Ask us anything part 3

[Julia Sky]

I'm giggling a little because surely if you don't know how to go about telling her, I promise buying a bottle of summer's eve is NOT the solution unless you want to make sure she never wants to see you again.

Summer's eve and any product like this is bad and can actually cause pH imbalance and infections, by the way.

Do you two go shower before you have sex? It could be as simple as this. I know far too many civilians don't shower before sex.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

It's not someone's choice if they have body hair or not except for grooming certain areas. Personally I'm not a huge fan of beards.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

I prefer hair to a short stiff re-growth that hurts my sensitive skin. Facial hair, I like it short, or stylish.

 

[Nachoy]

I'm giggling a little because surely if you don't know how to go about telling her, I promise buying a bottle of summer's eve is NOT the solution unless you want to make sure she never wants to see you again.

Summer's eve and any product like this is bad and can actually cause pH imbalance and infections, by the way.

Do you two go shower before you have sex? It could be as simple as this. I know far too many civilians don't shower before sex.

Yes we did shower first , that’s what I was surprised. It’s was an overhead fixed shower with water spraying above our head and not one of those hand held shower head where I can spray water at her pelvic area.

 

[Rebaynia]

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

I haven't really thought much about it. In my personal life less hair has often been prefered. But have found as long as he grooms it is good. A soft beard can feel really nice on the skin. Though like shaved to short hair on genitals.
Men I have dated in relationships, I have shaved their backs for them, and the beginning of summer chest shave and let it grow in for warmth in winter.
But I often cut their hair too, so became kind of an erotic whole body hair grooming.
I just don't like when the hair is coarse, it can cause rugrash on the sensitive skin on the body, and makes kissing or DATY painful. While a soft beard can add an added exciting stimulation during both. Rather enjoyed the feeling of someone with a soft beard kissing my back as well it tickles in a way that excites me.

The joys of this business is I enjoy variety, and that every person I see is different.

 

[Zero_Six]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

 

[LC18]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

No because the people I know aren’t nosy and would probably not approach me if they saw me having dinner with someone.

If so, they would only say “hi!” and I would say “hi!”

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

All my friends and family knows about my night job haha they would most likely give me two thumbs up and leave us alone

 

[Lunaseraphim]

SPs and clients,
When going on a social/dinner date, do you have a cover story in case you run into someone you know? What is it? Something simple like "we matched on tinder" or is it more elaborate?

Everyone I'm close to knows what I do for work. But I'd rather a client doesn't tell people they matched with me on tinder personally.. I've had someone say that about me because they found out somehow we had mutual friends, and it really upset me. Not because I felt insulted that this person would be matching with me on tinder lol but because it just isn't respectful and it's not a fair lie.

 

[Zero_Six]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

 

[DouMan]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

So just chill out a little and present your "date" as a long lost classmate.

As much as possible always sit in front of each other for obvious reasons and anyway, the "view" is better.

As long as you keep your hands off her body and your tongue out of her mouth all should be just fine.

 

[LC18]

I guess I'm referring more to a situation of someone the client knows.

I tend to overthink everything, which eventually leads to worst case scenarios such as running into my boss or a family member while on a dinner date. The chances of that are slim, but like I said - I overthink stuff.

You’re not allowed to date? I mean if you’re married or partnered up I could understand how that could be awkward but if you’re single, who cares who you’re dining with?

 

[Zero_Six]

You’re not allowed to date? I mean if you’re married or partnered up I could understand how that could be awkward but if you’re single, who cares who you’re dining with?

If it were my boss or a co-worker, no problem. They probably wouldn't ask many questions.
Someone closer though. They know I'm not dating and haven't been on a date in years. Once they got over the shock of seeing me being a normal human being doing normal human things, they'd have questions. I wouldn't be opposed to telling most of them the truth, but IDK if that would be proper etiquette.

I'm obviously worrying about nothing though. My family doesn't live here and my few friends aren't the fancy restaurant type. Was just curious if setting up a backstory was a thing.

 

[LC18]

If it were my boss or a co-worker, no problem. They probably wouldn't ask many questions.
Someone closer though. They know I'm not dating and haven't been on a date in years. Once they got over the shock of seeing me being a normal human being doing normal human things, they'd have questions. I wouldn't be opposed to telling most of them the truth, but IDK if that would be proper etiquette.

I'm obviously worrying about nothing though. My family doesn't live here and my few friends aren't the fancy restaurant type. Was just curious if setting up a backstory was a thing.

You also don’t owe them an explanation about how you live your life.

“I was on a date. We met through a mutual friend/coworker” end of the story.