Honestly all it takes is a good personality. I said what I said. Ive had sex with a variety of men (in my personal life) because they made me laugh, were kind, etc.
Perhaps its not exactly fair to answer a "general view" with your unique experience. Were you the one to initiate or were they? I can tell you, that making someone laugh and be kind (aka the game of seduction) isn't given to everyone. I'm almost certain that if those guys weren't above average in looks or personality, they probably wouldn't have had as good of a chance right? Which is about 90% of their experience. Not saying it never happens... but just that its highly unlikely.
It's also actually not women's fault that men are easy to convince, too, so I don't know why we're being mistreated for having sex. Instead of verbally abusing women and resenting them because "they access sex more easily", men should try to have standards and start refusing sexual advances as well. Then we'd be on par and there would be no need to be hateful towards women.
100% agree, but for most men, its not as easy. That definitly is never a reason to be hateful towards women. In no way am I expressing any excuse for poor treatment of others.
I hate when people respond with this because it somehow implies that it's ok and normal to abuse women because men are easier to take to a bed. None of this is normal. I can see why anyone who has this mentality has a hard time with women. Turns out women don't like men who think it's ok to verbally abuse us because of our sexual needs or past.
Again, I didn't once bring up that its ok to abuse anyone. I answered a very specific statement only.
Like, it's easier for men (and has been for decades and centuries) to find a job. It's easier for men to be in positions of power. It's easier for men to travel without being harassed. It's easier for men to go topless without being harassed despite it actually being legal for women too.
None of these points have any relevancy to the statement made. On these different points, I 100% agree. Women should be able to feel safe. But danger lurks for everyone btw. You think its 100% safe for a guy alone, you think guys don't find themselves having to fight to survive ? This isn't a man vs women situation... this is a person vs asshole situation. But are creeps generally men ? YES. Sadly, there will always be assholes that intimidate the vulnerable.
Are we going to start justifying the verbal abuse of men who dare travel a lot? How often do you see men be called dirty sluts, low value, and "for the streets" because they're topless in the summer?
Again, mixing in a different point which has nothing to do with the original statement. You think it doesn't happen that men get unwanted attention ? Where women think its ok to sexualize a guy that doesn't want to be and to be called a fag or gay just because he's not interested ? Again, there are assholes in both genders.
What we're going to do is stop justifying abuse and bullying because "boohoo you can do something more easily".
Now, I really think we should get back on the topic, which was : ask us anything (in the context of escorting). If anyone wants to respond to me, you can quote my post in a new thread if you really want. I don't mind opening one and calling it "Verbal abuse : let's justify it" <3
So now that you've said what you had to say, you're deciding to get back on topic and nobody else can have an opinion?
Please stop turning everything into a man vs women thing. I can guarantee you, that its not easy for men either. I've had weird situations happen with drunk women. Having some ugly drunken women brushing herself against me, trying to kiss and lick my neck in a bar, trying to grab my crotch when it was clear I wasn't interested and to be laughed and called gay for not recipricating.
But this had nothing to do with being verbally abusive or any type of violence towards women. You made it go there. And I'm choosing not to open a new thread simply because you chose not to.
Edited: typos... sorry, I don't use ChatGPT for my replies.