Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

[Clients]

Why do you say when planning a date with a SP or on a date with one “I’ve read your reviews” or “I saw in your reviews…” but never leave any yourself?

 

[MCTJ]

[Clients]

Why do you say when planning a date with a SP or on a date with one “I’ve read your reviews” or “I saw in your reviews…” but never leave any yourself?

I never refer to reviews when talking with an escort, but one reason I have for not leaving one is when I feel my review would not provide useful information beyond was has already been written in previous reviews.

 

[LC18]

I never refer to reviews when talking with an escort, but one reason I have for not leaving one is when I feel my review would not provide useful information beyond was has already been written in previous reviews.

You mean if 5 people already said she was good why would you be the 6th one?

I think it’s important to leave a review even if it wouldn’t add anything because some member may see your opinion as more valuable than someone else’s so the fact that you also validated or confirmed that the person wasn’t good would play a big part in their decision.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Why do you say when planning a date with a SP or on a date with one “I’ve read your reviews” or “I saw in your reviews…” but never leave any yourself?

That's something I've also noticed.. a LOT of my clients don't write reviews, and I'm never sure to what degree having recent reviews impacts how often I get booked.. because sometimes I get booked a lot despite having had no reviews in a long time and sometimes it's the opposite

 

[MCTJ]

You mean if 5 people already said she was good why would you be the 6th one?

I think it’s important to leave a review even if it wouldn’t add anything because some member may see your opinion as more valuable than someone else’s so the fact that you also validated or confirmed that the person wasn’t good would play a big part in their decision.

interesting perspective

 

[Sylar]

You mean if 5 people already said she was good why would you be the 6th one?

I think it’s important to leave a review even if it wouldn’t add anything because some member may see your opinion as more valuable than someone else’s so the fact that you also validated or confirmed that the person wasn’t good would play a big part in their decision.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. I always hope to know a bit about the client in their reviews: Their age, their preference, experience, etc.
This will help me assess if the review is relevant to me.

 

[Fradi]

[Clients]

Why do you say when planning a date with a SP or on a date with one “I’ve read your reviews” or “I saw in your reviews…” but never leave any yourself?

I will only talk about a ladies reviews with her if she is the one that brings it up.
As far as writing reviews, apart from seeing Heaven ( she has disappeared since then ):in a duo I have only seen 2 other ladies in the past year.
These ladies are absolutely fabulous and I have reviewed them before there is not much more I can say about them.
Besides I think seeing them repeatedly says much more to them than any review could. They know exactly how I feel about them.
We have been friends for a number of years.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

You mean if 5 people already said she was good why would you be the 6th one?

I think it’s important to leave a review even if it wouldn’t add anything because some member may see your opinion as more valuable than someone else’s so the fact that you also validated or confirmed that the person wasn’t good would play a big part in their decision.

@MCTJ I agree with LC. Yes, the opinion of one might be more valuable than the one of others, plus it provides an update. Even if the 5th lasts were good, 6 months, a year later, a new review is welcome

 

[LC18]

@MCTJ I agree with LC. Yes, the opinion of one might be more valuable than the one of others, plus it provides an update. Even if the 5th lasts were good, 6 months, a year later, a new review is welcome

Good point. A review even if similar to others could serve as an update or a confirmation that the quality’s still the same whether it’s a positive or negative review.

See they are many reasons to post a review even if you don’t think it would be relevant in your eyes.

 

[Sylar]

My question for you is, what makes someone's reviews acceptable? A lot of providers don't have reviews, and it's considered inappropriate to ask a client to review you.. Also, what is a turn off or turn on about someone's conduct on social media?

I don't fully understand your first question but I will answer your second one.

Honestly, I rarely check for social media. I only do if it has been mentioned in the reviews or if the SP advertises it. And when I do it it's mostly to see the up to date and non-professional photos / selfies, which are more indicative than professional shots.
But sometimes checking social media can result in me changing my mind. Red flags would be public drama with other SPs, shitting on clients for the sake of shitting on clients, any form of racism, not being able to clearly articulate, excessive flaunting of wealth. These kind of kind of behaviors

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I don't fully understand your first question but I will answer your second one.

Honestly, I rarely check for social media. I only do if it has been mentioned in the reviews or if the SP advertises it. And when I do it it's mostly to see the up to date and non-professional photos / selfies, which are more indicative than professional shots.
But sometimes checking social media can result in me changing my mind. Red flags would be public drama with other SPs, shitting on clients for the sake of shitting on clients, any form of racism, not being able to clearly articulate, excessive flaunting of wealth. These kind of kind of behaviors

oh, that's totally understandable.
for my first question, i think i meant.. what makes a sp appealing to you when you read reviews about her?

 

[Sylar]

oh, that's totally understandable.
for my first question, i think i meant.. what makes a sp appealing to you when you read reviews about her?

Mostly her overall conduct, behavior, looks (does it match her photos) and once again checking for red flags.
I really don't care about reviews with overexaggerated escapades and the back to back to back acronyms. Mainly because the experience will always vary depending on the two people involved and of course the wide spectrum of clients who are vastly different than myself. Not to mention the attached self-praise that is ubiquitous.

