Ask us anything part 3

[Modnar]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

[*]Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?

I always know who wrote the review, yes!

 

[LC18]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

 

[jeffmathers]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

 

[Modnar]

About once a month I think about Bruna Surfistinha that was reviewing her clients online and wish I could do the same

What’s stopping you?

 

[LC18]

Is there a way for me to see the reviews? I googled "Bruna Surfistinha reviews" and am guessing this is from a movie or book

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

 

[ChloeCoeur]

• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

 

[Modnar]

I keep records that include contact info, dates, session type, how it went, etc... useful for a number of reasons

That does make sense. I'm quite paranoid about STI's, so I even keep track of when I first notice things like spots or rashes and when I saw SP's.
Because of that, it would honestly be surprising to me if SP's didn't keep some kind of record.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

A few questions for SP's on reviews and client management (I apologize if this has been asked before; I tried searching but couldn't find a recent discussion on these topics):

• Do you read reviews written about you? If so, are you generally able to tell who the client was from the details in the review?
• Do you keep your own records of past clients? If so, what kind of information do you track (e.g., punctuality, communication, hygiene, etc.)?

Yes and I don't know who each person is but most of the time I can tell. And yes I do keep records of past clients when I can.. I don't write reviews like people here lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Someone else already asked this but I think there wasn't an answer: what about photos/videos that avoid the face?

I've had someone ask me to wear a terrifying fetish mask before for that purpose.. I said no.

 

[LeDodo]

A book then a movie based on a real Brazilian escort

A very long time ago I watched Secret Diary of a call girl. I think it's fictional but I might want to watch it again because back then I think I didn't understand the background lol

 

[CuriousGent]

I've seen people do this before. some of us are okay with it, some are not. I've often had clients refuse to match my donation to my duo partner, and I accepted it because I didn't want to lose the opportunity to do a duo since I really enjoy them.. but it's really ideal to match the rates. you are also mentioning different options. Once, I had a duo with a provider who had a PSE option. I assume the client saw that because he treated her very differently from me, he matched our rates (her GFE rate was higher than mine) but he did not pay for PSE.. He was a lot more rowdy with her and it made me really uncomfortable. I think it's important to discuss everything with both duo partners.

if you don't mind me asking, did it make you uncomfortable because PSE is not something you offer or because you felt like the other provider was herself uncomfortable?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

if you don't mind me asking, did it make you uncomfortable because PSE is not something you offer or because you felt like the other provider was herself uncomfortable?

It made me uncomfortable because he didn't pay her extra for PSE.. and I did feel like she was uncomfortable. She told me after the booking she thought he was rough with her. (he pulled her hair really hard to the point where I had to kinda move his had, slapped her ass really hard, i think COF or CIM too)

There are a lot of clients who think that because we offer something extra or something else we're always willing to do it and prepared. I've heard stories of providers getting "surprise anal" or "surprise CIM" with no proper compensation because they were charging these as extra..

There's a difference between GFE and PSE for a reason.. and there's a reason why providers charge more for PSE

 

[Sean007]

It made me uncomfortable because he didn't pay her extra for PSE.. and I did feel like she was uncomfortable. She told me after the booking she thought he was rough with her. (he pulled her hair really hard to the point where I had to kinda move his had, slapped her ass really hard, i think COF or CIM too)

There are a lot of clients who think that because we offer something extra or something else we're always willing to do it and prepared. I've heard stories of providers getting "surprise anal" or "surprise CIM" with no proper compensation because they were charging these as extra..

There's a difference between GFE and PSE for a reason.. and there's a reason why providers charge more for PSE

This kind of rough play is not really my cup of tea, quite the opposite actually. We’ve been through this multiplie times but what about discussing this kind of stuff beforehand to get CONSENT? I’m not sure one who is in this kind of kinks stuff goes to make sure his/her partner is OK with with whatever is going to happen. Rather simple I would say! Again my seances are generally “go with the flow” and since those are generally really smooth if a provider is not comfortable she has plenty of time to mention it before it is too late!!!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This kind of rough play is not really my cup of the, quite the opposite actually. We’ve been through this multiplie times but what about discussing this kind of stuff beforehand to get CONSENT? I’m not sure one who is in this kind of kinks stuff goes to make sure his/her partner is OK with with whatever is going to happen. Rather simple I would say! Again my seances are generally “go with the flow” and since those are generally really smooth if a provider is not comfortable she has plenty of time to mention it before it is too late!!!

This was a client I had seen alone before and he was totally different one on one. I was mortified. I think if you hire providers you have to understand that not everyone wants to offer the same things and that some things have to be discussed beforehand

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

This was a client I had seen alone before and he was totally different one on one. I was mortified. I think if you hire providers you have to understand that not everyone wants to offer the same things and that some things have to be discussed beforehand

Consent is the only key to a good / great, session with authenticity

 

[CuriousGent]

This was a client I had seen alone before and he was totally different one on one. I was mortified. I think if you hire providers you have to understand that not everyone wants to offer the same things and that some things have to be discussed beforehand

would you see him again alone ?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

would you see him again alone ?

I've only seen this client twice and it's been a really long time. This happened over a year ago. Yes I'd probably see him again alone.. he seemed to understand my boundaries.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don't stop seeing clients when they make mistakes unless they did something that is unacceptable for me like hurting me physically, insulting me, asking for things I don't offer etc

 

[philonius]

I don't stop seeing clients when they make mistakes unless they did something that is unacceptable for me like hurting me physically, insulting me, asking for things I don't offer etc

Seems like it went past the line of acceptable to the other person but you know what's best for you. It's stuff like this that makes me grateful for the ladies I see bc I realize I don't understand the full gamut of their side of this industry and the challenges they face.