Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Yeah, we were talking about how she had no candid pics, they were all photoshoot or super sultry, and I said her smile was something others should see bc it made her more approachable so we did a few in bed, duvet covering the important bits, then some in the see-through shower (shout out W Hotel) and against the window that were risque, while trying to make her laugh/smile. I'm not a great photog but I know a good pic when I see it.

She said other people loved those pics/videos and it had the desired effect: I get the pride and memories of our time and it created more bookings and made some revenue on OF for her. That's a win/win in my book. I know some people don't like it when providers post pics of other dates/other gifts they've received but personally I love seeing/hearing about our time anonymously on social media or otherwise.

Honestly if a client was truly skilled at photography and it was in a setting like a hotel room or another place that isn't my incall, I'd definitely let him take candid photos of me.

What I'm more uncomfortable with is graphic photos. When I first started escorting I had a client who wanted to take pictures of my face every time he came all over it, and I knew how exciting this was for him but who knows what happened with these photos...

 

[LC18]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

Exactly

 

[LeDodo]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

So in the eventuality you somehow allowed picture taking it would have to be a photo that you thought nice that will make it keep them?

 

[philonius]

I don’t allow photos or videos. Even with my own phone I’m not a fan, I just don’t like when people take photos of me because they keep shaking and don’t have the same artistic vision as I do. Whenever I did, I ended up deleting them and never using them

Why do they keep shaking Lena? Sounds like it might be partially your fault lol.

 

[LC18]

So in the eventuality you somehow allowed picture taking it would have to be a photo that you thought nice that will make it keep them?

No

 

[philonius]

You should ask for some royalties lol

The work is its own payment lol. It's just hot to know that I was even there and watched it unfold with my own eyes.

 

[Modnar]

Most of us don't want photos being taken..

For me a part of it is about not feeling sure that the picture will be good and feeling self conscious, I've had clients take photos of me during dates with my own phone number and they were terrible lol.. Most people aren't great photographers.

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

 

[Modnar]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

[*]Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?

I always know who wrote the review, yes!

 

[LC18]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

 

[jeffmathers]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

 

[Modnar]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

What’s stopping you?

 

[LC18]

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

 

[ChloeCoeur]

• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

 

[Modnar]

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

That does make sense. I'm quite paranoid about STI's, so I even keep track of when I first notice things like spots or rashes and when I saw SP's.
Because of that, it would honestly be surprising to me if SP's didn't keep some kind of record.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

Yes and I don't know who each person is but most of the time I can tell. And yes I do keep records of past clients when I can.. I don't write reviews like people here lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

I've had someone ask me to wear a terrifying fetish mask before for that purpose.. I said no.

 

[LeDodo]

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

A very long time ago I watched Secret Diary of a call girl. I think it's fictional but I might want to watch it again because back then I think I didn't understand the background lol

 

[CuriousGent]

I've seen people do this before. some of us are okay with it, some are not. I've often had clients refuse to match my donation to my duo partner, and I accepted it because I didn't want to lose the opportunity to do a duo since I really enjoy them.. but it's really ideal to match the rates. you are also mentioning different options. Once, I had a duo with a provider who had a PSE option. I assume the client saw that because he treated her very differently from me, he matched our rates (her GFE rate was higher than mine) but he did not pay for PSE.. He was a lot more rowdy with her and it made me really uncomfortable. I think it's important to discuss everything with both duo partners.

if you don't mind me asking, did it make you uncomfortable because PSE is not something you offer or because you felt like the other provider was herself uncomfortable?