It is a mixture of nervous and excitement. When I get to the incall I try not to overthink it because I get performance anxiety and when that happens it takes me a while to relax and enjoy myself. Which is why I usually book 1h30 and repeat with women I felt at ease with.
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If I loose my brain when door is opening, there are good chances I repeat.
I warned the girl (that I will loose my brain) before I get in to loose some "tension" especially if I meet a firecracker and It works.
I remember doing it with Nathalie Summer. She was such a beautiful woman. She instantly replied to make me feel comfortable so it was a wonderful encounter.
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90 mins is the best, you don’t feel pressure and you have time to talk a little bit to make the nervousness go away
Sérieusement ici en Estrie une dizaine d’hommes annonces leurs services gratuitement sur les sites d’escortes
ils sont créatifs
il y a des bons côtés!
les hommes gays ne me sollicitent pas comme avant
Ben ce sont pas des services, car un service dans ce contexte implique un paiement. Il y en a trois tonnes à Montréal aussi de ces annonces haha. Ce sont des hommes horny qui s'annoncent en espérant baiser sans passer par la case "flirting". Ce ne sont pas des travailleurs du sexe.
No, why would I? I don’t even answer calls.
Do I text clients? Those who have given me permission to text them whenever I want or to send photos whenever I want, yes.
Others no but if I need to text someone to confirm something I send a “.” (simple dot) and wait for them to reply. That gives them the opportunity to say “oh it must be spam” if their partner picks up their phone.
I will never harrass my clients or reach out if they did not give me the permission beforehand
Gotta say I'd be happy to get an out-of--the-blue text from an SP I've previously been in touch with. Even one I've texted with but haven't yet set a date.
In the past I've had some indies who have texted me to update on any changes to their incall location etc.and one who I had very regular arrangement with would frequently send me sexy (but discreet) pix just to make my day. Damn I miss that girl!
In the past I've had some indies who have texted me to update on any changes to their incall location etc.and one who I had very regular arrangement with would frequently send me sexy (but discreet) pix just to make my day. Damn I miss that girl!
I will let you know after I meet you. I have never booked an appointment so far in advance before so the anticipation is interesting to me. Usually don't get nervous but, usually it is a same day appointment or text the night before with an agency I have experienced before. Chemistry, is what it is but, if you do a lot of research before you can kind of temper expectations. I think it depends more on if it is a new person or agency that I have no experience with. Then, I have to figure out if am driving or public transportation. What is parking situation, is the area discreet, part of a business district or residential. Can I just blend in. What is access to the building like. A variety of factors go into it. Familiarity breeds comfort. One thing I will say about you is that your ubiquitous presence on this board and all your posts and replies are so thoughtful, that as far as booking my second indy ever in a city I haven't been to in a long time, I feel very comfortable with my decision to contact you.
edit: Also a little butterflies on a first date with an SP I think would be normal though. Just can't let it be distracting or take away from the moment between two people.
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When I have not had a client in a few weeks, as it often happen in february, I get so nervous to see my next client. I fear I'd get too dorky and nervous and talk too much about dnd or something and kill the mood haha but usually it goes away after five minutes! I guess its like riding a bycile you never forget how to do it really
You’re right, a lot of things can make us nervous and not just the date itself.
P.S: I’ll try my best to turn the nervousness into excitement
I am sure excitement will not be a problem when I see you.You’re right, a lot of things can make us nervous and not just the date itself.
P.S: I’ll try my best to turn the nervousness into excitement
With an SP, every single time. When I go to a massage parlor the experience goes better on my end.
I feel a lot of pressure with an SP because I feel the need "to be liked or desired" before having sex. I know it's tall in my head.
For me it's always awkward the first minutes before the act, when trying to chit chat.
I'm still getting used to the experience of meeting a SP.
Now, when I go to a massage parlor, I'm already naked, we do some effortless chit chat, lol she's already been playing with my member for a while, the rest comes seamless.
I would like to develop the same attitude with a SP.
Maybe you could ask for a massage to start your sessions with SP's, and that could help you get into the flow, similar to your massage parlor experiences.
It can feel like speed dating as you’re trying to see if you’re compatible in a very short time. If you meet the right person it will flow naturally.
I’ve definitely offered that to gentlemen I sensed were nervous. You can relax for a few minutes and then slowly start talking.
Since you’ll be laying on your stomach to start, you don’t have to look at the SP in the eyes, it’s sometimes easier.
I think winter is a bit more quiet. From November to March maybe. Some told me that summer was low for them while it’s my best season, a lot of tourists, bachelor parties and students are off
I am lucky that I am busy all year with the exception of December. There’s way too much happening for people to spend money on themselves; Christmas, New Years, holidays in general.
November to end of February has always been slower for me. But my birthday in November kind of makes up for it because I get gifts and more tips during that month, typically.
I don't think there's a "high season" in the sense that I get booked pretty much the same and refuse the same amount of appointments in every other season other than winter.
I don't think there's a "high season" in the sense that I get booked pretty much the same and refuse the same amount of appointments in every other season other than winter.
Funny thing Sylar, I recently asked the same question from someone who I thought should know as the 4 last regulars I saw mentioned that it was very quiet. His answer, like Ms. L also said, was that it is usually quieter in winter, December to March, but that this year was even quieter.
It was quiet in January but I feel spring came early for me in February! I never noticed consistent quiet months or consistent busy ones, it always varied from one year to another.
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