I would be cool with that personally
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Tbh I would not only accept, but I would be very excited about it too. Haha! I'm a foodie, as long as food tastes good and it isn't McDonald's I'm good. MTL à table seems like a fun event.
Quel est le temps habituel de repos entre chaque rendez-vous? Je me doute bien qu’il doit y avoir un espacement de temps entre chaque client, pour ne pas que ceux-ci risquent de se croiser, et pour laisser à la SP le temps de faire les préparatifs pour le prochain client. Ça doit tourner autour d’entre 10-15 minutes?
Pour moi ça peut être 4 heures comme ça peut être 4 jours. Je ne vois pas beaucoup de gens
Parfois plusieurs heures, parfois plusieurs jours, parfois des semaines si j'ai envie de prendre du temps off. Lorsque c'est la même journée c'est quand même rarement moins d'une heure entre deux rdv. 10-15mins c'est peut-être le rythme en agence (et encore c'est probablement plus proche de 15-30min) mais ce n'est pas réaliste pour la plupart des indies.
Je vois rarement plus qu'une personne par jour et quand ça arrive au moins une heure. Cet été je voyais presque un client par jour mais la j'essaie d'espacer mes rdv
I don't have incall... but if I am having a high request day, I make appointments 2 hours appart.. say I arrive at 1 location for a 1hr appointment, I give myself 1 hr, to wash up get back to my vehicle and drive to the next location. If it is a traffic time I give extra time, also depends how far appart locations are. And I let who I am on my way to see know if I will be late for whatever reason. I aim for 1 appointment a day, though often go several days in a row without any appointments.
Tu parles d'agences ou peu importe? Pour moi, c'est 1h à 1 semaine!
I have a question for sps that sort of piggybacks on eric757's question.
My question is when you are not working as an SP either because you have a few days off or are on a long hiatus for family, travel or whatever the reason maybe, if during that time you have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend, a lover in your civilian/dating life, or someone you just met out someplace or tinder/online just because you want to have sex with them, do you think you act different in bed as a lover than you do with a client. Do you ever have trouble differentiating between the two in the heat of the moment? Forget about the envelope and all the other formalities involved with a client appointment. Just as a lover. I am assuming that the boyfriend/girlfriend knows you are an SP but, not necessarily someone you just met. If you act different then in what way are you different?
My question is when you are not working as an SP either because you have a few days off or are on a long hiatus for family, travel or whatever the reason maybe, if during that time you have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend, a lover in your civilian/dating life, or someone you just met out someplace or tinder/online just because you want to have sex with them, do you think you act different in bed as a lover than you do with a client. Do you ever have trouble differentiating between the two in the heat of the moment? Forget about the envelope and all the other formalities involved with a client appointment. Just as a lover. I am assuming that the boyfriend/girlfriend knows you are an SP but, not necessarily someone you just met. If you act different then in what way are you different?
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1. Est-ce qu'il y a une étiquette à suivre en général à propos du temps? Par exemple, rendez-vous d'une heure avec une SP qui offre la GFE, le client orgasme à 50 minutes. Est-ce que c'est ok de cuddle/relaxer avec la SP les 10 dernières minutes ou est-ce qu'il est mieux de quitter tôt par courtoisie?
2. Lors d'une fellation, est-ce que les SP préfèrent des condoms aromatisés spécialement conçus pour l'acte? Devrais-je m'en procurer si jamais je book en rendez-vous?
3. Qui est responsable de fournir les préservatifs? J'ai une longueur normale mais je suis sur le thinner side au niveau de la largeur (you win some, you lose some lol). Devrais-je apporter les mieux lors d'un rendez-vous?
Désolé si les questions ont déjà été posées, y'a quand même 3 threads de 25 pages+ et ça me tente pas trop de fouiller lol. Merci des réponses de toutes les SPs!
2. Lors d'une fellation, est-ce que les SP préfèrent des condoms aromatisés spécialement conçus pour l'acte? Devrais-je m'en procurer si jamais je book en rendez-vous?
3. Qui est responsable de fournir les préservatifs? J'ai une longueur normale mais je suis sur le thinner side au niveau de la largeur (you win some, you lose some lol). Devrais-je apporter les mieux lors d'un rendez-vous?
Désolé si les questions ont déjà été posées, y'a quand même 3 threads de 25 pages+ et ça me tente pas trop de fouiller lol. Merci des réponses de toutes les SPs!
1. With the agencies a 1 hr appointment is up to 50 minutes of service. She will spend the final 10 minutes or so cleaning up.
2. I've only had BBBJ so I can't answer this question.
3. You can bring your own condom, but she will have condoms too.
Good luck. Relax and enjoy the service.
Quand un client réserve un rendez-vous de 60 minutes, le temps ensemble est de 60 minutes et inclus le temps à la douche. Personnellement, que tu éjacules après 5 minutes ou 50, tant que le 60 minutes n'est pas écoulé on peut certainement se coller et converser!
