Ask us anything part 3

[Nachoy]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

I wonder what's your reason for asking this question.. it's never happened to me but I'll answer in DM's

 

[Julia Sky]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

It really depends on several factors, I don't have a "one answer fits all".

 

[S.S neo]

Have you seen an increase of demands to spit on that thang since the Hawk Tuah hype last year ?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Have you seen an increase of demands to spit on that thang since the Hawk Tuah hype last year ?

no lol

 

[Fradi]

It really depends on several factors, I don't have a "one answer fits all".

I don’t see this happening with you lol.
You are far too skilled for any normal guy not to be in the mood after 10 minutes with you.

Besides that if you have stayed 10 minutes then you have basically accepted the date and unless she was not willing to do anything she is entitled to be payed.
Every bodies time is valuable including an SP.
Guys should do their homework before they book someone.

 

[Rebaynia]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave

Hasn't happened. I am face out. You know what you are getting before I even head over, and I try to have enough comunication to be sure we are compatible before even heading over.

What you are asking here sounds like the expierience of someone who is on coke, and that is their own doing. They can and will often try for many hours, and every time they go back for a line they prevent themselves from functioning for even longer.

Do you give a partial refund ?

No I wouldn't. It still took me gas and time to get there, and am pretty sure we will get along well before even arriving. I screen for people who want the expierience of another person, not just sexual acts.

Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?

I drive to them, and the goal is the visit goes well for both of us. When the mood shifts, you make the best of it, don't just give up. It's about having fun together, and feeling good (pleasure recieved) reguardless of the ability of the member to get hard. A flacid member can still expierience pleasure, even if it isn't responding in the desired way.

Tell him it is his loss not mine.

It is the gamble of meeting someone for the first time. We can't get along with everyone. It's an unrealistic expectation to think we will get along with everyone we meet in our lives.

Or something else ?

The visits I have walked away from, the decision was made before money ever changed hands. Once the transaction took place, it is generally a no refund situation after. We make the best out of the time we have together. (If he crosses boundaries it may lead to ending the session early, but there is still no refund if he is disrespecting boundaries.)

Often if there's no chemistry, it is felt long before meeting in person, while still in the messaging stage. It is why I can't imagine having a booker. I get to be sure the people I am meeting and I, get along before we ever meet face to face.

ED is a very real thing, and it is rarely the fault of the partner, often a personal mental or health issue.

 

[Nachoy]

I have a fantasy of SP coming over to my place of work and role play being a customer and then we have sex in the office. Of course the office is private and secure.
I that a reasonable out call scenario that most SP willing to do if they already know the client?

 

[Rebaynia]

I have a fantasy of SP coming over to my place of work and role play being a customer and then we have sex in the office. Of course the office is private and secure.
I that a reasonable out call scenario that most SP willing to do if they already know the client?

Work places don't generally have accessible showers. I require cleaning facilities after my visits. I need to clean any sweat, lube, and scent of another person off me before I head out. I wouldn't feel comfortable on the drive home if I felt icky.
Sure I guess it's great for business and clients, but cleaning up after the appointment is more for my comfort than anyone else's.

 

[Julia Sky]

I have a fantasy of SP coming over to my place of work and role play being a customer and then we have sex in the office. Of course the office is private and secure.
I that a reasonable out call scenario that most SP willing to do if they already know the client?

Secretly dreaming of the day this happens to me lol. Closest I did was a student dorm on a campus. I would prefer an office, provided it's discreet enough

 

[EastWind]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

“if you want to catch fish don’t ask the fish but ask the fisherman.” The SP is going to tip toe in answering this which makes sense.

As a hobbyist first and for most in its foundation a person. Someone who knows what will turn him on. I mean you know within a few minutes if not seconds you want to get naked with her. You give her the envelope if you want to bust that nut. If not you give her $20 to $40 let her go nicely you don’t waste your time and hers. Giving her the envelope and not sure you want to carry things through you are asking for disaster. Once you hand her the money it is her money not yours anymore and a real pain to negotiate lol.

 

[Nachoy]

What was the most unhygienic thing you encounter with a client that made think ….ewww I can’t service this guy.

 

[Julia Sky]

What was the most unhygienic thing you encounter with a client that made think ….ewww I can’t service this guy.

This is such a weird and useless question. Please stop asking escorts about the worst things they go through it's weird and unwelcomed. "Please relive your most disgusting or traumatic day at work to satisfy my curiosity"

 

[Julia Sky]

“if you want to catch fish don’t ask the fish but ask the fisherman.” The SP is going to tip toe in answering this which makes sense.

As a hobbyist first and for most in its foundation a person. Someone who knows what will turn him on. I mean you know within a few minutes if not seconds you want to get naked with her. You give her the envelope if you want to bust that nut. If not you give her $20 to $40 let her go nicely you don’t waste your time and hers. Giving her the envelope and not sure you want to carry things through you are asking for disaster. Once you hand her the money it is her money not yours anymore and a real pain to negotiate lol.

20-40$ is less than many people's cancelation fee so I suggest looking at people's cancelation policy before booking so you don't end up being that person

 

[Nachoy]

This is such a weird and useless question. Please stop asking escorts about the worst things they go through it's weird and unwelcomed. "Please relive your most disgusting or traumatic day at work to satisfy my curiosity"

You are misunderstanding my question Im asking for unhygienic things in clients that turns you off Not the most disgusting traumatic events that happen to you as an escort. which you can keep private.
I was expecting answers like client leaving skid marks in the bedsheets from his ass
or has cheese in the dick after showering.
If there is disgusting things you rather share with other SPs that is up to you
This is MERB and how can services work better for all of us ?
Why do escort join a review forum and refuses to share any guidance or explanation.about what specific unhygienic qualities clients have ?

