It takes skill for a guy to score multiple partners, which is why they are praised when successful at it... can't really say the same for women.
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It takes skill for a guy to score multiple partners, which is why they are praised when successful at it... can't really say the same for women.
Honestly all it takes is a good personality. I said what I said. Ive had sex with a variety of men (in my personal life) because they made me laugh, were kind, etc.
It's also actually not women's fault that men are easy to convince, too, so I don't know why we're being mistreated for having sex. Instead of verbally abusing women and resenting them because "they access sex more easily", men should try to have standards and start refusing sexual advances as well. Then we'd be on par and there would be no need to be hateful towards women.
I hate when people respond with this because it somehow implies that it's ok and normal to abuse women because men are easier to take to a bed. None of this is normal. I can see why anyone who has this mentality has a hard time with women. Turns out women don't like men who think it's ok to verbally abuse us because of our sexual needs or past.
Like, it's easier for men (and has been for decades and centuries) to find a job. It's easier for men to be in positions of power. It's easier for men to travel without being harassed. It's easier for men to go topless without being harassed despite it actually being legal for women too.
Are we going to start justifying the verbal abuse of men who dare travel a lot? How often do you see men be called dirty sluts, low value, and "for the streets" because they're topless in the summer?
What we're going to do is stop justifying abuse and bullying because "boohoo you can do something more easily".
Now, I really think we should get back on the topic, which was : ask us anything (in the context of escorting). If anyone wants to respond to me, you can quote my post in a new thread if you really want. I don't mind opening one and calling it "Verbal abuse : let's justify it" <3
Are we going to start justifying the verbal abuse of men who dare travel a lot? How often do you see men be called dirty sluts, low value, and "for the streets" because they're topless in the summer?
What we're going to do is stop justifying abuse and bullying because "boohoo you can do something more easily".
Now, I really think we should get back on the topic, which was : ask us anything (in the context of escorting). If anyone wants to respond to me, you can quote my post in a new thread if you really want. I don't mind opening one and calling it "Verbal abuse : let's justify it" <3
Perhaps its not exactly fair to answer a "general view" with your unique experience. Were you the one to initiate or were they? I can tell you, that making someone laugh and be kind (aka the game of seduction) isn't given to everyone. I'm almost certain that if those guys weren't above average in looks or personality, they probably wouldn't have had as good of a chance right? Which is about 90% of their experience. Not saying it never happens... but just that its highly unlikely.
100% agree, but for most men, its not as easy. That definitly is never a reason to be hateful towards women. In no way am I expressing any excuse for poor treatment of others.
Again, I didn't once bring up that its ok to abuse anyone. I answered a very specific statement only.
None of these points have any relevancy to the statement made. On these different points, I 100% agree. Women should be able to feel safe. But danger lurks for everyone btw. You think its 100% safe for a guy alone, you think guys don't find themselves having to fight to survive ? This isn't a man vs women situation... this is a person vs asshole situation. But are creeps generally men ? YES. Sadly, there will always be assholes that intimidate the vulnerable.
Again, mixing in a different point which has nothing to do with the original statement. You think it doesn't happen that men get unwanted attention ? Where women think its ok to sexualize a guy that doesn't want to be and to be called a fag or gay just because he's not interested ? Again, there are assholes in both genders.
So now that you've said what you had to say, you're deciding to get back on topic and nobody else can have an opinion?
Please stop turning everything into a man vs women thing. I can guarantee you, that its not easy for men either. I've had weird situations happen with drunk women. Having some ugly drunken women brushing herself against me, trying to kiss and lick my neck in a bar, trying to grab my crotch when it was clear I wasn't interested and to be laughed and called gay for not recipricating.
But this had nothing to do with being verbally abusive or any type of violence towards women. You made it go there. And I'm choosing not to open a new thread simply because you chose not to.
Edited: typos... sorry, I don't use ChatGPT for my replies.
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I'm sorry I couldn't read all of that because I think it's posted in the wrong thread :/
Bon bon bon…maybe we should just lock this thread, start a third one and try to stay on topic.
Ask us anything about the job. If you happen to start elaborating on questions/answers you can start a separate thread
Ask us anything about the job. If you happen to start elaborating on questions/answers you can start a separate thread
Ive had an issue with allergies one time.. I’m anaphylactic to cinnamon and the client was chewing cinnamon gum. But I keep an epipen in my work room so it didn’t end up too bad.
As for a client living with their parents, it’s a non issue because I only receive these days. Once, when I went to an outcall though, the clients mom opened the door when I arrived.. mortifying experience. She made it seem like it was normal though.
Might be a silly question. I always shaved/waxed my pubic hairs before seeing an SP. I just feels it the most comfortable for both side. I was wondering if an client is not shaved, does it bother you? Is there more shaved clients or hairy clients?
Hairy. Most of my clients are married and quite "natural" as, I suspect, it could be suspicious to suddenly wax or shave before seeing an SP... Personally, I'd rather see and touch hair than the rough feeling of a trimmed chest, and pimples and razor burns on the sensitive skin of the pubic area.
I really don’t care about the hair situation as long as it’s clean which usually is because I offer a shower to everyone. I can even hop in with you to make sure it’s clean
Ok, now I see the importance mentioned elsewhere of having available floss picks. Having pubic hairs caught between the teeth can be downright annoying not to say awkward. It also tickles
Now that is an offer I'll definitely take you up on!!
An SP who participates in shower time is just the kind of "going the extra mile" provider I dream about. Sexy stuff kid.
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It was one of the most embarrassing moments of my lifeIs this the new plot for How I Met Your Mother?
Go see Fiona, she’ll give you a wash to remember!
I personally honour the rate that was in effect when we scheduled and agreed on the date.
Same! A few times the client has insisted on paying the new rate anyway and it's appreciated, but it's important for me to leave that decision to them and on my end honor whatever was initially discussed because I don't want to seem greedy or assume the client would have booked me in the first place at those rates
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Are escorts who go on dinner dates recognized by the staff of the city's fine dining establishments?
No. I mean unless you go to the same restaurant everyday.
I have been on a few dinner dates since the beginning of 2024 and have been to the same restaurant twice but it was with the same man.
The staff do recognize regulars, especially in cases where a provider brings clients to the same establishment.
I think people who work long enough in the hospitality industry become very observant, (from the valet, bell hop, front desk, restaurant staff, concierge and cleaning staff) I am pretty sure they can tell with relative accuracy by looking at a couple having dinner, checking in a hotel ect... if they are married, having an affair and probably if a lady is an SP (some ladies have a more discreet look vs others of course)
An SP told me that when she tours in Toronto she never books the same hotel in a row and tries to cycle between 3 or 4, and each time she noticed that there are other SP on her floor and very rarely does she see families with kids on her floor (SP are very observant as well) it was her opinion that this was not random and the front desk was trying to purposefully limit the chance of uncomfortable situations
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