I do appreciate when the reviewers mention their own age, preferences and experience, as this will help me assess their review and how my experience could be potentially be similar or different.

 

[Murlockus]

hey an other day an other weird question !

questions about duos
i saw some providers mentioning '' Rate Match Policy '' on their websites
i understand what it means. my question is does every single provider do a Rate Match Policy ? or only providers that mentions it on their website follow that rule ?


2 birds 1 stone.
how you contact providers for duo ?
contact provider A then ask her if she's willing to do a duo with provider B ?
or contact provider A tell her ''id like to go on a Duo date with you''
i saw on websites ''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?
ty for ur time i really appreciate it <3

 

[Lunaseraphim]

hey an other day an other weird question !

questions about duos
i saw some providers mentioning '' Rate Match Policy '' on their websites
i understand what it means. my question is does every single provider do a Rate Match Policy ? or only providers that mentions it on their website follow that rule ?


2 birds 1 stone.
how you contact providers for duo ?
contact provider A then ask her if she's willing to do a duo with provider B ?
or contact provider A tell her ''id like to go on a Duo date with you''
i saw on websites ''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?
ty for ur time i really appreciate it <3

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask. I've accepted to do a duo recently during which I was supposed to get paid less than my duo partner, it was disappointing but I still did it. However we had to cancel because the client was not respectful.

When I've gotten approached from duos I asked a few companions if they were available on the day of the booking and then I show the clients the providers websites and let him choose. Sometimes people advertise duos with other providers. I think it's also perfectly acceptable to email 2 companions together and ask them if they would be willing to do a duo together. I don't have a duo section on my website personally because I'm still fairly new at doing duos, but I absolutely loved the experiences I've had so far even if I was shy at first.

 

[Murlockus]

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask. I've accepted to do a duo recently during which I was supposed to get paid less than my duo partner, it was disappointing but I still did it. However we had to cancel because the client was not respectful.

When I've gotten approached from duos I asked a few companions if they were available on the day of the booking and then I show the clients the providers websites and let him choose. Sometimes people advertise duos with other providers. I think it's also perfectly acceptable to email 2 companions together and ask them if they would be willing to do a duo together. I don't have a duo section on my website personally because I'm still fairly new at doing duos, but I absolutely loved the experiences I've had so far even if I was shy at first.

ohh ty for ur answer.... noted for matching rates o7

but what if you would book 2 providers not for the same amount of time ? like u would book A for 5 hours and B for 3 hours would u still match rates ? (i know its crazy i just had that question pop up in my goomba mind)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

ohh ty for ur answer.... noted for matching rates o7

but what if you would book 2 providers not for the same amount of time ? like u would book A for 5 hours and B for 3 hours would u still match rates ? (i know its crazy i just had that question pop up in my goomba mind)

I've heard of that happening! I don't think you would have to match rates in this case, but maybe like match B's rate to A's 3 hr rate, or vice versa?

 

[Murlockus]

I've heard of that happening! I don't think you would have to match rates in this case, but maybe like match B's rate to A's 3 hr rate, or vice versa?

noted ty.... i really appreciate ur fast replies have a good evening ! and take care <3

 

[LC18]

''duos available with my girlfriends'' but no names are mentioned does that mean they are opens to duos with any provider ?

Always ask them who they duo with. There’s a few people I wouldn’t want to do duos with, not because I don’t like them but just because we don’t have the same vibe and values.

Not everyone does rate matching but I personally find it to be the most polite/ethical. I remember one time receiving a duo request from a girl who wanted to be paid 1k while I would have been paid 300, I declined

 

[CuriousGent]

I prefer personally when rates are matched because often my duo partners charge more than I do, and it's honestly more polite and more fair to the provider who charges less, but you can still ask.

Always ask them who they duo with. There’s a few people I wouldn’t want to do duos with, not because I don’t like them but just because we don’t have the same vibe and values.

Not everyone does rate matching but I personally find it to be the most polite/ethical.

It does make a lot sense to prefer a duo with an sp you know / confortable with, chemistry, communication, there are so many variables already with three people involved.

Would you duo with an sp you know and are comfortable with but that has a different offering than you, for example you offer GFE and the other SP is more PSE/kinky and would have offerings like anal, rimming, Face fkng would you accept the duo at different rates given the offering is different?

 

[Julia Sky]

Price matching is the norm for many of us for obvious reasons. Typically double the rate of whoever charges more, but in some cases I don't mind lowering my rate if it means I get a duo, as I love doing duos.

I used to refuse duos because I was scared I wasn't good enough for duos. Now I've done them with a dozen different girls lol, how things change.

I will typically accept a duo with most girls (except rare exceptions) but I still prefer when the client (or provider) asks me privately before. I might feel uncomfortable if I get added to an email where both providers get a duo invite at the same time because then if one of us doesn't want to do it, having to say no in an email that the other provider (or the client) can read is awkward.

My preference, however, is definitely when a client lets me pick the other provider. Then I can choose my friends or someone I'm genuinely curious to do duos with, and that makes for a fun time usually!