Ask us anything part 3

[Jebmtl]

Here another example of what not to do

 

[LeDodo]

It's like Zac Efron. He was an handsome man but now ... I have no words

 

[LC18]

Here another example of what not to do

I like her tho, she just wanted to let her inner cat come out. Miaow, didn’t really work :/

 

[jeffmathers]

Do men really find that look attractive? Someone I know just posted her photos in story calling her lips “goals” and I had to check I was fully awake and not just having a nightmare. I am sorry to this woman but she probably needs one or several visits with a psy

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I believe a lot of civilians and SPs have body dysmorphia. Most are lucky enough to not end up like this but for those of you SPs who are reading my comment I hope you always remember that in civilian life and in the world of clients there are people who will not care if you had modifications or not and care about who you are on the inside. Most SPs get modifications. Usually subtle stuff.

A person with any level or lack of modifications can be beautiful on the inside.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I believe a lot of civilians and SPs have body dysmorphia. Most are lucky enough to not end up like this but for those of you SPs who are reading my comment I hope you always remember that in civilian life and in the world of clients there are people who will not care if you had modifications or not and care about who you are on the inside. Most SPs get modifications. Usually subtle stuff.

A person with any level or lack of modifications can be beautiful on the inside.

I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.

As for body dysmorphia, I think being a sex worker can either help or exacerbate it. I know it sometimes helps mine because I feel desired and appreciated, but at other times I compare myself to other women a lot, particularly very young women. I know that I'm not perfect and I'm always looking for the next thing to fix because I worry about someone saying something hurtful about my physical appearance. When I was just beginning, a client who booked me for 15 minutes told me ''don't worry, it's okay if you look average, most men aren't looking for super models''.. I was shocked. I never believed anyone who complimented my physical appearance after this. (which answers another question on this thread)

It's kinda hilarious tho because I've had several backhanded comments about my physical appearance, my tattoos, my hair, my style, my body shape etc. In 2023 I've had a guy say I look like I had gained weight lolllllllll I had clients complain I don't look 20 years old or that ''my breasts are as flat as fried eggs'' BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.

 

[jeffmathers]

I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.

As for body dysmorphia, I think being a sex worker can either help or exacerbate it. I know it sometimes helps mine because I feel desired and appreciated, but at other times I compare myself to other women a lot, particularly very young women. I know that I'm not perfect and I'm always looking for the next thing to fix because I worry about someone saying something hurtful about my physical appearance. When I was just beginning, a client who booked me for 15 minutes told me ''don't worry, it's okay if you look average, most men aren't looking for super models''.. I was shocked. I never believed anyone who complimented my physical appearance after this. (which answers another question on this thread)

It's kinda hilarious tho because I've had several backhanded comments about my physical appearance, my tattoos, my hair, my style, my body shape etc. In 2023 I've had a guy say I look like I had gained weight lolllllllll I had clients complain I don't look 20 years old or that ''my breasts are as flat as fried eggs'' BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.

I agree with you and hope my original comment wasn't upsetting to anyone.

 

[jeffmathers]

I don't want to shame women who get surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.. I also think there are people who are not trying to be attractive and are going for an exaggerated look on purpose. But I also agree with something Lena said, if someone has severe body dysmorphia and a doctor is making money off of them by encouraging outrageous procedures that's really unethical of them.

As for body dysmorphia, I think being a sex worker can either help or exacerbate it. I know it sometimes helps mine because I feel desired and appreciated, but at other times I compare myself to other women a lot, particularly very young women. I know that I'm not perfect and I'm always looking for the next thing to fix because I worry about someone saying something hurtful about my physical appearance. When I was just beginning, a client who booked me for 15 minutes told me ''don't worry, it's okay if you look average, most men aren't looking for super models''.. I was shocked. I never believed anyone who complimented my physical appearance after this. (which answers another question on this thread)

It's kinda hilarious tho because I've had several backhanded comments about my physical appearance, my tattoos, my hair, my style, my body shape etc. In 2023 I've had a guy say I look like I had gained weight lolllllllll I had clients complain I don't look 20 years old or that ''my breasts are as flat as fried eggs'' BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.

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BUT IRONICALLY nobody has ever mentioned the very obvious skin graft on my left arm.
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I never mentioned it because I didn't want to seem like an asshole. Some providers have other marks and I never mention their grafts or scars because I doubt it's a good thing to mention.