Clients don't have to work out to see me, I'm just asking for good hygiene, kindness and respect.
Ask us anything part 3
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Thanks for your contributions to this thread. I like your open and honest replies. You have been my favorite SP to engage with hereClients don't have to work out to see me, I'm just asking for good hygiene, kindness and respect.
I only see 30 and over. I don't get along with those younger than that usually, I would do them a disservice accepting their booking request.
21 years old is my minimum age requirement because younger than that just feels creepy to me. I recently had a client who was 22 and I was surprised by how mature and smart he was. It isn't my personal preference to see much younger people tho. But if a client of that age wants to book me and doesn't feel weird about me being in my 30's, that's okay, as long as he's educated and respectful
I have seen as young as 18. I don't really find it creepy as it isn't people I have had any previous connection with, and I'm not actively looking for them, but they find me because they are actively looking for who I am. I get off on being someone's taboo fantasy.
He's a guy who has had to wait till he was 18 to expierience his fantasy, a woman 40+. He's likely had a thing for older women all along, and while some the 18 goal is alcohol, cigarettes or weed, his was a woman more than twice his age.
I'm in it to have fun, with consenting adults of any age who I believe I will enjoy my time with. It's no different than seeing a man in his 60's or 80's, why not see younger than I would seriously date, if I am also seeing older than I would seriously date. I'm not the one hunting them down, so I don't see why I should feel inappropriate for it.
I've had a few who like the step-mom fantasy, and been called mom & mommy by a few guys older then me aswell, including platinic non-sexual friends. It doesn't trigger me either as even my co-workers at my civi job call me mama. I just relate it to a vibe or kind of tenderness I seem to give off.
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Q: I had a longtime girlfriend who got me into the habit talking dirty to her during sex. Though she wasn't a talker herself, she loved being called "slut", "bitch", "c***", and (her absolute favourite) "whore".
The girlfriend is long gone but the habit remains. I always ask a new SP if dirty talk is ok with them, and that nothing I might say should be taken personally. I do however refrain from using the "W" word; but on occasion I've had to really bite my tongue to keep myself from uttering it when things get really hot.
So the question: Is the use of the "W" word acceptable to a SP in the context of dirty talk, or should I continue to just do my best to keep that one to myself.
Thanks for your understanding on this one.
The girlfriend is long gone but the habit remains. I always ask a new SP if dirty talk is ok with them, and that nothing I might say should be taken personally. I do however refrain from using the "W" word; but on occasion I've had to really bite my tongue to keep myself from uttering it when things get really hot.
So the question: Is the use of the "W" word acceptable to a SP in the context of dirty talk, or should I continue to just do my best to keep that one to myself.
Thanks for your understanding on this one.
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It depends on the person.. personally I don't think dirty talking is the same as humiliating someone. It can mean different things. I say no to dirty talking because usually what guys mean by that is they want to call you a bitch or a whore and it's fine if both parties are into it but if it's not consensual it's really degrading and unpleasant.
Thanks, yes that's why I always clear it with a SP first, and that I'm by no means to be taken seriously and that the talk is for entertainment purposes only (and after years of normalizing the practice with my ex it's as much a reflex as anything else). So far the few I've engaged with have happily gotten on board with it, seem to have fun with it, and say that dirty talk is something they too enjoy.
It's just the use of the "W" word that seems problematic in this context. So I'll be keeping a lid on that one.
Appreciate your input. Merry Xmas!!
I don't think it's just necessarily that word, at least for me... I think some SP enjoy it, but not all of us do. I don't think I'm a prude for not wanting to be called a bitch and other things like this during sex.. I don't like that in my personal life either.
I think a lot of practices are normalized because of porn but are on the kinky and dominant side of things, like very very rough sex, hair pulling or choking or slapping people's ass really hard, even face slaps or spitting or non consensual anal play. I don't think these acts are bad, I just think it's not everyone's cup of tea and it's better to ask before.
Yeah, I'm pretty vanilla as all that goes. Don't quite get the nasty domination business (and spitting is just simply gross).I don't think it's just necessarily that word, at least for me... I think some SP enjoy it, but not all of us do. I don't think I'm a prude for not wanting to be called a bitch and other things like this during sex.. I don't like that in my personal life either.
I think a lot of practices are normalized because of porn but are on the kinky and dominant side of things, like very very rough sex, hair pulling or choking or slapping people's ass really hard, even face slaps or spitting or non consensual anal play. I don't think these acts are bad, I just think it's not everyone's cup of tea and it's better to ask before.
But the terms I use seem to be effectively disarmed by broaching the topic beforehand and letting them know it's all said with absolute respect and are generally modified by adjectives like "sweet", "hot" or "beautiful".
But hey, blame it on my ex.
I mean, if you're into something and you find someone who also is into it, that's cool.
I just think there's a minimum of decency and we need to ask for what we want.100%I mean, if you're into something and you find someone who also is into it, that's cool.
