If it’s ok, I’d like to share my opinion as a client.
If there’s enough people doing it that there’s a pattern, that’s obviously is a huge hindrance when trying to optimize your business. I guess, I wouldn’t want to be lumped in with generic time wasters. I don’t think a small application fee for contacting providers is an outrageous idea; especially, if it can be applied to a date.
Personally, I have to ask a lot of questions that aren’t on most providers personal websites or in ads. Since I always play as a couple, I need to know if the provider sees couples. I can’t assume they don’t just bc rates for couples aren’t listed. Then, if they entertain couples, are they really bisexual or just going to ignore my wife. My wife’s fascination with breasts is why we date women in the first place, and because of that fascination, it’s nice to know if providers are enhanced or not. All of that could take several emails if the provider ignores the question, which happens a lot, and just focuses on booking a date. What really sucks is getting yelled at for asking. We’re only able to see someone once or twice a year. Who we choose to spend our time with is really important. Sometimes I wish we could reverse the process and post our own ad.
Well, this took me way longer to type up than I thought it would, and it’ll probably be largely ignored or someone will reply in anger, but I won’t give up on finding the one woman who understands and wants to have some adventures with us.
Thanks for your time and all that y’all do