Ask us anything part 3
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Same. I would still laugh and share my thoughts. It happens even in my personal life
With everything you have to watch out for and be alerte during a meeting, how are you able to relax enough to enjoy the moment and give pleasure to the client?
It's a talent! Hahah!! To be fair most clients don't try these types of things.
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When you like a SP* on dating websites, is it because you expect her to go on a date with you for free?
I mean we have have your contacts, if we had wanted to go out with you for free we would have said so lmao.
*one that you’ve already met in person
When you like a SP* on dating websites, is it because you expect her to go on a date with you for free?
I mean we have have your contacts, if we had wanted to go out with you for free we would have said so lmao.
*one that you’ve already met in person
I've never been in that situation, and personally I would probably not try to match unless I had a good joke locked and loaded.
But the client might not have known that the SP is looking to date. And the SP wouldn't necessarily know that the client was looking for something else either. So I would not necessarily hold it against him.
I just think it must make certain SPs uncomfortable to know that their clients now know their real names and personal details.
That's a good point. I haven't used dating apps in a long time. I assumed that you both need to match to get details about the other person.
You have a page and you can put your name and some info about you so that the other person has a general idea before liking your profile.
But she deliberately chose to do both, escorting and subscribe to a dating website. Un moment donné il faut s’assumer non?
Tu veux dire que puisqu'on est escorte, on ne peut pas avoir une vie normale? C'est plate mais tout est sur Internet aujourd'hui, qu'on le veuille ou non alors il est normal qu'un moment donné quelques-uns de nos clients nous croisent sur la toile, par contre il est mieux de faire comme si de rien n'était.
Oui voilà, tu tombes sur mon profile tant mieux pour toi mais essayer d’obtenir un match avec moi pour j’assume, sauver de l’argent, c’est de mauvais goût.
Bon bon bon, on se calme quand même là!
Je répondais uniquement à cette affirmation:
Bien sûr le client qui s’imagine qu’il est un bon match fait preuve d’un cruel manque de jugement mais pour tout les autres qui vont, justement, faire comme si de rien n’était, et bien ils vont quand même savoir ton identité et certains détails sur toi.
Je répondais uniquement à cette affirmation:
Nulle part je cite autre chose
Bien sûr le client qui s’imagine qu’il est un bon match fait preuve d’un cruel manque de jugement mais pour tout les autres qui vont, justement, faire comme si de rien n’était, et bien ils vont quand même savoir ton identité et certains détails sur toi.
Il y a personne qui se chicane, cap'tain 
En effet, tant qu'il y a du respect et que le client "ignore" ma vraie identité, il n'y aura pas de problème. Je ne sais plus combien de mes clients la connaissent, c'est pas bien grave car aucun n'a jamais utilisé ceci contre moi et c'est tout ce que je demande.
En effet, tant qu'il y a du respect et que le client "ignore" ma vraie identité, il n'y aura pas de problème. Je ne sais plus combien de mes clients la connaissent, c'est pas bien grave car aucun n'a jamais utilisé ceci contre moi et c'est tout ce que je demande.
Il n’y a pas de chicane du tout, c’est juste que une telle affirmation ça fait sursauter quand même!
Je ne comprends tout simplement pas comment et par quel chemin on passe pour en arriver à cette conclusion!
Certes, mais je pense que le mot clé c'était "to know". On ne peut pas être inconfortable si on ne sait pas qu'un client nous a croisé ! Il m'est arrivé de voir qu'un client avait "liké" mon profil et j'étais malaisée lol.
It's easy to give pleasure without being relaxed yourself. Enjoying it is a different story. Personally I can only get to enjoy if it is with someone I don't feel I have to be guarded with. If I am comfortable and know the person isn't going to try and pull a fast one, shared pleasure becomes more possible. Repeat visits with people you learn you can trust are good for that.
But first time with anyone it's on guard and expect any stupid trick to be pulled and the moment someone asks for certain kinds of inappropriate actions they are never granted trust they won't try to pull a stunt, as they are just waiting for the moment your guard is down to try.
I have a question for SPs who are bilingual(French and English) as a lot of people are in Montreal. Do you ever get so into the moment that you speak in your native tongue say French when you are with a client who doesn't necessarily speak the same language?
Related question, how hard is it to have a date with a client who has a completely different language than what you speak? Even with google translate does it ruin the flow of the date? Or it doesn't matter, visual cues and body language are enough?
If anyone has any personal experience or stories like this they want to share.
Related question, how hard is it to have a date with a client who has a completely different language than what you speak? Even with google translate does it ruin the flow of the date? Or it doesn't matter, visual cues and body language are enough?
If anyone has any personal experience or stories like this they want to share.
No secorite I struggle with french, but with the right kind of person, it feels less like a chore, and it becomes a conversation in Frenglish mostly.
When I started, I tried a few dates like this. The act is pretty much all body language, it's universal. But then in downtime, we both had our phones open to Google translate. Mine English to Spanish, and his Spanish to English, and I just didn't like the feel of a visit where we couldn't talk freely together. I like it to have a relationship feel to the visit, and there is nothing more mood killing then needing to decipher eachother any time you have something to say.
And sitting or laying there in silence is just uncomfortable while waiting for the little head to come back to life. Now, I just see people I find it easy to communicate with.
If you came across a client profile on a dating site with whom you really click with, would you not be tempted to like the profil for a match? or because this person was a client or has seen sps that would make you automatically pass on them?
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