Ask us anything part 3

[Murlockus]

Julia Sky said most of what I was going to say. SPs are real people; they each have their own policies, practices, and preferences.

You could find your way with agency girls but I'd say you would benefit from booking an indy. The women who contribute to this forum all have excellent reputations and have demonstrated considerable patience out here (!). They would be terrific choices. Many of the city's Indies are outstanding, though. I'd book two hours, or maybe better yet two hours plus an hour of social time. You might enjoy a date with a friendly woman, and you could ask all your questions over a drink! As for your inability to finish, just be open about it and follow her cues. The first few times are daunting for most clients. It gets easier ... and more fun!

ofc they are real people ! i get what ur saying but its hard to know what is right and what is wrong especially as a newbie. websites are really cool a lot of them are a goldmine of info.

from my POV its SP have their own preferences but the client as to follow some gentlemen code.....i just want to make sure i don't embarrass myself or be known to be that annoying client that does not do anything properly.

the last 2 sps i saw were both indies and i plan to keep seeing indies. id like to follow the cues if i could understand or catch them, im down bad ngl XD

their is probably a lot of indies in Montreal that i don't know about since i only know about tryst.

 

[DouMan]

ofc they are real people ! i get what ur saying but its hard to know what is right and what is wrong especially as a newbie. websites are really cool a lot of them are a goldmine of info.

from my POV its SP have their own preferences but the client as to follow some gentlemen code.....i just want to make sure i don't embarrass myself or be known to be that annoying client that does not do anything properly.

the last 2 sps i saw were both indies and i plan to keep seeing indies. id like to follow the cues if i could understand or catch them, im down bad ngl XD

their is probably a lot of indies in Montreal that i don't know about since i only know about tryst.

I think bro that you probably received pretty well all the important intel and/or links to move on with confidence.

For what is forthcoming chill out a bit, you are way too over-analyzing every little detail. SPs are everyday normal human beings. See them and treat them with the same consideration and respect as any other decent woman you may meet as they well deserve.

Don't try to be THE best but be at YOUR utmost best and all will be just fine.

 

[mauricevachon]

If only I had made a thread about it…

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/what-makes-you-c-m-almost-instantly.234519/

There's an old joke by an escort who says she comes twice with every client:

1. When he pays.
2. When he leaves.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hey

Daily questions o_0

Would you see a client in a BNB ?
Ive been looking at bnbs they look interesting. Since u can pretty much rent a full house and not disturb any1 !

But i only have 1 reference. So i could understand why SPs would be hesitant.

2 birds one stone

what would be the best food to offer a SP ? (like lunch and dinner)
i have allergies makes my life hell


and a third one this one is rather spicy its fine if people dont want to answer

i saw 2 SP in my life and i could not climax.... i dont have death grip im 1000% sure its probably anxiety since i work from home i don't really go out that much
anyway i wanted to know how much intimate time is too much...
i dont want to hurt any1 or make my session hell to any SP i would just like to increase the chances for me to climax the next time i book a SP.

ty for ur time again <3

I go to airbnbs personally but I definitely prefer if the person screened beforehand because it's not as safe as going to a hotel.. But I definitely feel safer going to an airbnb rather than a private residence. I think if you have allergies, it's totally okay for you to mention that to the SP you are booking with and ask them for something that you both would enjoy not all of us have fancy taste and want oysters and wagyu beef, and many of us even would enjoy a home cooked meal. Just ask the person what they are comfortable with.

I've had a few clients tell me they had a hard time climaxing during a booking due to anxiety and I think that is perfectly understandable. I think that booking social time and easing into the sexual part of the booking can definitely help, building up sexual tension etc. Also, one thing I've noticed is that some repeat clients were unable to climax the first time or the first two times they booked me because they were highly emotional and over time they were able to because we grew comfortable together. I know it's expensive to book SP's and it may not be possible to book someone many times.. But booking someone for a longer amount of time can definitely help in my opinion..

 

[lovethaifood]

Is there a section anywhere on MERB here just on Montreal Restaurants?

 

[MCTJ]

Is there a section anywhere on MERB here just on Montreal Restaurants?

As usual, the little magnifying glass at the top is very useful

Search "restaurant":

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/restaurant-thread-the-best-place-to-eat-where.123706/

 

[lovethaifood]

As usual, the little magnifying glass at the top is very useful

Search "restaurant":

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/restaurant-thread-the-best-place-to-eat-where.123706/

I did search that and I didn't find it. Someone was kind enough to send the link to me in a private message. Honestly, the thread seems kind of outdated. really not current but, same person sent me an article on top 50 restaurants in Montreal.

 

[Murlockus]

I go to airbnbs personally but I definitely prefer if the person screened beforehand because it's not as safe as going to a hotel.. But I definitely feel safer going to an airbnb rather than a private residence. I think if you have allergies, it's totally okay for you to mention that to the SP you are booking with and ask them for something that you both would enjoy not all of us have fancy taste and want oysters and wagyu beef, and many of us even would enjoy a home cooked meal. Just ask the person what they are comfortable with.

