Ask us anything part 3

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Nobody enjoys using condoms even when it comes to bjs.

I don’t know about that, some people grew up using condoms, I’m pretty sure some never had sex without condoms. And I know a few guys telling me that they love them! Personally, I don’t feel much with them, I never cum with it, well, almost never.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I tried the Kimonos, first time was a failure, I bought the large size and couldn’t put it on! Way too small! Then I went for the X-Large, we managed to put it on and make a decent use of it but it wasn’t comfortable for me.
I am slightly bigger than the average but absolutely nothing crazy. Most providers instinctively go for the large size off the shelf condoms when handling my dick, it sure is more comfortable for me but I still don’t feel much.

 

[LC18]

I tried the Kimonos, first time was a failure, I bought the large size and couldn’t put it on! Way too small! Then I went for the X-Large

Ok Mr. Monster Cock

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Ok Mr. Monster Cock

I think my post is very clear about this point, I’m not even close to it, and quite happy not to be.

FYI, the Kimono large condoms are actually smaller than any random brand regular size. Don’t make it seem like I am bragging. I know I made some humor comments in other threads but it was just that, humor, and it wasn’t about the size at all.

 

[LC18]

I think my post is very clear about this point, I’m not even close to it, and quite happy not to be.

FYI, the Kimono large condoms are actually smaller than any random brand regular size. Don’t make it seem like I am bragging. I know I made some humor comments in other threads but it was just that, humor, and it wasn’t about the size at all.

I’m just pulling your leg. I also use them and never had any complaints about the XL

 

[LC18]

[providers]

Why among SPs does the condom brand of choice seem to be Skyn?

What factors inform the choice of condom you use with your clients? Have you tried and have you liked or disliked the “non-standard” condom varieties (glow-in-the-dark, ribbed, spermicide, flavored, etc)?

Latex free, simple as that. Better for the kitty

 

[DouMan]

I’m just pulling your leg.

That does seem to be the basic problem ... bigger "leg".

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Some condoms feel better than others but there’s probably some pleasure and safety/durability tradeoff at play. I remember reading a story from a while back about how the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation was funding research into harnessing cutting edge materials science/nanotech to create next gen, more-pleasurable-to-use condoms (e.g., ones that are self-lubricating, ultra thin but still durable, and more form-fitting). Not sure what came out of that (no pun intended).

It sucks because at Stella we are given average brands of condoms and I'm not sure that I can afford the more fancy brands all the time but maybe I should make a switch

 

[Lunaseraphim]

[providers]

Why among SPs does the condom brand of choice seem to be Skyn?

What factors inform the choice of condom you use with your clients? Have you tried and have you liked or disliked the “non-standard” condom varieties (glow-in-the-dark, ribbed, spermicide, flavored, etc)?

What Lena said also clients have said the Skyn brand feels better but I rarely have them. Spermicide can be really drying and have a weird feeling .. the flavored ones I don't trust lol but I've tried them

 

[talkinghead]

Nobody enjoys using condoms even when it comes to bjs.. When I used to work at spas I only offered cbj for safety concerns (that's not the case anymore, don't worry guys!) and I absolutely hated it, it made me gag.

I've often wondered about this. I play it very safe in my indulgences and actually prefer a cbj. I've only had one SP complain about it but I can certainly see that it may be unpleasant for a woman. Are flavored condoms any better? It has become harder to find condoms without spermicide--but I assume that would taste better? Since it's not something I would ever broach with an SP before a meeting, I'd appreciate any advice here!

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Are flavored condoms any better? It has become harder to find condoms without spermicide--but I assume that would taste better? Since it's not something I would ever broach with an SP before a meeting, I'd appreciate any advice here!

Unless I am mistaken, but most mainstream condoms do not have spermicide on them. It would be specified on the box. Do you mean lubricant? Flavoured condoms are better, and should mostly be used for oral play. The flavour goes away quickly, and the texture is the same as unflavored. What's unpleasant is always having to hold it tight so it doesn't go directly inside the throat when there's too much suction. Worst feeling. But I will use it and do my best if the client prefers a CBJ, of course!

