Ask us anything part 3

[lovethaifood]

Clients:

If you send a deposit via X gift card, the SP has to cancel and sends you a Y gift card by mistake instead of a X gift card. Same amount on both cards, would you say you have been ripped off?

I think it really depends. I think you need more context here.

What are X and Y even if they are different by mistake and how big of an amount for the deposit are you talking about? 50 dollar deposit for transportation or 20 percent of a 3000 dollar overnight?

If a SP requests a gift card X for a deposit and then cancels I mostly want my cash back in my bank account not a gift card that commits me to using a service or buying something. I guess if Giftcard Y is something I use a lot like Amazon then fine but, you don't necessarily want your hand to be forced into a purchase you don't want to make at the moment and say the client doesn't have much money, rarely hobbies and had to save carefully for this appointment? Maybe the SP could have sent the amount back in PayPal where you can pay in almost any currency even for a cross border transaction if it isn't in same country.

I will feel ripped off though if gift card Y is for Agent Provocateur, because how am I going to explain that to anyone??

 

[LC18]

What are X and Y even if they are different by mistake and how big of an amount for the deposit are you talking about? 50 dollar deposit

Uber and Amazon. $50 both cards

 

[lovethaifood]

Uber and Amazon. $50 both cards

That wouldn't bother me at all. I use Amazon enough. In fact I would prefer it to getting an Uber gift card back because I have my own car and rarely use Uber when traveling or if car is in the shop and I have no other way to get around. Now I do know some people who hate Amazon/Bezos and refuse to buy off that platform and prefer Shopify based business. Life happens whatever the reason the SP had to cancel for, 50 dollars is not worth fretting about for me. Hell if I live in same city as SP, I would probably just tell them to hold onto the deposit and reschedule the appointment.

 

[Nachoy]

For Indys.
When traveling to new city for work would you tend to use agency help?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For Indys.
When traveling to new city for work would you tend to use agency help?

Why would I??

 

[LC18]

For Indys.
When traveling to new city for work would you tend to use agency help?

It wouldn’t be very smart for me because in my experience, there aren’t many clients that see both indies and agencies.

Then what’s the plan? I always have to go back and work for the agency whenever I go there? Not ideal.

Rates are sometimes very different

 

[Giselle Montreal]

For Indys.
When traveling to new city for work would you tend to use agency help?

No, agencies do not interest me at all. I advertise using the appropriate platform for the city, and that's it!

 

[Julia Sky]

For Indys.
When traveling to new city for work would you tend to use agency help?

I would rather go blind (a little dramatic but it's just a song title lol). Nope. I would never.

 

[Nachoy]

Why would I??

So ladies. I assume when traveling as a new SP to brand new city. You can get enough clients with advertising on your own without relying on agencies pool of clients ?

 

[Nachoy]

if the client doesn’t cum during the session with you does it bother you and do you feel he isn’t attracted to you ?

 

[Julia Sky]

So ladies. I assume when traveling as a new SP to brand new city. You can get enough clients with advertising on your own without relying on agencies pool of clients ?

Why would it be different in another city than a new girl in Montreal? If anything being new to a city usually brings MORE business not less

 

[Nachoy]

Let’s say at the end of the session, you would like a repeat visit from this client ?
How do let him know?
How often do you sense that a client will repeat? And are you right more often than not ?

 

[LC18]

Let’s say at the end of the session, you would like a repeat visit from this client ?

If does not want to repeat on his own then it’s better I don’t see him again. Having to tell a client I would like for him to come back just isn’t something I would do.

If the time we have spent together wasn’t enough for him to want to see me again then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Jaxan]

Better to have sexy time before or after a dinner date? Or both?

 

[LC18]

Better to have sexy time before or after a dinner date? Or both?

I like before because I feel sexier when I don’t feel full but it’s not always possible

 

[Julia Sky]

Let’s say at the end of the session, you would like a repeat visit from this client ?
How do let him know?
How often do you sense that a client will repeat? And are you right more often than not ?

I don't ask/beg anyone to repeat, as that would be odd and a tad desperate haha. But I do sometimes say "I'll keep your contact so that next time you message me, I'll know it's you and I'll be super happy to see you again!"

 

[Julia Sky]

Better to have sexy time before or after a dinner date? Or both?

After is best because post-sex food just tastes better somehow, but I'm good with both.

 

[Skym]

As a SP, are you friends with other SPs and have a girls night out?

 

[Nachoy]

Have you had to use an exit plan just in case things get super creepy when alone with a client?
Don’t really have to go into details

 

[lovethaifood]

Have you had to use an exit plan just in case things get super creepy when alone with a client?
Don’t really have to go into details

That is kind of a question, that I don't think any sp should answer. Say they have exited a appointment with a client they found creepy, why would they divulge that here. Nothing good can come of telling merb yes, I have exited from a date. Someone who could be on here and gets obsessed with an sp could see that an sp they like said yes in an answer and then if they felt inclined try to trap them in an appointment. I don't think any sp should answer that details or not. On here people know many of the sps, websites, how to contact them, social media profile etcetera. They are somewhat open. They don't have any background on merb clients, or the people who read merb but, do not post.