I am sure excitement will not be a problem when I see you.You’re right, a lot of things can make us nervous and not just the date itself.
P.S: I’ll try my best to turn the nervousness into excitement
Ask us anything part 2
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With an SP, every single time. When I go to a massage parlor the experience goes better on my end.
I feel a lot of pressure with an SP because I feel the need "to be liked or desired" before having sex. I know it's tall in my head.
For me it's always awkward the first minutes before the act, when trying to chit chat.
I'm still getting used to the experience of meeting a SP.
Now, when I go to a massage parlor, I'm already naked, we do some effortless chit chat, lol she's already been playing with my member for a while, the rest comes seamless.
I would like to develop the same attitude with a SP.
Maybe you could ask for a massage to start your sessions with SP's, and that could help you get into the flow, similar to your massage parlor experiences.
It can feel like speed dating as you’re trying to see if you’re compatible in a very short time. If you meet the right person it will flow naturally.
I’ve definitely offered that to gentlemen I sensed were nervous. You can relax for a few minutes and then slowly start talking.
Since you’ll be laying on your stomach to start, you don’t have to look at the SP in the eyes, it’s sometimes easier.
This leads me to another question.
Is there a high and low season when it comes to clients? Does that differ from SP to SP depending on the clientele or is it mostly the same for all SPs?
I think winter is a bit more quiet. From November to March maybe. Some told me that summer was low for them while it’s my best season, a lot of tourists, bachelor parties and students are off
I am lucky that I am busy all year with the exception of December. There’s way too much happening for people to spend money on themselves; Christmas, New Years, holidays in general.
November to end of February has always been slower for me. But my birthday in November kind of makes up for it because I get gifts and more tips during that month, typically.
I don't think there's a "high season" in the sense that I get booked pretty much the same and refuse the same amount of appointments in every other season other than winter.
I don't think there's a "high season" in the sense that I get booked pretty much the same and refuse the same amount of appointments in every other season other than winter.
Funny thing Sylar, I recently asked the same question from someone who I thought should know as the 4 last regulars I saw mentioned that it was very quiet. His answer, like Ms. L also said, was that it is usually quieter in winter, December to March, but that this year was even quieter.
It was quiet in January but I feel spring came early for me in February! I never noticed consistent quiet months or consistent busy ones, it always varied from one year to another.
When first starting this hobby I was incredibly nervous every time I went to meet someone.
Question go through your head, is girl real, will I be attractive enough for her not to hate herself, is this a set up for a robbery or bait n switch. Etc.
It drastically affected my encounters, it was difficult to put myself at ease and found few providers noticed or tried to make me feel comfortable. I could have communicated this better as well.
Finding merb and more trustworthy sites and agencies was a huge help, reading reviews and learning others experiences. Diirect communication from providers like yourself help to better understand your views as well.
I'm very thankful for a few very special ladies who helped me out of my nerves and into a good time. Navigating those first encounters and forging a connection really is a special talent and am extremely appreciative of it.
I'm always nervous! hehe. To tell you the truth, I get mostly disappointed with the looks when I'm meeting a new SP. I'm not saying that I want a look of a Porn Star, but a lot of the picture are photoshop and etc.
Questions for providers:
1. What are your thoughts on tips/tipping? (Didn't see anything in search, apologies if this was already asked)
2. Do you have clients you look forward to seeing, forged a connection both ways?
I know it's something I've always been interested in, difficult to know if a provider is genuinely into you or just really good at their job. The thought that they look forward to the visits as well is a major turn on.
1. What are your thoughts on tips/tipping? (Didn't see anything in search, apologies if this was already asked)
2. Do you have clients you look forward to seeing, forged a connection both ways?
I know it's something I've always been interested in, difficult to know if a provider is genuinely into you or just really good at their job. The thought that they look forward to the visits as well is a major turn on.
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Of course there are clients I look forward to see. There are clients I used to see and that I miss.
There are clients I’ve seen once and never want to see ever again, there are clients that straight up creep me out and no amount of money would make me want to meet them.
I tip all my own service providers (nails, hair, etc.) So I am for tipping. As for my clients, I know the price of my services is quite higher and is a luxury service. I do not expect anything more than my rate but if someone tip I do notice it and it makes me very happy and grateful!
As for my clients, I am always happy to see returning clients. Most of my service is to build a bond, I love humans and I sometimes miss some of my clients!
Any advice for tourists. I don't know much about Montreal. Are most people going to be speaking French? Will they be upset if I speak English. Are there any neighborhoods I should be aware of if I am out walking around late at night that might be unsafe? I don't usually drink much or ever take edibles when I am someplace I don't know well.Any tips for fitting in or can they spot tourists a mile away? What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal? I am going to see a hockey game.
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Are most people going to be speaking French?
Yes but if you are staying downtown/old Montreal, you are going to be in a very touristy neighborhood so people will be able to speak English to you.
Will they be upset if I speak English.
No, there are a lot of Montrealers born and raised that actually don’t speak French at all.
Are there any neighborhoods I should be aware of if I am out walking around late at night that might be unsafe?
I’ve lived in many Canadian cities and Montreal is one of the safest for a woman at night so I am sure you’ll be ok as a man.
Any tips for fitting in or can they spot tourists a mile away?
If you use public transportation, here we queue to get on the bus. I say that because it really isn’t like that everywhere. We also stand on the right on escalators so that the people in a rush can just walk up on the left. We let people get off the metro before we get in. People love to get coffee here so you’ll find a lot of very nice local cafes.
What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal?
Me. Just kidding! I would say the Mount Royal lookout is pretty iconic. If not, I do have a list of things I can recommend you.
Are most people going to be speaking French?
Yes but if you are staying downtown/old Montreal, you are going to be in a very touristy neighborhood so people will be able to speak English to you.
Will they be upset if I speak English.
No, there are a lot of Montrealers born and raised that actually don’t speak French at all.
Are there any neighborhoods I should be aware of if I am out walking around late at night that might be unsafe?
I’ve lived in many Canadian cities and Montreal is one of the safest for a woman at night so I am sure you’ll be ok as a man.
Any tips for fitting in or can they spot tourists a mile away?
If you use public transportation, here we queue to get on the bus. I say that because it really isn’t like that everywhere. We also stand on the right on escalators so that the people in a rush can just walk up on the left. We let people get off the metro before we get in. People love to get coffee here so you’ll find a lot of very nice local cafes.
What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal?
Me. Just kidding! I would say the Mount Royal lookout is pretty iconic. If not, I do have a list of things I can recommend you.
Well I've already got seeing you covered!! I just hope I chose enough time for an intro. If only the weather was warmer and there was a way to see you from the top of this lookout. As tiny as you are the back or my VW might be too small. Also chances are if I am with you there won't be much looking out at the city going on if you were there. Your pictures are incredible. I wish I could just fast forward to our date but, I like the wait. It feels like waiting for Christmas Day as a kid!
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