Ask us anything part 2

[SmokenPoke]

My question for clients:

Do you get nervous on a first date with a SP

When first starting this hobby I was incredibly nervous every time I went to meet someone.

Question go through your head, is girl real, will I be attractive enough for her not to hate herself, is this a set up for a robbery or bait n switch. Etc.

It drastically affected my encounters, it was difficult to put myself at ease and found few providers noticed or tried to make me feel comfortable. I could have communicated this better as well.

Finding merb and more trustworthy sites and agencies was a huge help, reading reviews and learning others experiences. Diirect communication from providers like yourself help to better understand your views as well.

I'm very thankful for a few very special ladies who helped me out of my nerves and into a good time. Navigating those first encounters and forging a connection really is a special talent and am extremely appreciative of it.

 

[blow20102010]

My question for clients:

Do you get nervous on a first date with a SP

I'm always nervous! hehe. To tell you the truth, I get mostly disappointed with the looks when I'm meeting a new SP. I'm not saying that I want a look of a Porn Star, but a lot of the picture are photoshop and etc.

 

[SmokenPoke]

Questions for providers:

1. What are your thoughts on tips/tipping? (Didn't see anything in search, apologies if this was already asked)

2. Do you have clients you look forward to seeing, forged a connection both ways?

I know it's something I've always been interested in, difficult to know if a provider is genuinely into you or just really good at their job. The thought that they look forward to the visits as well is a major turn on.

 

[LC18]

Questions for providers:

1. What are your thoughts on tips/tipping? (Didn't see anything in search, apologies if this was already asked)

2. Do you have clients you look forward to seeing, forged a connection both ways?

I know it's something I've always been interested in, difficult to know if a provider is genuinely into you or just really good at their job. The thought that they look forward to the visits as well is a major turn on.

Of course there are clients I look forward to see. There are clients I used to see and that I miss.

There are clients I’ve seen once and never want to see ever again, there are clients that straight up creep me out and no amount of money would make me want to meet them.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Questions for providers:

1. What are your thoughts on tips/tipping? (Didn't see anything in search, apologies if this was already asked)

2. Do you have clients you look forward to seeing, forged a connection both ways?

I know it's something I've always been interested in, difficult to know if a provider is genuinely into you or just really good at their job. The thought that they look forward to the visits as well is a major turn on.

I tip all my own service providers (nails, hair, etc.) So I am for tipping. As for my clients, I know the price of my services is quite higher and is a luxury service. I do not expect anything more than my rate but if someone tip I do notice it and it makes me very happy and grateful!

As for my clients, I am always happy to see returning clients. Most of my service is to build a bond, I love humans and I sometimes miss some of my clients!

 

[lovethaifood]

Any advice for tourists. I don't know much about Montreal. Are most people going to be speaking French? Will they be upset if I speak English. Are there any neighborhoods I should be aware of if I am out walking around late at night that might be unsafe? I don't usually drink much or ever take edibles when I am someplace I don't know well.Any tips for fitting in or can they spot tourists a mile away? What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal? I am going to see a hockey game.

 

[LC18]

@lovethaifood

Are most people going to be speaking French?
Yes but if you are staying downtown/old Montreal, you are going to be in a very touristy neighborhood so people will be able to speak English to you.

Will they be upset if I speak English.
No, there are a lot of Montrealers born and raised that actually don’t speak French at all.

Are there any neighborhoods I should be aware of if I am out walking around late at night that might be unsafe?
I’ve lived in many Canadian cities and Montreal is one of the safest for a woman at night so I am sure you’ll be ok as a man.

Any tips for fitting in or can they spot tourists a mile away?
If you use public transportation, here we queue to get on the bus. I say that because it really isn’t like that everywhere. We also stand on the right on escalators so that the people in a rush can just walk up on the left. We let people get off the metro before we get in. People love to get coffee here so you’ll find a lot of very nice local cafes.

What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal?
Me. Just kidding! I would say the Mount Royal lookout is pretty iconic. If not, I do have a list of things I can recommend you.

 

[lovethaifood]

What is the number one thing you have to see when coming to Montreal?
Me. Just kidding! I would say the Mount Royal lookout is pretty iconic. If not, I do have a list of things I can recommend you.

Well I've already got seeing you covered!! I just hope I chose enough time for an intro. If only the weather was warmer and there was a way to see you from the top of this lookout. As tiny as you are the back or my VW might be too small. Also chances are if I am with you there won't be much looking out at the city going on if you were there. Your pictures are incredible. I wish I could just fast forward to our date but, I like the wait. It feels like waiting for Christmas Day as a kid!

 

[brian44]

Are there any SPs that will allow you to spit on their face?

 

[LC18]

Do you have a type that you are attracted to? I do not mean in an SP / client setting.

Nerds, intellectuals. I have stopped talking to some men when Ive realized they didn’t know the difference between “ça” and “sa”.

 

[LC18]

Are there any SPs that will allow you to spit on their face?

