Are Montreal Escorts generally having a good time with clients?

[Toto beefcake]

Strangely, there are guys here who mostly review themselves, bragging about how many orgasms they gave the girl.
Not sure why they do that.
( and from what I've read on twitter, they're full of shit )

Just go look at the penthouse thread, youll find them all there

 

[Joe Thighsman]

I’m in my 60’s and a bit out of shape so I don’t fool myself that I’m giving my provider mind blowing orgasm. I just try to be respectful, kind, engaging and clean, hoping that she enuinely appreciates those qualities and would be pleased to see me as a repeat client.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I mean, some SPs hang out for hours after their time is up and have given unpaid sessions, I think that's a pretty good indicator of a good time. But I'm not sure how common that is.

it's not uncommon and it's happened to me, but many guys egotistically interpret this as somehow meaning they are hot fucking shit, when in reality it's not the case at all. It's usually a combination of two things: (1) escort connects with you and thinks you are a decent guy and worthy of being seen again even if not the second coming of Brad Pitt; and (2) escort is thinking of becoming Indy and looking to develop a good regular client base, or Indy looking to expand regular client base. Any other interpretation leads me to tell you to listen to the wisdom spoken by Ving Rhames in one of his most memorable roles:

Obviously if you aren't the last booked client of the day it's unlikely to happen.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Don't ever use paid sex with escorts as a means to boost your ego. It's sex that is being paid for and companionship that is being paid for! An escort is supposed to make you feel good about yourself and when she does that, she did her job, no more or less. Guys who see this as somehow boosting their ego and self esteem are probably seriously lacking some self esteem.

 

[Motok]

The number of orgasms you give an SP is directly proportional to the amount of money she receives.

Old post but, this should be " The number of orgasms you THINK you give an SP is directly proportional to the amount of money she receives. " lol

 

[Toto beefcake]

it's not uncommon and it's happened to me, but many guys egotistically interpret this as somehow meaning they are hot fucking shit, when in reality it's not the case at all. It's usually a combination of two things: (1) escort connects with you and thinks you are a decent guy and worthy of being seen again even if not the second coming of Brad Pitt; and (2) escort is thinking of becoming Indy and looking to develop a good regular client base, or Indy looking to expand regular client base. Any other interpretation leads me to tell you to listen to the wisdom spoken by Ving Rhames in one of his most memorable roles:

Obviously if you aren't the last booked client of the day it's unlikely to happen.

Lol this could be directed to at least 80 percent of merb posters. The guy you relied to being one. Love the pulp fiction video fantastic!

 

[Ducon]

I know for sure my favorite escort does not have orgasms with me.
When I asked her to teach me what she likes, all I got was some very vague instructions and clearly fake moans.
So I adjusted my expectations.
I won't be a good lover, but I can be a damn good customer.
After all, that's all I ever was.

 

[Numerati]

Don't ever use paid sex with escorts as a means to boost your ego. It's sex that is being paid for and companionship that is being paid for! An escort is supposed to make you feel good about yourself and when she does that, she did her job, no more or less. Guys who see this as somehow boosting their ego and self esteem are probably seriously lacking some self esteem.

In that extremely rare likely hood say if it was something that developed into something beyond than what it is you end up in a pretty shitty situation long term wise. Especially if you are a traveler. Now you have a long-distance thing going on. Why on earth do you want that? Long distance anything will just ruin it all by itself. That predicament will show up sooner or later. Ughhhh.... Finally the sex and interaction will be medicore and meh. If this was a local situation it is going to get in the way of your hobbying if you want to continue that and if you are someone who likes to remain free.

If it was a great and memorable experience let it be that and let go before it hits the ultimate.

 

[Jordd]

I think Montreal is the “Central Hub of happening” in the province of Quebec.

Young people move to big cities to be happy. The excitement of the big city and having fun, or even studying, makes for happy people, some of whom are happy hookers. Every big happening city requires a lot of money, so there are going to be lots of sex workers in big cities compared to small or mid-sized “less happening” cities. New York City has a tremendous number of great, albeit very expensive, sex workers. And it isn’t based on population. NYC might have one great Hooker for every 10,000 inhabitants, whereas Des Moines might have 1 for every 100,000. Even though the disposable income might be higher for most johns in Des Moines.

I have never been able to fully reconcile this Des Moines Dilemma.

Anyone want to explain why Montreal has such a better commercial sex scene than Calgary?

Sorry for my late arrival to this thread…

Agree with much of what's been said about Montreal being the metropolis. The reason it differs from other North American cities is its culture. Sex is generally more accepted and not seen as a taboo. This is reflected in general society as well as sex work. I don’t know how many strip clubs there are in Quebec, but it must be the highest per capita in America.

There is a saying that people in Toronto live to work whereas those in Montreal work to live. The same could be said for Calgary. No offense to anyone from those beautiful cities!

 

[envelopes]

I don’t know how many strip clubs there are in Quebec, but it must be the highest per capita in America.

You need to go to Portland

 

[kstanb]

always remember this is a customer-provider relationship, a job, not a date
but if you take care of the envelope business immediately after arrival, if you are well groomed and take a shower, if you respect her time, her limits, if you didn't emailed her a hundred times, if you are respectful, if you ask her before doing anything, then chances are she will be more likely to enjoy the time with you

 

[Skym]

I think some don't enjoy it.

