I don't think it's just necessarily that word, at least for me... I think some SP enjoy it, but not all of us do. I don't think I'm a prude for not wanting to be called a bitch and other things like this during sex.. I don't like that in my personal life either.Thanks, yes that's why I always clear it with a SP first, and that I'm by no means to be taken seriously and that the talk is for entertainment purposes only (and after years of normalizing the practice with my ex it's as much a reflex as anything else). So far the few I've engaged with have happily gotten on board with it, seem to have fun with it, and say that dirty talk is something they too enjoy.
It's just the use of the "W" word that seems problematic in this context. So I'll be keeping a lid on that one.
Appreciate your input. Merry Xmas!!
I think a lot of practices are normalized because of porn but are on the kinky and dominant side of things, like very very rough sex, hair pulling or choking or slapping people's ass really hard, even face slaps or spitting or non consensual anal play. I don't think these acts are bad, I just think it's not everyone's cup of tea and it's better to ask before.