 

[Julia Sky]

You are misunderstanding my question Im asking for unhygienic things in clients that turns you off Not the most disgusting traumatic events that happen to you as an escort. which you can keep private.
I was expecting answers like client leaving skid marks in the bedsheets from his ass
or has cheese in the dick after showering.
If there is disgusting things you rather share with other SPs that is up to you
This is MERB and how can services work better for all of us ?
Why do escort join a review forum and refuses to share any guidance or explanation.about what specific unhygienic qualities clients have ?

I didn't say "disgusting and traumatic" I said "disgusting or traumatic". The word "or" has a meaning. Disgusting might not be traumatic but it's still a very unpleasant thing and a very unpleasant question to be asked. You really don't need to ask this question to figure out that hygiene is vital. If you need "skid marks are disgusting" spelled out for you in order to become a better client perhaps you aren't anyone's target clientele in the first place.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

20-40$ is less than many people's cancelation fee so I suggest looking at people's cancelation policy before booking so you don't end up being that person

I also suggest just.. not doing this at all. The provider got ready for the booking, adjusted her schedule around this etc. I understand that in some cases the client really wants to leave like if the place is unsanitary, the provider looks like she's not all there, the photos were fake, there's something threatening etc otherwise there's no excuse to just book, show up and leave.

However I would prefer if a client decided to leave upon arrival (this has never happened to me in over 3 years) over him starting the service and asking for his money back because he can't get hard. Clients know themselves.. some clients have told me they often can't cum or get hard with providers but they still try. There are older men who can't get it up at all but they still book providers because they want to feel feminine warmth. Why would I have to give the money back?

It's my job to turn on someone, sure, but if someone is not in the right state to be turned on either mentally or physically, that isn't my problem. I'm being paid for my time. Men who are 70+ often don't care that they don't get hard, they just want to play around a bit and make out and feel cared for in that way. There are guys who are too nervous to perform once in a while too, even if that is rare. I try really hard to make them feel comfortable, but they are not sure about the whole experience.. Usually it works out in the end, but I feel like I almost have to make them go through it and I can tell they are hesitant because of moral ideas and guilt..

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You are misunderstanding my question Im asking for unhygienic things in clients that turns you off Not the most disgusting traumatic events that happen to you as an escort. which you can keep private.
I was expecting answers like client leaving skid marks in the bedsheets from his ass
or has cheese in the dick after showering.
If there is disgusting things you rather share with other SPs that is up to you
This is MERB and how can services work better for all of us ?
Why do escort join a review forum and refuses to share any guidance or explanation.about what specific unhygienic qualities clients have ?

Those events can actually be traumatic tho. Like I've explained before how I've had clients who didn't wash their ass when I worked at MP's and when I was massaging their back I could smell shit. I've found shit in showers at a massage parlor I worked at, after a client came by. I had a client who was morbidly obese who had a bunch of paper towels between folds of his skins because he was sweating and it was hot outside and removed them when he was in bed with me. That stuff kinda stays burned in your mind for a while. It's also that when we complain about clients here, everyone feels targeted..

But yeah most clients I have know how to shower and wash their mouth properly at this point lol I make sure to let them know they have to be clean, and I am also very clean. I am really lucky and privileged at this point because I am able to get clients who are respectful and take care of themselves before coming to see me. At some point as a provider you can demand that kind of respect from your clients and avoid bad behavior. That is also why I am so outspoken online, even if I know it rubs people the wrong way (and I understand why).. It's a strategy because if I'm very honest there are less chances of me attracting clients who are disrespectful, most of the time.

I also think that I think men who really enjoy seeing escorts and truly appreciate us know what to do to have an enjoyable session with us, they know that they have to show up clean and that they have to be polite. They know the etiquette and they understand consent

 

[Enjoying life]

Those events can actually be traumatic tho. Like I've explained before how I've had clients who didn't wash their ass when I worked at MP's and when I was massaging their back I could smell shit. I've found shit in showers at a massage parlor I worked at, after a client came by. I had a client who was morbidly obese who had a bunch of paper towels between folds of his skins because he was sweating and it was hot outside and removed them when he was in bed with me. That stuff kinda stays burned in your mind for a while. It's also that when we complain about clients here, everyone feels targeted..

But yeah most clients I have know how to shower and brush their mouth properly at this point lol I make sure to let them know they have to be clean, and I am also very clean. I am really lucky and privileged at this point because I am able to get clients who are respectful and take care of themselves before coming to see me. At some point as a provider you can demand that kind of respect from your clients and avoid bad behavior. That is also why I am so outspoken online, even if I know it rubs people the wrong way (and I understand why).. It's a strategy because if I'm very honest there are less chances of me attracting clients who are disrespectful, most of the time.

I also think that I think men who really enjoy seeing escorts and truly appreciate us know what to do to have an enjoyable session with us, they know that they have to show up clean and that they have to be polite. They know the etiquette and they understand consent

Yes! Shower look your best even working out like I have for years and being a gentleman is what an sp does feel very comfortable with as it really works!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Yes! Shower look your best even working out like I have for years and being a gentleman is what an sp does feel very comfortable with as it really works!

Clients don't have to work out to see me, I'm just asking for good hygiene, kindness and respect.