Ask us anything part 3
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I wouldn't say I need to be charmed by a client, but I want the person to prove that they are kind and trustworthy. If someone is rude during the booking process, I feel very nervous about the encounter. I rarely refuse clients and when I have it's because something felt off in the communication.. More often than not I've ignored certain red flags and felt disappointed.
However, when clients act "too charming" that can also be a red flag. Like when someone gives me a ton of compliments and acts like he's trying to pick me up rather than book me, it's often because he is trying to get a special favour from me or bypass a requirement.
yes and I love it!! it's a very relaxing experience. i recommend going during a week day because they get very busy.. it's particularly pleasant to go there during winter months
Good point I’m pretty sure there’s a tourism forum
I've mostly read really sad and upsetting ones honestly. I'd like to find books by SP's that aren't just trauma porn or pure glamorization of the industry! Same with movies and TV shows about sex work, it's hard for me to find representation I relate to.. I guess I'll have to write my own!
I honestly LOVED Poor Things. It was very cathartic for me to see that movie.
I haven't seen all of Sean Baker's films but I enjoyed The Florida Project and Tangerine very much. I think if anything, I would have preferred if movies about sex work were directed by sex workers.. but that's not super realistic. Particularly in the case of Tangerine I felt like a reality that was very far from the filmmaker's own was being depicted and that bothered me a little, but that didn't stop me from really liking the film
I was told to never talk about money, religion, sex or politics. I will gladly talk about sex and money tho
I surely don't care where SPs lean politically, but they certainly bend over for Democrats and Conservatives just the same
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What is your definition of a fit body? When you see that on an ad or when a client gives you that description of themselves. What do you expect?
What is your definition of a fit body? When you see that on an ad or when a client gives you that description of themselves. What do you expect?
Fit would stand for firm, toned, no belly. you can easily feel the muscles beneath the skin even though there can be a light layer of fat.
Beyond that it starts to fall in the gym rat category I.e. no fat at all, you can clearly see the muscle structure. Then you have the body builder type.
Beyond that it starts to fall in the gym rat category I.e. no fat at all, you can clearly see the muscle structure. Then you have the body builder type.
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For a woman: slim with at least minimal muscle definition.
To me, fitness isn't a look, it's more than that. It's about lifestyle, health, habits and well-being!
Being slim and toned doesn't mean you're fit, and being fit doesn't mean you're slim and toned.
Being slim and toned doesn't mean you're fit, and being fit doesn't mean you're slim and toned.
Yeah, the question is what we consider a fit body, not being fit.
I know, but that's still my answer. A fit body is a strong, healthy body. This can be true at many sizes, hence my reply! The question was for everyone and I answered it, it was my opinion not a rebuttal of anyone else's opinion haha.....
I would take "fit" in an ad with a grain of salt because to me fitness isn't something you can even see on a picture.
To me there’s a difference between being fit and in good shape. I think the definition you have @Julia Sky would be “good shape” for me. Fit in my eyes really comes from the fitness culture.
Being in good shape could be any weight, body type etc. A person is in good shape for their body type if that makes sense.
I’m thinking of Lizzo, she is fat but damn! Have you seen this woman on a stage? She’s in excellent shape I would say but I wouldn’t call her fit.
Being able to do that and singing, multiple times a month because you’re touring.
Being in good shape could be any weight, body type etc. A person is in good shape for their body type if that makes sense.
I’m thinking of Lizzo, she is fat but damn! Have you seen this woman on a stage? She’s in excellent shape I would say but I wouldn’t call her fit.
Being able to do that and singing, multiple times a month because you’re touring.
Haha to me it's the opposite, being in shape is more about physical appearance to me whereas being fit is more about healthy life habits and the body's abilities! Interesting.
I agree, I don't think I could sing and move on stage multiple times per month. My asthma and legs would give up on me lol. It has to be one or the other, can't do both at the same time haha
I agree, I don't think I could sing and move on stage multiple times per month. My asthma and legs would give up on me lol. It has to be one or the other, can't do both at the same time haha
I checked on Reddit and most people seemed to agree with you Julia but they still wouldn’t apply those to someone who is fat which doesn’t make sense to me.
If you can keep an active lifestyle, do moderate activities and eat healthily, body corpulence shouldn’t matter.
Anyways the answers I’ve gotten helped me understand the general idea better. Thank you!
If you can keep an active lifestyle, do moderate activities and eat healthily, body corpulence shouldn’t matter.
Anyways the answers I’ve gotten helped me understand the general idea better. Thank you!
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