 

[Jordd]

You need to go to Portland

Really?!

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Wouldn’t you be happy? Unlimited orgasms. Having sex all day. Making 10k a week cash

seriously. If they don’t fake it. They won’t make it
It takes a high level of “ I don’t give a shit” to be an sp
A high tolerance to all kinds of gents
From cheese dick, to bad teeth. To smokers breath. And even smelly ass
These girls deal with all kinds. And to get paid. Have to go through with it.

so. If you want to garantee yourself a good time
Be nice. Respectable. Clean. And she’ll have a better time than she did with 50% of the guys she saw that week

10 k a week ... im montreal good look.. and we have taxes and expenses

 

[Shantie_mtl]

My own observation : it's been 5 years and that one guy still hasn't paid me. I try not to give service before pay now, but still this kind of post makes me feel like I'm a bitch for doing so. So I sometimes can't bring myself to ask for it and I just stress for the whole appointment, which could affect the service even if I try my best not to let it show.

I'll let you guess which is more damaging between not being entirely satisfied with the service you got, or getting raped by deception and robbed.

Stop advocating for this. Makes it harder for us to stand up for ourselves and then shitty things happen to us. You (not you specifically, but general you) have the option to meet with well reviewed ladies, why not do that instead so you don't have to worry and we don't have to risk being raped?

♡♡♡

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Disclaimer: I have no experience with low fee SPs (<200/hr) nor any outside Montreal.

I've lived with two SPs (one platonically) and have known a few others socially. Here's what that very small sample of all SPs have told me about themselves and their colleagues :

1) Most clients are clean and pleasant. SPs sincerely enjoy talking with them.
2) Only the desperate (desperate as in lack of clients or insatiable need for money) SPs will repeat with clients they strongly dislike. They will encourage the ones they like to call for them again.
3) Only 30% of agency clients attempt to sexually stimulate them and only 1/3 of those 30% succeed.
4) Even if they do orgasm, they don't necessarily enjoy having sex with clients. Some clients are better than their boyfriends in bed, but they still much prefer sex with the latter.
5) Many will attempt to hide their occupation from their boyfriends and tell clients they are single even if they are not.
6) Some SPs hate their job and transfer that hatred to their clients.
7) A very, very tiny fraction are nymphomaniacs. A tiny fraction enter into a love relationship with their clients.
8) For most, the happiest time of a session is receiving the payment.

My own observation:
9) Some lose interest when the money is in their hands. Try not to pay in advance. NEVER loan money. Even in the unlikely event that you actually are reimbursed in money or services, aggravation is guaranteed.

Love it

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Everyday im happy! Do I enjoy all the meeting... almost of time. Doesn't need to have a orgasm to have fun. Love connection with human & pleasure to make new friends and meet always new person a real pleasure.

 

[Flyingby]

10 k a week ... im montreal good look.. and we have taxes and expenses

Shantiex. Please note. My post was full of sarcasm

 

[Halloween Mike]

Hm well you have to remind yourself that reviews are an indication of how we, and the date, were perceived by the client. Not the other way around. A review won't say if we were faking the whole time, if we thought the client was annoying or anything like that. I've had discussions with girls that went like "Wow have you seen my most recent review? Seems like this guy had a lot of fun. Well at least one of us did because it was not me!" haha.

Sorry to break the bubble!

I think pretty much every client is aware of this. I do what i can to make the provider's job easier (being clean, nice, not too demanding, and following the restrictions well) but eventually i can't change my face or remove my belly lol. There is just so much i can do physically. Ultimately it cost me close to a week salary for 1h of fun, so i think its fair game to expect the focuss to be on ME having a good time. For instance Daty is not something i enjoy, so i just don't do it. I do want them to have a positive "experience of work" but i really don't care if they enjoy the sex itself. Good Acting is in my opinion a pre-requisite in this job, unless you are among the rare person where physics really do not matter.

 

[Julia Sky]

I think pretty much every client is aware of this. I do what i can to make the provider's job easier (being clean, nice, not too demanding, and following the restrictions well) but eventually i can't change my face or remove my belly lol. There is just so much i can do physically. Ultimately it cost me close to a week salary for 1h of fun, so i think its fair game to expect the focuss to be on ME having a good time. For instance Daty is not something i enjoy, so i just don't do it. I do want them to have a positive "experience of work" but i really don't care if they enjoy the sex itself. Good Acting is in my opinion a pre-requisite in this job, unless you are among the rare person where physics really do not matter.

Yeah, I get that, of course you are likely to center your own pleasure and that's totally fine and not at all what I was talking about! I was just replying to AlmostMidaged because he said "[...] wondering if the fact most MERB Advertisers have good reviews is a good sign that Montrealers who go see them mostly behave." - the review is the client's POV, not ours, so it has zero correlation with how *we* perceived the appointment. That's what I meant For example I could be thinking a client was smelly and sounded rude during conversation, and that same client is still going to give me a good review because he enjoyed the appointment. The review is not an indication that I also liked the appointment (he was smelly and rude!), only he did enjoy it. So no, the fact most MERB Advertisers have good reviews is *not* a good sign that Montrealers who go see them mostly behave.