Also, most providers will bring their own condoms, I always carry my favourite brands (which are not Skyn), different sizes, latex-free and flavoured ones too.

 

[talkinghead]

Unless I am mistaken, but most mainstream condoms do not have spermicide on them. It would be specified on the box. Do you mean lubricant? Flavoured condoms are better, and should mostly be used for oral play. The flavour goes away quickly, and the texture is the same as unflavored. What's unpleasant is always having to hold it tight so it doesn't go directly inside the throat when there's too much suction. Worst feeling. But I will use it and do my best if the client prefers a CBJ, of course!

Also, most providers will bring their own condoms, I always carry my favourite brands (which are not Skyn), different sizes, latex-free and flavoured ones too.

Thanks, Giselle. I'm sure you're right that I mean lubricant. And, sorry, do you mean hold the condom tight so that it doesn't come off, or hold the taste in your mouth?

I have found that most providers do come prepared--but not all! I once had a comical hour in Las Vegas with a provider as we looked all over the Mandalay Bay hotel for (what she called) "condiments."

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

That does seem to be the basic problem ... bigger "leg".

Because peeps keep pulling on it!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Ok Mr. Monster Cock

You know how men are, especially the ones here on merb. Now everytime I will go out to socialize with them they all gonna stare at my crotch!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I've often wondered about this. I play it very safe in my indulgences and actually prefer a cbj. I've only had one SP complain about it but I can certainly see that it may be unpleasant for a woman. Are flavored condoms any better? It has become harder to find condoms without spermicide--but I assume that would taste better? Since it's not something I would ever broach with an SP before a meeting, I'd appreciate any advice here!

Obviously I will do cbj if a client asks for it and it makes me happy that the person prefers being safe condoms don't usually have spermicide but they have lubricant really often, like Giselle said! Most of us have a wide variety of condoms, I have flavored ones

 

[talkinghead]

Obviously I will do cbj if a client asks for it and it makes me happy that the person prefers being safe condoms don't usually have spermicide but they have lubricant really often, like Giselle said! Most of us have a wide variety of condoms, I have flavored ones

Thanks for responding, Luna! I remember buying flavored condoms many years ago: banana, grape, and mint. I'm guessing that condoms have caught up with the chic culinary times and now come in cilantro, quinoa, sun-dried tomato, and tamarind. And their sizes could follow the Starbucks approach, so pleasing to a man's ego: tall, grande, ginormous, and Rubirosa.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Thanks for responding, Luna! I remember buying flavored condoms many years ago: banana, grape, and mint. I'm guessing that condoms have caught up with the chic culinary times and now come in cilantro, quinoa, sun-dried tomato, and tamarind. And their sizes could follow the Starbucks approach, so pleasing to a man's ego: tall, grande, ginormous, and Rubirosa.

Avoid the sushi flavor, they’re never fresh!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Thanks for responding, Luna! I remember buying flavored condoms many years ago: banana, grape, and mint. I'm guessing that condoms have caught up with the chic culinary times and now come in cilantro, quinoa, sun-dried tomato, and tamarind. And their sizes could follow the Starbucks approach, so pleasing to a man's ego: tall, grande, ginormous, and Rubirosa.

not the quinoa ones!!!!!

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Thanks, Giselle. I'm sure you're right that I mean lubricant. And, sorry, do you mean hold the condom tight so that it doesn't come off, or hold the taste in your mouth?

No, I mean the tip condom literally slides with the suction into the throat, let's say the beginning of the throat, and activates a gag reflex. I'm not good at explaining this situation in English, I'm sorry. Basically, we have to use different techniques when using a condom so it can feel good for you, and so we can enjoy it as well!

 

[talkinghead]

No, I mean the tip condom literally slides with the suction into the throat, let's say the beginning of the throat, and activates a gag reflex. I'm not good at explaining this situation in English, I'm sorry. Basically, we have to use different techniques when using a condom so it can feel good for you, and so we can enjoy it as well!

Wow. Just wow. I’ve enjoyed cbj for many, many years and I never knew any of this. Now I can’t wait for my next cbj! I’ll be more mindful and considerate of her experience… and that will make it even more pleasurable for me!