I would like to know if she really misses me... everyone wants to know they are appreciated. But that being said if I feel it's a sales pitches to get me to book a meeting it wouldn't have any impact.
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I would like to know if she really misses me... everyone wants to know they are appreciated. But that being said if I feel it's a sales pitches to get me to book a meeting it wouldn't have any impact.
If you get approached by a man in a bar and he introduces himself to talk to you, do you introduce yourself with your real persona or sp persona?
I have to screen him in 2.5 seconds and choose whether I want to be me or Lena. Depending on what the energy is, his body language etc, I may be me or Lena.
Not a SP that you know but someone that you’re not sure if she’s one.
What we don’t like is people coming to us and screaming HEY SO&SO FROM X AGENCY SO FUNNY TO SEE YOU HERE.
Or my favourite was the creepy man who messaged me to tell me he saw me in the metro but refused to tell me his name. All he said is that he saw me naked. That’s what we don’t like, extremely uncomfortable and creepy.
Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable approaching any woman at a bar, even if I suspected she was an SP, unless I got some type of signal she was open to being approached (eye contact, a smile, etc). Even if she was an off-duty SP, she maybe relaxing and does not want to be bothered at all.
I think when it is someone you are seeing regularly, yes it is nice to hear, especially if there is some truth to it.
I genuinely miss my ATF if for some reason we can’t see each other for a while.
Every single time and I will reapply.
It doesn’t matter how aroused I am, I don’t want to risk microtears because like I said many times, that’s my main work tool.
Well, I’m not even in a relationship and this would still bring a solid interrogation from my peers. My very close friends and sisters, even nieces and nephews can be very nosy, especially if they bumped into me while I am having dinner with an old classmate that is 30 years younger than me! Lol
Luckily I am not interested in going on dates with SWs, the only time I accepted to appear in public places with one was with an old favorite and we had a solid alibi since we are/were doing business together.
Yes. All the time, it's part of foreplay.
Very taboo things I look forward to possibly doing with my master one day. (Unmentionable things i am not comfortable sharing with anyone but him)
Actually my favorite clients are the ones who allow me the opportunity to get mentally in my fantasy world, while active in rather vanilla ways with them. Means I am enjoying and more involved in the visit myself.
The clients fit in when I fantasize him organizing a group event. (One of those one day maybe things.)
No. Masturbating means you go to hell. I'm going to heaven.
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Would you go on a dinner date with a client if they took you during the MTL à Table to a restaurant with the fixed price menu and course selection to save money. Some people are strapped for cash. Not talking a Tim Hortons, someplace nice but, they want to do the special menu during that time. I am not sure exactly how it work but, someone sent me a link and it seems like a limited two or three course meal with some selection for a fixed price. Hopefully, the menu has decent offerings for the price.
I don’t see the problem with that. I like trying new restaurants, I also like dressing up so taking me to McDonald’s wouldn’t work. I would politely decline if someone tried that.
I have a recommendation list on my website and there’s maybe 1 or 2 restaurants that aren’t high end but still my favourites. As a matter of fact I should update the list, I’ve found a new affordable place that I like.
This is where I really feel uncultured, or at a loss...
I haven't been on many dates in my life, and only relationship I was in where we did go on dates regularly, he often had to order for me. I would suggest he order 2 things he liked, in case I didn't like what he ordered for me.
-Reason 1, is menus being in french, (french can be a trigger and cause panic attacks) which really doesn't matter when taking into account the next reason.
-Reason 2, I don't understand culinary talk. The menu, even English reads out like trying to read another language anyways.
-Reason 3, too many options. Again trying to pick something out of a long list is pretty triggering for my divergence and can cause panic attacks. (the ex was a lifesaver when he would see the silent tears and nervousness, take over and offer to order for me to reduce the stress of trying to pick something out for myself. He just wanted me to enjoy the expierience, not be overwhelmed by it.)
-Reason 4, I am price conscious, I often look at menus, and have often just opted for the cheapest thing or simplest thing to understand on the menu. I think the only time I have ever been to the style of restaurants refered to on here as being suitable to bring an SP to, has been threw work christmas parties. Otherwise my regular restaurants on the odd occasion i have ordered have been McDonald's, Tim Hortons, Pizza. And for family special occasions like holidays or birthdays Scores.
Was easy for the ex, pretty much any BYOB restaurant was a step up, and concidered high class by me. Having seen how people rate restaurants here, I have been feeling so out of my element, and lacking in 'normal/regular' life expieriences.
LoL. It's funny I chose to get into this hobby, as I have always felt uncomfortable having people spend money on me, a life of being taught nothing comes without strings attached.
Paying me for my time feels different though, as the stipulations are pretty clear cut, and there are no added strings than what was previously agreed upon.
I haven't actually agreed to dates out as of yet because of fear of being stood up, (time waisters), bad enough when it is false runs, and no one comes to the door, it is still private. Stood up in public is just humiliating.
Public areas are stressful for me. I need to have a pre-established comfort with the person before agreeing to being out, I need to feel I can rely on them if I get uncomfortable.
Doesn't really matter as it isn't something requested anyways, as any time it has been asked, they want to not pay for time, wanting the date itself to be the cost.
Go figure I am more comfortable and find it less stressful for me to be alone with someone naked in a room, than fully dressed and out in public. I really am backwards in that sense. At least my discomfort is often seen as charming, rather than irritating.
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