Ask us anything part 3
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I wouldn’t know since I don’t adhere to the reference system but sometimes they tell me on their own. Why should I be worried if they eventually come back to me?
We are not married, they probably wanted to try something different and realized they didn’t want to rebuild what they had with me so they come back.
Maybe as a complementary line of thought, wouldn't this be more or less like a double negative when we think that the hobby is basically a majority of Johns "seeing another" besides his SO?
So why expect him all of a sudden to become "faithful" to a single SP?
It doesn't phase me. When they want me they contact me back. It is nice to know he enjoys my company enough that he keeps haveing me back. It doesn't affect how I feel about him, because I am not in a committed relationship with him. It isn't the same thing as if I found my partner with someone else. Then there would be hell to pay. But as far as clients go, I'm pleased that he just keeps wanting me back when there are so many beautiful and other options out there to choose from. It is flattering to keep being requested back.
For me it depends on the situation. I don't feel jealous, because after all we are not dating, and it doesn't bruise my ego. I know I have value as a SP and I feel confident in what I have to offer. However, in certain cases, circumstances can be a little bit odd. Will it affect how I treat the client? No. And I'm not one of those SP's who starts getting mean and competitive and subtly bullying people I perceive as having more success..
Might be unrelated to this but maybe not.
How would you approach a woman in a bar if you suspected her to be a SP off duty?
Like if you wanted to know if there was a slight chance to bring her back to your room/place
How would you approach a woman in a bar if you suspected her to be a SP off duty?
Like if you wanted to know if there was a slight chance to bring her back to your room/place
Another question,
If a SP missed you, would you like to know it or would feel it’s weird?
If a SP missed you, would you like to know it or would feel it’s weird?
Would be weird that SP even remembers who I am especially if meet only once or few times
Not weird if I was a regular and there was some connection that developed over multiple visits
I do miss the ones I would see frequently and are no longer available now
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With all respect Miss, you have the class and beauty of women we only see and dream of in magazines and who we would gladly pay to be able to share but a few moments with. Would you allow me the privilege of offering you a drink?
Honestly the amount of times it has been said on this forum that if you run into an SP pretend like you don't see each other... I would not approach her at all.
In this scenario would it be to bring her back to my room as an SP and try to book her on the spot? or try to flirt my way into a one night stand with her civvie persona?
I would like to know if she really misses me... everyone wants to know they are appreciated. But that being said if I feel it's a sales pitches to get me to book a meeting it wouldn't have any impact.
If you get approached by a man in a bar and he introduces himself to talk to you, do you introduce yourself with your real persona or sp persona?
I have to screen him in 2.5 seconds and choose whether I want to be me or Lena. Depending on what the energy is, his body language etc, I may be me or Lena.
Not a SP that you know but someone that you’re not sure if she’s one.
What we don’t like is people coming to us and screaming HEY SO&SO FROM X AGENCY SO FUNNY TO SEE YOU HERE.
Or my favourite was the creepy man who messaged me to tell me he saw me in the metro but refused to tell me his name. All he said is that he saw me naked. That’s what we don’t like, extremely uncomfortable and creepy.
Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable approaching any woman at a bar, even if I suspected she was an SP, unless I got some type of signal she was open to being approached (eye contact, a smile, etc). Even if she was an off-duty SP, she maybe relaxing and does not want to be bothered at all.
I think when it is someone you are seeing regularly, yes it is nice to hear, especially if there is some truth to it.
I genuinely miss my ATF if for some reason we can’t see each other for a while.
Every single time and I will reapply.
It doesn’t matter how aroused I am, I don’t want to risk microtears because like I said many times, that’s my main work tool.
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