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Have you ever heard of the pair-bonding statement that if a woman has more than 5 -8 sexual encounters/partners , it erodes her chances of pair bonding successfully with a serious partner long term?
Also , in certain spirituality there is talk of a supposed “ energy field “ ( considering atoms are mostly empty space ) surrounding each of us and that with each sexual encounter , we exchange part of that energy with our sexual partner. Does any of this have any significance for you? Do you have any type of spirituality and does it conflict with your profession? Or how do you make it work?
Also , in certain spirituality there is talk of a supposed “ energy field “ ( considering atoms are mostly empty space ) surrounding each of us and that with each sexual encounter , we exchange part of that energy with our sexual partner. Does any of this have any significance for you? Do you have any type of spirituality and does it conflict with your profession? Or how do you make it work?
As a very spiritual person, I still think this soul tie thing is BS haha.... plenty of sex workers have loving partners. Having multiple sex partners doesn't stain our soul, if it did what would that say about the people we have all this sex with? Do you think people (especially men because this theory is almost always only aimed at women who have sex with men) are so rotten that sleeping with them tarnishes our soul forever?
Now yes I do believe sex is an energy exchange, but not in a bad sense at all! I think it's a beautiful thing actually
Now yes I do believe sex is an energy exchange, but not in a bad sense at all! I think it's a beautiful thing actually
Did a quick google search on "pair bonding", and if it does exist, it would equally be relevant for men also. But as humans, I don't believe we have a finite limit in our capacity to connect with others, regardless of body count, or whatever you may want to call it. In fact, it's probably the opposite, the more times you can bond emotionally and physically with another human being, the more capable you will be able to bond with others in the future.
Thank you for you reply, I’m just trying to find out what’s reality compared to theory when it comes to pair bonding.
Supposedly with men , they are designed to spread the seed and can have sex without needing intimacy, while most women seek an intimate connection. While men contain the seed of life , women are the ones charged with bringing the spirit into matter through her womb , so it’s a more sacred space. Most guys are horn dogs , while the majority of women are discerning about who they sleep with ( considering they are the ones who’ll have to deal with pregnancy).
Most highly developed spiritual practices demand celibacy so I’m curious how escorts achieve a balance between an act as a job as opposed to a sacred union between a man and woman in an exclusive relationship.
I find the “ hobby “ is exhilarating for 45-60 minutes but lately I have an” empty “ feeling afterwards.
So you can just deal with the act as a job and then as something special with your partner afterwards?
I’ll check into it a bit deeper. It’s presented as more a female thing because males can just have sex without intimacy whereas the majority of females seek intimacy in a relationship ( because of emotional attachment/investment). But I guess guys can get deep into it as well…
We get used to everything. What is new one day becomes old, what brings us joy and fulfills us one day becomes routine. Variety in life, and especially novelty at crucial times, is what allows us to keep enjoying activities, and jobs, and everything, longer. Just do something else for a while; seeing providers is not your job, you can return to your activities at any time when you're feeling drawn to it again. It has nothing to do with your sperm spreading.
I mean, people are not a monolith. Plenty of demisexual men and plenty of women who don't need an emotional connection to enjoy sex with someone...
Honestly this theory is always a little insulting and I don't think it's a discussion that has its place on an escort review board. It's in bad taste. It's like you came here to imply that escorts have tarnished souls.
I genuinely believe this theory was made up by men who wanted to justify having a bunch of sex and cheating on their partners while making sure she would stay faithful.
I don’t know who made this up and I’m just curious that’s all. It’s just a theory and from the information I’ve heard from SPs , it doesn’t necessarily apply to reality so I’m ready to disregard the premise. I mean this may also affect men as well negatively or beneficially. Just looking for evidence to find out what’s reality.
I’m free to bring up a topic that interests me and you are free to express your opinions, which I appreciate. Thank you.
Actually, biologically it does, as in nature most males seek many partners to assure the continuation of their genes. Take out societal pressures, most males would not be monogamous. Thanks for your input…
Humans are one of the few species that can have sex for recreational and not reproductive purposes. I think sometimes we confuse the two, as sex can be for fun or a means to an end, without inferring anything else.
Qu’est-ce qui vous apporte le plus de plaisir sexuel.
L’intensité de la pénétration, la précision et la technique du doigté ou la douceur et la volupté d’une langue bien placée?
Je sais que toutes ces réponses peuvent être bonnes mais ce serait bien d’ en démarquer une.
Note: je sais que ça peut déborder ailleurs genre « le bon partenaire ». C’est une question à choix de réponse et il n’y a pas de « Autre »…
L’intensité de la pénétration, la précision et la technique du doigté ou la douceur et la volupté d’une langue bien placée?
Je sais que toutes ces réponses peuvent être bonnes mais ce serait bien d’ en démarquer une.
Note: je sais que ça peut déborder ailleurs genre « le bon partenaire ». C’est une question à choix de réponse et il n’y a pas de « Autre »…
What is the proper way to tip housekeeping in a hotel in Montreal. I do not know wages, do you tip daily or at end of stay? What is an appropriate amount?
Where is the best place to exchange USD for CAD? Home bank USA, at the Border? American Express office, Canadian bank? Any ideas on fees and what not?
OMG!!! lol. wow, left myself wide open for that. Well played!!Slowly with a lot of lube
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These are more general questions, not specific to SP's but:
Used to tip at the end of my stay, but realized there were different maids working different days, so now I tip daily. Usually around $5/day
I typically withdraw at a Canadian Bank/ATM, but rates/fees vary. Also have used Calforex (https://maps.app.goo.gl/JhxhZ3K4VcKVxai39) quite a few times, and they offer competitive exchange rates
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