I've had a few clients tell me they had a hard time climaxing during a booking due to anxiety and I think that is perfectly understandable. I think that booking social time and easing into the sexual part of the booking can definitely help, building up sexual tension etc. Also, one thing I've noticed is that some repeat clients were unable to climax the first time or the first two times they booked me because they were highly emotional and over time they were able to because we grew comfortable together. I know it's expensive to book SP's and it may not be possible to book someone many times.. But booking someone for a longer amount of time can definitely help in my opinion..

ty for ur answers <3. i understand for the safety part especially if you never saw the client before. i was looking at BNBs but non of them ended up being what i wanted, a spacious quiet place sound proof with a nice bathroom. i also thought about it and if it can make the SP to be more comfortable to be at an 4-5 star hotel its pretty much the same price hotel or bnb. so i ended up booking an hotel room.

 

[LC18]

I know some of you want to plan perfect dates but sometimes it’s good to let it flow and also, each person is different so we can only either give you general answers or very specific answers about ourselves.

The best way to plan a perfect date, is to read the companion’s website. Follow my help threads and ask questions to the concerned person if needed.

My favourite thread of all time: https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/booking-an-indy-tips-tricks-dos-and-donts.222660/
then all the other ones are linked

 

[LC18]

for those who share an incall space, do you pay a fixed fee for it and is it at a monthly or annual interval? is it a variable fee based on usage of the space? is it pay-per-use plus a fixed fee? what safeguards are in place to stop a roommate from abusing the usage of the shared space (e.g., to accommodate a client who isn’t sure of their 2hr availability on a given day, the sp reserves the whole day, preventing anyone else from using it).

There are different kind of shared incalls.

• It could be a fee per hour so that’s why it sucks when you cancel last minute or ghost because they might already paid to reserve the spot.

• It could be a monthly thing, unlimited with no predefined schedule

• It could be a monthly thing with a set schedule so that’s why some can only accommodate appointments within certain hours

 

[MCTJ]

Speaking of shared incalls, any update on the one that caught fire earlier this year? (Did someone get in trouble? Cause of fire and whose insurance ended up paying for the damage?)

 

[LC18]

[Clients]

Why do you feel the need to mention that you’re white? Most of us either have a form on our website or if you message us will send you a few things we require to book. Even when we don’t ask for race, some of you will mention that they’re white. Why?

 

[Nachoy]

Have you ever deeply missed someone that you meet as a client that no longer wants to see you again
Can answer yes or no without details if it’s too heartbreaking

 

[Michelle Gunn]

Don’t know but here are a couple guesses:
1. Clients reuse the same solicitation intro out of laziness (what is asked for doesn’t vary much from SP to SP and race/background is asked for often enough, so this sorta makes sense). Even if race isn’t asked about, so long as their boiler plate intro covers what info is required, they aren’t going to spare the effort to make the small edit. Maybe in their mind, the SP will either consider it a harmless, negligible detail or even appreciate the extra information, even if it’s not asked for.

2. The prospective client may have the perception (whether it’s substantiated by reality can be debated) that if there is some unrevealed preference the SP has for some races over others (which could always be possible), chances are it’s more favorable to whites relative to the races, so including that information doesn’t hurt (at worst it will be ignored) and it might even help.

What are your theories as to why?

Some SPs write in their adds that they don't accept men of certain races, so they are making sure to note that they fall into the "white" category?

 

[AirBo]

[Clients]

Why do you feel the need to mention that you’re white? Most of us either have a form on our website or if you message us will send you a few things we require to book. Even when we don’t ask for race, some of you will mention that they’re white. Why?

Sensitive subject. I definitely mentioned it a couple of times in introduction messages. I don't like saying "White" though. I say "Caucasian", but we all know it has the same meaning.

Why? We all know why. So, I use it depending on the situation. In the case of booking the infamous Peach and all the drama about booking her and her being "low volume" and very selective, I wrote anything that I thought would give me a head start. Whether it helped or not, booking her was a breeze in my case.

 

[AirBo]

Clients reuse the same solicitation intro out of laziness

If that's really a thing, that's fucking stupid lol

Every girl is unique and deserves a custom introduction message, which I write depending on how she makes me feel (plus her requirements). That helps standing out.

 

[AirBo]

I know some of you want to plan perfect dates but sometimes it’s good to let it flow

I sometimes plan the perfect fuck but it never goes according to plans

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I am closer to pink than white actually! Should I mention it?

 

[AirBo]

what would be the best food to offer a SP ? (like lunch and dinner)

Before sex -> Light meal
After sex -> Copious meal

i saw 2 SP in my life and i could not climax.... i dont have death grip im 1000% sure its probably anxiety since i work from home i don't really go out that much

Relax and enjoy. Don't overthink it, especially in the hours or even days before the session. It's the building expectation that can be exhausting.

i dont want to hurt any1 or make my session hell to any SP

Just by saying this, you sound like a genuine caring guy, so that's a point I would stop thinking about.

Have fun and please report

 

[LC18]

Just know we often roll our eyes when we read “I’m white” when it’s not asked.