Ask us anything part 3
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I completely misunderstood what you meant then. I did not think it would be from a date, but a professional shoot. And now that I gave it a bit more thought I can see how some shots can work, when the man is more of a "prop".
You are right. Comparing my response to yours, it's very obvious that I am the one who is trigged.
But thank you for the summary of the US and the education about PTSD.
Yes that’s what I was referring to, I didn’t want to add the photos I’ve seen because they’re my peers but yeah some of them were hot some others made me feel like a voyeur and I don’t think that was the goal
At spas that doesn't surprise me because providers are overworked and underpaid and have bad working conditions but i'm sad and really sorry if you had that experience with indy's
I mean, no matter what, politeness should be expected.bonjour,
the usual protocol for incall is that the sp is already showered and the client takes a shower to freshen up upon arrival, would you ladies be displeased if the client asked for you to take a quick shower right after him, while he is drying himself and rinsing his mouth with mouth wash?
the usual protocol for incall is that the sp is already showered and the client takes a shower to freshen up upon arrival, would you ladies be displeased if the client asked for you to take a quick shower right after him, while he is drying himself and rinsing his mouth with mouth wash?
Just let us know in advance (before booking or before the appointment time) and be sure that the showering time will be counted in your time.
(I usually give some extra minutes for the showers but for requests like this it’s part of your time.)
The reason why I shower before the appointment is mostly to save time on the client arrival and to be in the room and not leaving my belongings with someone to go through them. I have a small routine like applying lotion and deodorant and some fragrance and some lipstick and getting relaxed before the clients arrive. When he is the bathroom that time helps me to calm my nerves and analyze how I feel about being intimate with him especially if it’s the first time I’m seeing him. Asking me to take a shower with you or after you brakes my routine and the small time I have for myself to get in my element. But it’s a small fix as long as you are aware that there is no extra time for the showers.
If we get more comfortable and trust each other I can even ask you to seat and wait for me while I’m taking my shower or jump in together for a quick wash. But it’s really YMMV. I always try to be ready before the appointment start.
I think At the end of the session it’s more logical for us because it save us some time on our end. (Ex: the client takes 15min to get ready and leaves while I’m waiting to wash off and pee) !
Plus if we are already both naked at the beginning it shorting the teasing time and gets too quickly into action. I don’t know for you but it takes me a moment to get really wet and explore my partner. I like him to take my peace of clothes off slowly and I reach to his cucumber risen under the towel.
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If a client came to you with a video that they thought could be you being filmed unknowingly but, he is not sure it is you, how would you take it? I am really bad with faces and the video is sort of hard to make out with the lighting and image could be sharper but, the body is very similar from what I remember and her pictures that are on her site and elsewhere. It is only one camera that never moves. The SP never really looks at the camera like she knows it is there. Part of me is like not my problem, other part of me is like well if it was me I would be pissed. You can also hear her voice at times but, it has been so long that I really am not sure if it is the same. Also do I really want to bother the SP with this? I am not a regular. Have only seen her once. How will the SP take it if I am wrong? I probably am wrong but, when I first saw it I was like holy crap that is scary how much it looks like her to me.
Do you mean you found a video online and you think the provider was filmed without her consent? It's possible to take a screenshot and tell where you found the video when you inform the person that you think it might be them. Edit : don't just ask of it's her, but inform and give context and details.
Yes, I am not sure what to do.I really do not know if it is her or not. I don't want to offend the SP. I am not sure how you do the screenshot thing on my laptop. Probably could find same video on my phone and screenshot it that way. I might just email her and say hey, I am probably wrong, there are so may women on this planet but, could this be you and send her the link.
Don't send the link, I would never open an unknown link from an unknown client. Too many scams out there. Just type on Google "how to take a screenshot on my laptop" and you'll find your answer in 5 seconds.
Well the SP knows me. We had a date before. I have seen her on my own. She screened me. I was just thinking of sending the link to the video. I will look into your screenshot idea.
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Is there a big difference between $350/h and $400/h?
Would the extra $50 prevent you from booking someone?
Is there a big difference between $350/h and $400/h?
Would the extra $50 prevent you from booking someone?
Personally I would forget it. You're likely to give her anxiety, and if it's really her, there's probably nothing she can do.
It depends for the provider, some have another occupation and cannot plan so far ahead. Better way to know is to ask her.
In theory that should not be a big difference but, there is this thing in business marketing classes called charm pricing. Like pricing 9.99 versus 10.00. Or getting a car for 29,950 versus 30,000. Something about that flip of the first digit to some people really bothers people in their mind according to psychology. Or paying 4 figures instead of 5 for something. I don't know how accurate that is. What I look for though is if the price goes down on an hourly basis for longer duration. It amazes when I see the price go up. Like there is one provider I follow who's fifth additional hour is higher than her first hour. That makes no sense unless she likes her sessions to be no more than four hours top.
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Very bad advice. I would 100000% prefer a client lets me know so I can send a DMCA notice to the website in question. It has happened to me before and I was able to get the videos taken down. Wouldn't be possible if I wasn't made aware.
For me it's not too early, but very often when people book me very very far in advance they end up cancelling, so it's a very good idea to pay a deposit and to have all the details of the booking already planned
I do enjoy knowing that I have bookings in the future however because it makes me feel a lot more secure. When people book ahead of time, I know they are serious and they are really excited about seeing me. It's flattering and it makes the booking a lot more pleasant too.Similar threads
