt 100% there when i was chatting with her and i thought 500$ per encounter was a lot so i thought i would meet others before pursuing but i was never able to reach her after, she must have found another SD with more money
3rd SB: A 18 yo girl next door little nympho student with a very nice little body! That was my best encounter. She was the one who reached out to me on the site, she asked for 400$ per encounter but pretty much everything is on the menu. After discussing terms, there was no pre-meeting, she came directly to my home. Sex has been awesome. I saw her about 10 times since then, still seeing her now!
4th SB: A 24 yo sportive girl next door. I thought she was cute and i am the one who reached out to her on SA. She was very open to my offer and there was no pre-meeting either, she came to my home, we chatted for a few hours and had sex. She was pretty open, i saw her about 5-6 times. However i stopped seeing her because she had a busy schedule and each time i was seeing her, she kept reducing the time we spent together and always had to leave early but wasnt reducing the donation. So instead of arguing on this and due to the fact i had so many potential candidates, i didnt pursue.
5th SB: a 23 yo girl next door type again with a nice style. I had found her on tinder before and didnt have a match so when i saw her on SA, i didnt hesitate to message her because i thought she looked very nice. We discussed a little and she was so busy she didnt have time for a boyfriend but she wanted to have some no strings attached fun (but for money
) She asked 400$ per encounter (i didnt succeed in dealing below) and she came directly to my home without a pre-meeting. As usual the modus operandi was chatting for a while with a drink and having sex. She was pretty open and sex was good. Only saw her twice because she is always too busy. We had multiple scheduled meetings that failed to happen but i am still exchanging text messages with her at this point.
6th SB: A 20 yo girl next door. We exchanged a looooot of messages regarding what we were looking for. She was looking for only 1 sugar daddy to be with exclusively. (she was coming off a 1 year relation with a SD) I told her i wasnt set on being exclusive yet but told her it could be possible. Then i found out she had a fake picture but she sent me some pictures of her through text messages, even topless ones which made me want to meet her! Money wasnt that important to her, she thought 300$ was too much, she was willing to take less money. We arranged a pre-meeting and went to have a drink, then i brought her home and we had sex. She wasnt very open and sex was just ok so i didnt see her again. Anyway i wasnt entirely what she was looking for especially with my experiences with my little nympho!
7th SB: a 19 yo girl with a very nice athletic body (as per her pictures). She reached out to me on SA, she was looking for A LOT of money for a big trip. I discussed a little with her and told her what i was looking for and she wasnt open to having intimate relationship for money. She was expecting to be paid 250$ per encounter for just her company. I still got her cell phone number to keep discussing. She then disappeared from the site because she kept getting weird requests from really old guys as she told me and she said she kept me because i was cute. I proposed to her to go have a drink and chat and see if it works and then we can think about going further if she wants. She agreed but the 2 times we were supposed to meet, she backed out. I kept exchanging text messages with her for 2 months but it never got anywhere. So nothing happened!
8th SB: A 26 yo university student, very beautiful on her pictures. She is the one who reached out to me on SA. We discussed and i told her what i was looking for, she agreed to my terms and exchanged phone numbers to arrange a meeting. I tried to setup a meeting around 5-6 times over 2 months, each time she would tell me she would get back to me but never did. I guess she had too many SD's. I didnt message her after
9th SB: A 18 year old very cute student (as per her pictures). She was pretty never online and after discussing, she was looking for a relationship more on the romantic side. She was open to intimate relationship but not at the beginning. I could see this one being a very long game. But she was hot so i decided i would try. We exchanged phone numbers and discussed many times over text messages. I tried setting up meetings 2-3 times just to have a drink and discuss to see if there was a connection. After a while, she was very slow to respond to messages and she ended up telling me that she wouldnt pursue because she wasnt "game" enough to meet someone, she had never met someone through that site before even if she was registered for many months. So that one was time lost entirely.
10th SB: A 20 year old college student of the girl next door type but her pictures showed that she had a great body. She reached out to me on SA to discuss. As usual i told her my terms and she agreed to them. She quickly gave me her phone number to chat. I tried setting up a meeting on a weekday and the day she was available was a day i was meeting another SB so i told her i would let her know if i could make it. Then my other SB couldnt on that day so when i got back to her, she wasnt available anymore. I tried to arrange other meetings just to go chat, have a drink and see if there was a connection but she never could and was slow to respond which means lack of interest. She either found other SD's or she just wasnt "game" enough like the other one. No meeting happened, i lost my time on that one.
11th SB: a 21 year old university student coming from another canadian province. She was in Quebec to learn french and study. She is the one who reached out to me on SA. i thought she was cute on her pictures, a girl next door. We quickly exchanged phone numbers and arranged a meeting to have a drink and chat. We had lots of fun and we connected so after that she discussed her terms. Also, she was much hotter in person than on her pictures. She initially had agreed to my terms but she said that she wanted 500$ instead of 300$ for a meeting. Since she was asking for that much, i asked her to stay the night which she agreed. I picked her up and brought her home, we had a drink and discussed and had fun. Then we had sex twice, and once again in the morning! She had an awesome body. After that meeting, we exchanged a couple of text messages and i wanted to see her again but she just stopped responding to me and she disappeared from SA. So i guess this was a one time deal, or she found a SD with more money (or more interesting than me). It was weird because we had lots of fun and then no news. Its too bad because i would have seen her again!
There were many other women that i discussed with that didnt go anywhere. There was a 26yo single mom with a superb little body that agreed to my terms but we never could arrange a meeting due to her needing someone to take care of the kid during our meeting and anyway, i had so many SB's that i just stopped trying with her.
So in overall, my experience was hit and miss, a lot of discussions and arrangements dont go anywhere but there are also a lot of open women who are willing to go intimate quickly if your price match their needs! There were many hot women that i didnt even go for on SA because their lifestyle was set to luxurious and i was definitely not rich enough to even be in their league (they didnt reach out to me either
) I am pretty sure that all of the women i met werent SP's but just regular girl next door looking to make some money. I look at all the ads in my region and recognized many SP's (and even MP's that i already met before) by looking at the pictures on SA.
If you are average looking and clearly tell them what you want, you can make some good encounters on SA. I feel like pursing but the monthly price tag to be on the site is too high for me. Among all the SB's i have met, i am still seeing 2 of them and enjoying it