J'apporte personnellement mes condoms, ainsi que mon lubrifiant car ma flore vaginale est capricieuse, et j'en ai de toutes les grandeurs car il est important d'éviter les bris. J'en ai aussi habituellement à saveur (celles que je préfères) mais je les utilise très rarement alors parfois je n'en ai pas. J'utiliserai alors un condom régulier si le client en souhaite un pour la fellation. C'est notre principal outil de travail, donc une escorte devrait (devrait!) apporter les siens et être prêt à toutes éventualités. J'ajouterais que ce serait intelligent pour toi aussi d'être prêt et d'avoir quelques condoms, on ne sait jamais.
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I feel kinda weird answering this type of question and I don't understand why it's relevant. A client isn't the same thing as a partner and no I don't have trouble telling the difference.
This question gets asked really often. No. I have not, but I have developed a sense of intimacy and comfort with a client. Because this is a job that involves intimacy, yes it can happen that feelings will develop on either side, but in my personal opinion a client provider relationship involves a power dynamic that I wouldn't want to bring into another type of relationship.
1- Tu peux rester pour cuddle mais je recommande de te préparer à partir quand c'est le temps, dans le sens de ne pas s'éterniser après que l'heure soit finie. Tout dépend de l'horaire de la SP. Perso ça ne me dérange pas toujours si le client pars après 5-10 minutes car il doit s'habiller etc, mais si mon horaire ne le permet pas, je ne peux pas le laisser rester. C'est vraiment important de respecter le temps de la personne.
2- Ce n'est pas obligatoire mais tu peux le demander
3- Souvent nous avons les préservatifs déjà. Perso je préfère utiliser ceux que j'ai déjà avec moi, je ne me sens pas super à l'aise d'utiliser ceux d'un client.
Thank you for answering despite feeling weird about it.
I asked this question because at least in my mind and maybe other client's minds, the mental image of an Indy/Agency SP whether incall or outcall, is a pro who has sex more often and has experience with more partners by far than the average person will in a lifetime.
I've also read here and elsewhere that many times there are clients that see an SP and the appointment was just social and didn't end up in the bedroom. Maybe there are some high end SPs that are very selective and do not have that many clients or are in a longterm exclusivity client/SP relationship for years.
I personally think it is possible the lines might get blurred in a SW's mind between client/partner. This also goes for Clients as well. Minds are so malleable these days with social media, and all the ways we are bombarded with images/videos that are so readily available. I think this also creates scenarios in men's minds of how their date should go. Intimacy is complicated, I wonder sometimes how a SP over the course of time doesn't fall into a script/routine and keeps things fresh everytime. I hear friends bitching about their wives and mundane sexlife but, they don't ever communicate with their significant other.
I appreciate you're taking the time to answer.
Here is how I think about it. Being a SP is a job and we choose to become one for various reasons, not necessarily because we particularly enjoy sex more than the average person. Do we have sex more often and experience more partners generally? Yes because we see clients on a regular basis, but I also know people who hook up with different people every week and see as many people as I do and are not SP's. Some appointments are social and sometimes the sexual part of an appointment is only a small part. Sometimes, most of it is intimacy. It all depends on the client's needs, on expectations and sometimes on chemistry.
I think that sometimes lines get blurred in the sense that we are all human beings and you can end up having a client that you get along with really well and feel super good about seeing. I know that's happened with me. Intimacy also develops over time.. I think that you have to understand that we are not following a script because we aren't developing romantic feelings for clients or blurring the line between a client and a partner in our minds. I don't feel like I follow a script with clients, I talk with them, we have various conversations, the dynamic is different from person to person. It's not just up to the SP to keeps things fresh tho, and some clients DO enjoy routine and a comforting GFE experience that follows the same type of pattern every time.
I'm a GFE provider (which is something a lot of people don't seem to understand) so of course things will tend to be more on the tender side or will include acts that are not kinky per se or similar to what you see in hardcore porn. This means a good percentage of my clientele is here not only for the sex but for the cuddles, the companionship, the conversations, the camaraderie, etc. A lot of my clients want intellectual stimulation and they want to be around someone who's ''out of the ordinary'' (in terms of my interests and personality and things that I enjoy talking about)..
Have I met clients who I thought ''oh, if I had met him outside of this, I may be friends with them or might have gone on a date with them'' yes, it's actually happened. But that doesn't mean I'll allow myself to develop deeper feelings for them, because I don't think this would be healthy for me. I don't date people very often, I've been in a relationship while being a SP and briefly dated other people in the past.. It didn't feel like I was working when I was with them because we met in such a different context and things led up to intimacy otherwise.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write out that very thoughtful answer. Appreciate your perspective.
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