I am sure you could find one

 

[DouMan]

Are there any SPs that will allow you to spit on their face?

Just curious ... do you allow them to spit on yours?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Are there any SPs that will allow you to spit on their face?

Maybe you'll get more replies if you post your question in the "411" section.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Are there any SPs that will allow you to spit on their face?

Fetish providers! Any things, even the most degrading sounding ones, can be done with respect inside the boundaries of a BDSM scene

 

[lovethaifood]

What do you think is the ideal number of hours for a date?

Is it dependent on familiarity with the client?

Also do you limit the number of clients you see in a day or week and do you like to have a period of rest in between appointments? I think this is probably different for agency girls incall versus outcall and completely different for Indys although maybe not. Maybe there are some Indys that do a high volume if they have an assistant handling calls and flow.

 

[Julia Sky]

What do you think is the ideal number of hours for a date?

Is it dependent on familiarity with the client?

Also do you limit the number of clients you see in a day or week and do you like to have a period of rest in between appointments? I think this is probably different for agency girls incall versus outcall and completely different for Indys although maybe not. Maybe there are some Indys that do a high volume if they have an assistant handling calls and flow.

The ideal duration really depends on the type of date for me. First date with a client? My ideal would be 90mins to 2hrs. Dinner date? 4hrs minimum is best. BJ only, more than an hour might feel repetitive or end up being 80% social as most guys aren't going to cum 4-5 times regardless of the duration or how much I want to keep going haha. People only have so much cum in them

I definitely have some favorite clients I'd spend 12-24 hours with if the choice was mine, it depends on many factors but they all involve at least one of four things : good food, good sex, good vibes, or foot rubs haha

Volume is a pretty personal thing but personally it's fluctuated over the course of my career and even within the same year I'll have times I see more people and times I see 2 guys a week. I only work when I feel like it and it's a privilege I cherish. I also don't like last minute appointments much, and love having a lot of time to myself, so if I don't see many people it's mainly for my mental health, honestly. I don't think there's any shame in doing higher volume, in fact I've had sex with 5+ men in a day quite a few times over the last 8 years, it's just not/no longer something I can see myself doing often without facing burnout. This is half the reason I've increased my rates, the rest is 25% inflation and 25% throat skills haha.

 

[lovethaifood]

The ideal duration really depends on the type of date for me. First date with a client? My ideal would be 90mins to 2hrs. Dinner date? 4hrs minimum is best. BJ only, more than an hour might feel repetitive or end up being 80% social as most guys aren't going to cum 4-5 times regardless of the duration or how much I want to keep going haha. People only have so much cum in them

I definitely have some favorite clients I'd spend 12-24 hours with if the choice was mine, it depends on many factors but they all involve at least one of four things : good food, good sex, good vibes, or foot rubs haha

Volume is a pretty personal thing but personally it's fluctuated over the course of my career and even within the same year I'll have times I see more people and times I see 2 guys a week. I only work when I feel like it and it's a privilege I cherish. I also don't like last minute appointments much, and love having a lot of time to myself, so if I don't see many people it's mainly for my mental health, honestly. I don't think there's any shame in doing higher volume, in fact I've had sex with 5+ men in a day quite a few times over the last 8 years, it's just not/no longer something I can see myself doing often without facing burnout. This is half the reason I've increased my rates, the rest is 25% inflation and 25% throat skills haha.

Thank you for sharing.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

What do you think is the ideal number of hours for a date?

Is it dependent on familiarity with the client?

I never can answer to this question, because I've had hours that were very average with some clients, while I had weekends with clients I never met before that went extremely well! So no, familiarity is not a primary reason, a relationship is made to be developed. I would say any duration that allows no rush, that allows said connection to happen is ideal. Two hours, but a dinner date to a whole evening is my preference. Or longer.

 

[lovethaifood]

I never can answer to this question, because I've had hours that were very average with some clients, while I had weekends with clients I never met before that went extremely well! So no, familiarity is not a primary reason, a relationship is made to be developed. I would say any duration that allows no rush, that allows said connection to happen is ideal. Two hours, but a dinner date to a whole evening is my preference. Or longer.

Thankyou. I am asking because from a client point of view there is this debate between quantity versus quality. I lean towards seeing one or two providers with each visit being multiple hours then other people I have talked to believe that variety is the spice of life, so if you are up for it, you go see like 2 to 3 women a day or whatever number. I personally lean towards I would rather see less people more hours but, then again sometimes.a one hour quickie with a new SP you've never met can be very invigorating.

 

[LC18]

I have talked to believe that variety is the spice of life, so if you are up for it, you go see like 2 to 3 women a day or whatever number.

It depends on what your goal is. Dates in that context are very particular, you need to connect in a very short period of time. If you meet 2-3 people during your stay, you’ll have to start all over again 2-3 times.

If you meet one person and it clicks, you’ll be happy that you get to spend more time with that person.