I don't know what you're referring to but I'm sure it's not a good idea to get into this, I was going to suggest a wholesome question or topic but that's also not welcome.. so.. have a good night everyone and make sure to write down your dreams
Ask us anything part 3
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Like I said, it's right there in post 2,906! See below:
Here's an example: there are very few women who study Physics. Why? A student of Gender Studies would say: "That must be because male scientists who have dominated the field since the beginning are sexists!" The reality is more complicated than that. Decades of psychological research have shown that personality traits and certain innate abilities that vary between men and women influence career choices. That's not to say that there are no talented female physicists–there certainly are many! But to answer these types of question, we have to look at group averages. To further illustrate my point: does anyone think that the fact that 80% of clinical psychologists are women is caused by an anti-men bias in the field? Probably not. In fact, numerous studies have shown that women are, on average, more empathetic than men. Empathy is a very important trait to successfully practice psychotherapy in the 21st century. I also don't believe that psychologists are underpaid (current hourly rate of $140-250 (minus expenses, of course))
This should be nothing new. This debate played out in the media and on social media over the past 10 years. The "woke" crowd were excellent at creating a climate of fear and intimidation, and among the very few who dared telling the truth, based on rigorous scientific research, some lost their job (see the "Google letter" for example). Fortunately, the primacy of rational scientific inquiry is being restored.
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I look at the breasts. Are they natural (I don't like fake breasts as much)? If they sag a little, that's a bonus. I examine the poses in the photos, considering whether they seem too heavily edited or filtered. Photos that look natural appeal to me more. Sacroiliac dimples and a little extra padding on the stomach (forming a small bump between the navel and the pubis) really turn me on. A photo dressed in a sundress or little black dress and another in beautiful lingerie (lace) where you can see a bit of a nipple... In short, a natural look is what turns me on.
I read the description/ad to get an idea of whether there would be any affinity, but it often doesn't tell me much. I like mentions of what the SP likes, such as: I really like my ass or my breasts, I love feeling a cock grow in my mouth, or I'm the type to take charge. Descriptions are often a list of what the SP does or doesn't do, rather than a description of what she likes most.
I book on the whole package, trying to see if there will be a fit.
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Someone that is sexy and classy, and looks healthy. Also a smile is always preferred, as shows you are someone that has fun. Looking fit and trim is also a bonus to me. Tatoos are neither good nor bad.I would not wish to be talked about in this way, and I wouldn't want those I see to be disrespected either.
contrary to what point was being made, I would say I have been fortunate enough to enjoy time in this, with some men I wouldn't have even attempted to catch eyes with in public, and some quality blessings I might not have given them the time they deserved.
So, question.
For the gents,
We are in a field that your attraction to us is important, not ours to you.
What catches your eye first to book? Legs, waist, breast, butt, lingerie... ect.
And do you book primarily on looks? (Like those who see a picture, number, and don't read anything further) Or does the bio/ad play much importance?
“I should have booked you instead of spending money on another person”
“I want to book you but you’re out of my budget so I will book this person instead”
“I am planning on seeing this person and maybe you”
“I wish your rates were the same as this person”
Do you read yourself before you press send?
Do you think it gives us a good impression?
Why did you think it was a good idea to send that?
“I want to book you but you’re out of my budget so I will book this person instead”
“I am planning on seeing this person and maybe you”
“I wish your rates were the same as this person”
Do you read yourself before you press send?
Do you think it gives us a good impression?
Why did you think it was a good idea to send that?
I'm a fairly new member of MERB and I just finished reading this long, very informative and addictive thread. Thank you Lena for starting it. Often in life, there is more to be learned about the person who is asking the question than about the answer itself!.
My first question for the lady's is as follows :
If a regular client that you appreciate and see for 2 hrs dates and 4 hrs dinnerdates regularly asked you if you would consider accompanying him to watch a movie or a show free of charge following one of your regular 4 hrs dinnerdate at regular price, how would you feel?
I'm asking because I respect what SW's do for society and for me in particular and would never want to offend a person I truly appreciate by asking her a freebie either for an intimate date or a social date in a bar or restaurant. That said, I would never pay hundreds of dollars just to have a person to sit next to me during a show knowing full well that nothing will happen except maybe holding hands.
Thank you ladies for taking time to answer this question.
My first question for the lady's is as follows :
If a regular client that you appreciate and see for 2 hrs dates and 4 hrs dinnerdates regularly asked you if you would consider accompanying him to watch a movie or a show free of charge following one of your regular 4 hrs dinnerdate at regular price, how would you feel?
I'm asking because I respect what SW's do for society and for me in particular and would never want to offend a person I truly appreciate by asking her a freebie either for an intimate date or a social date in a bar or restaurant. That said, I would never pay hundreds of dollars just to have a person to sit next to me during a show knowing full well that nothing will happen except maybe holding hands.
Thank you ladies for taking time to answer this question.
I thought this has been answered here multiple times but maybe it’s in a different thread. Either way, they’ll chime in if they feel it’s necessary but the consensus is that most would not participate in free time outside of a booking. This is their business and asking them to offer their time out for free (even if it is just watching a movie) is disrespectful.
How would you feel if your boss asked you to come in on a Saturday but wouldn’t pay you? You’ve been working there for years so surely you would say yes, right?
Often personal and professional time are mixed together.
It's easy to take the shortcut and say that watching a movie it's nice and should be a win win for everyone.
But as clients we need to remember that her time to us is professional time. We might think that we are giving "just" personal time.
To your point regarding paying a SP for holding hands, you are free to think the worth of your money for that but again, a SP is giving you this time as a professional time. If you want to make your money worth, you can just book the corresponding service needed.
If you take it to the extreme, just imagine a SP saying yes to all free activities from multiple (yes we are not alone and she is not dedicated to us) clients. Where is her own, real free time?
Having said that I would say if the SP on her own (and not on suggestions from the client) decide to give free time, it's her call and decision. We should not take it for granted.
Also a client asking for such freebies is also putting her in a difficult positions. Even though she appreciates you, she is human and it hurts to push back someone that you can appreciate although it's a professional relationship.
Here was my blunt 2 cents
Why would you not include the movie in your social date time?
Thanks for your answer. Certainly don't want to start an argument here, I see your point but I don't believe that going to watch a show after having a 4 hrs dinner date in a nice restaurant compares to working a full day for free. I'm not asking for a free GFE date. But again I asked your for your feelings and I understand for you it's a no-no. Thank you.
I see your pov, but the issue is that this business is not like most. The business IS the time spent with you. So the only way, really, for your idea to have legs is if she brings up the idea of spending time with you outside of the "meeting" scenario. Otherwise it will just seem like you want more time with her for free... when her business is literally her time. It's not like asking the cashier out on a date after her shift.
Thank you, really I appreciate any reply to my question. As a client, even if I consider myself a very respectful person, I understand I need to see things from the SP's point of view. To answer your question, I am willing to pay for social time but for me social times means talking with the person, learning about her, having a good time with that person. Not watching a show in silence. Nevertheless, so far seeing the answers I got, It doesn't seem to be a very good idea. Thank you for your input Rebaynia .
Define regularly? If you book these 6-hour long appointments with me every week, after 3 months we should start discussing an arrangement, of course!
Thank you, excellent answer that give me food for thoughts. The funny part is that I already know that time is the most valuable thing we have but somehow I did not see that in that particular situation. Really appreciate your input on this.
My head on your shoulder, our hands on thighs, exchanging a look and a laugh when a funny scene comes up, discussing of the movie afterwards, whispering a few dirty things during the movie; watching a movie for me is always a shared experience. I bet you never had a good movie companion :- )
