The rate advertised when booking is good etiquette, and advantages the client. What I'm saying is that strangely when the rate is lower, or when there's a promotion at the time of the appointment, suddenly "good etiquette" is not on the card anymore since it's disadvantageous to them, they want the lowest rates. My point was that it's not the "agreed rate upon booking" that they want, but the lowest.
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Expecting the lower rate would be wrong as well.
Let's look at it strictly from a business stand point. Baring unforeseen circumstances I am assuming a SP knows when she plans on increasing rates. Depending on how far out the date is I think the deposit should cover and protect from any price increase. If the price is lower at the time of the date then at the SP discretion to keep price or offer lower rate (might want to reward a loyal customer or try to encourage repeat business)
I like hearing dirty talk. But i am not good at it myself. Apparently it may happen, but i don't realize when it counts as dirty talk, and am pretty occuart.
What turns me on is reminders of my real life situation. I am not good with playing pretend, and when someone says something off to me, it is an uncontrolled reaction to correct which can kill a mood under the wrong circumstances.
So for me it is the reminder that they are enjoying my masters slave. And the words "my ... " is better used as "your master's ..." when someone uses my, i cant help but say "i am not yours, i am my masters." That or i love hearing how master is lucky to have me as his.
And what turns me off is someone insisting on anal dirty talk, as anal is not an option in my professional life, and it puts me on edge that they may try something I am not ok with. It snapps me out of the mood to try and enjoy myself and puts me in instant defensive mode ready to jump out of their grasp if they dare try what is coming out of their mouth.
It never happened that I knew when I wanted to increase my rates. I know some advertise it, but my experience is that most don't and do it when they feel like it. I would say it's true with most businesses, I never see one advertising a rate increase, or I never noticed.
Any job. Because anyone can be an escort haha
At least once a month typically. I wish it was every week lol
I prefer FFM but I have yet to experience a truly satisfying MFM, so I don't know. I think I'd like a foursome (2 guys 2 girls) even more. Must be the bisexual in me.
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Not as often as I would like. Once every 3-4 months.
I prefer FMF or FFM
. I play with men all the time, and well... talking to a forum of men, who like women so much, they hobby. You know how much fun a woman can be.I've been asked about MFM, but didn't find the requests, ones i felt comfortable being part of. Last time i did that was 21 years ago. Something we look forward to in my personal relationship. Not something I feel comfortable with, with strangers. Though we want 4somes over 3somes.
Wait a sec... did I just learn that FMF = guy is center of attention , FFM = girl is center of attention? I always just thought it just enumerated the participants, I never thought there was any actual meaning... wtf. Jesus... I would have made a horrible archeologist.
Lol.. not likely... i just reused how airbo used mfm to mmf from the thread 'which underwear to wear when seeing a provider'.
In a good 3some
No 1 person should be the center of attention. But then again there is something hot to guys to just sit back a moment and watch 2 girls going at it, especially when 1 of them is his own partner. It's why I like couples more than a guy just looking to hire 2 girls. The focus is more evenly spread as opposed to him wanting all the attention because he paid for it. Understandably, but not a dynamic I enjoy. No one should make a 3some all about me, me, me. Everyone counts, or only 1 is actually having fun.
FMF means women are not interactive, or MMF means men are interactive, if I'm not mistaken. If you want a duo with another man without interaction, you'd ask for MFM.
Since I learned new things about not coming out of the shower with clean underwear how about clothes when arriving. Let's say it is +30 out arriving in a t-shirt, shorts and sandals acceptable, please say yes .
The order of letter determines whether people of the same sex interact with each other or not. Typically everyone should get the same amount of attention during a threesome regardless of this!
MFM = 2 guys and 1 girl, guys don't interact
MMF = 2 guys and 1 girl, everyone interacts
Same concept for FMF versus FFM
(So now I should edit my previous post and say I actually prefer a FFM haha)
Of course. I don't really mind how someone dresses as long as the clothes aren't filthy
Most of my duos have more of a FFM dynamic, which is my preference personally. There are many reasons for this, of course being bisexual is a part of it (arguably the biggest part - I'm very into women and making women feel good lol), but there are other reasons why. Giving a show to the client, or just the fact that for me it can feel awkward if one of the girls is just masturbating while the client takes care of her duo partner. It can be hot but it can also get awkward depending on the vibes.
I've had a FFF once, in my personal life. I also had one for a video I was filming once. And I've had a FFFM (2 colleages, me and a client)
Plus on est de fous, plus on rit!
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As a newB to the hobby and MTL, I’m curious about etiquette for providing the room number. Is it common when arriving in town to not have the hotel room number until just before the appointment?
As context: I have an appointment for 4pm, hotel check-in is 3pm, and I arrive in Montreal at 2pm. There is absolutely enough time for me to prepare for the date but I don’t want her to think I’m going to cancel while waiting for the room number.
Her preferred communication is email, not text so I’m a little nervous because I don’t want to be perceived disrespectful. I plan to explain the timing situation but I’m curious, is this scenario common? Is there etiquette here?
As context: I have an appointment for 4pm, hotel check-in is 3pm, and I arrive in Montreal at 2pm. There is absolutely enough time for me to prepare for the date but I don’t want her to think I’m going to cancel while waiting for the room number.
Her preferred communication is email, not text so I’m a little nervous because I don’t want to be perceived disrespectful. I plan to explain the timing situation but I’m curious, is this scenario common? Is there etiquette here?
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