Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

Now I'm curious about the reverse. Do you ask clients about their relationship status? Do many clients bring it up themselves, unprompted? Is it information you want to know or not? Does it change anything?

I'm guessing it's more common and acceptable to discuss the client's relationship status since the SP/client relationship can often be similar to a therapist/patient relationship.

I don't ask them their relationship situation. I figure if they want me to know they will bring it up. As outcall often it is a giveaway if they are single, or have a partner. It is their business though.
I have had sessions that were more like therapy, either because they were dealing with mental health issues I can relate to, or just want someone to hear them out, or feel close to. I've also done some relationship advice when issues in their relationship come up.

 

[Julia Sky]

How do SP stay fresh in their vagina? Almost all SPs I meet have no fishy odor. Whenever i have sex with a civie, I say 50% of the time I can smell fish.
Is there some type of showering technique that you do to keep the pussy nice and fresh?

What Giselle said!!

Also... I think the issue in civvie contexts is probably that, often, civilians don't take showers before having sex. Doing this job, I really see a difference in hygiene AND general sex pratices when it comes to how civvies vs sex workers navigate their sex lives lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

How do SP stay fresh in their vagina? Almost all SPs I meet have no fishy odor. Whenever i have sex with a civie, I say 50% of the time I can smell fish.
Is there some type of showering technique that you do to keep the pussy nice and fresh?

I shove crystals up there and rinse with holy water

 

[2fast2slow]

I dont know if this has already been asked (3 long threads to search through lol), but how do you feel about body hair on men? I trim my groin area and my pits, but still have a little bit hairy legs and chest lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I dont know if this has already been asked (3 long threads to search through lol), but how do you feel about body hair on men? I trim my groin area and my pits, but still have a little bit hairy legs and chest lol.

I don't personally mind body hair unless it's a part of your body that I must lick!

 

[LC18]

I dont know if this has already been asked (3 long threads to search through lol), but how do you feel about body hair on men? I trim my groin area and my pits, but still have a little bit hairy legs and chest lol.

Yes it’s been asked before many times.

I think it depends on the SW, well not I think. It always does.

I don’t care about body hairs, facial hairs as long as it’s clean. If you smoke and have a thick beard, you might want to wash it in the shower.

 

[Nachoy]

why do agency/indy don’t respond to texts from texting app?

 

[LC18]

why do agency/indy don’t respond to texts from texting app?

For our safety

 

[MichelleMontreal]

why do agency/indy don’t respond to texts from texting app?

Why do you use texting apps? Your answer is my answer.

 

[Fradi]

Why do you use texting apps? Your answer is my answer.

Basically the same reason you do for safety and privacy.
With that said I don’t because I do understand that an SP is way more vulnerable and more at risk than any client and if you do your research there shouldn’t be any reason to be scared.
If you are that concerned a burner phone with a real number is always an option and the safest way to go.

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Basically the same reason you do for safety and privacy.
With that said I don’t because I do understand that an SP is way more vulnerable and more at risk than any client and if you do your research there shouldn’t be any reason to be scared.
If you are that concerned a burner phone with a real number is always an option and the safest way to go.

How does a text app provide you with safety? (genuinely asking, not trying to be an ass - despite my current profile pic being my actual ass)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

With that said I don’t because I do understand that an SP is way more vulnerable and more at risk than any client and if you do your research there shouldn’t be any reason to be scared.

This is the most important part. You get it.

I don't take textapp clients. I was going to give an example of why, but I don't feel super comfortable doing so. We all know it's possible to create a ton of different numbers with textapps, numbers which can be tied to different fake identities.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

How does a text app provide you with safety? (genunely asking, not trying to be an ass - despite my current profile pic being my actual ass)

This made me laugh so hard Michelle.
And I agree, a textapp won't prevent clients from having bad experiences. You could use a textapp and still show up to a sketchy apartment and have a ''boyfriend'' take your money and kick you out without any service being provided.

 

[Fradi]

How does a text app provide you with safety? (genuinely asking, not trying to be an ass - despite my current profile pic being my actual ass)

I was talking from a client perspective.
A text app cannot be traced so it does not leave you open for blackmail or threatening phone calls which do happen even when you don’t actually go see the lady.and you only made an inquiry for information.
There are many people who have been threatened who have contacted scammers on Leo List for instance.
That is why it is Important to do your research and stick to well established and reviewed Indies and agencies,
Same thing goes for a burner phone you can use the name of Mickey Mouse if you like.

It will not keep you safe from a pimp or boyfriend if you show up in a sketchy neighbourhood for sure. A bit of common sense and street smarts will.

Just like nothing keeps you ladies safe 100% either, it is a risky business for both sides but more so for the ladies.
Screening helps for sure, deposits only help to keep out time wasters as there are just as many rich scumbags as poor ones.

 

[LC18]

an SP is way more vulnerable and more at risk than any client

Precisely. It’s a dangerous activity on both sides but the risks are heavier on one side I’m afraid :/

 

[MichelleMontreal]

I was talking from a client perspective.
A text app cannot be traced so it does not leave you open for blackmail or threatening phone calls which do happen even when you don’t actually go see the lady.and you only made an inquiry for information.
There are many people who have been threatened who have contacted scammers on Leo List for instance.
That is why it is Important to do your research and stick to well established and reviewed Indies and agencies,
Same thing goes for a burner phone you can use the name of Mickey Mouse if you like.

It will not keep you safe from a pimp or boyfriend if you show up in a sketchy neighbourhood for sure. A bit of common sense and street smarts will.

Just like nothing keeps you ladies safe 100% either, it is a risky business for both sides but more so for the ladies.
Screening helps for sure, deposits only help to keep out time wasters as there are just as many rich scumbags as poor ones.

So the concern from a client's perspective is blackmail and other forms of being threatened, but this risk is minimized by "sticking to well established and reviewed indies and agencies."

My concerns are about being robbed and/or brutalized and/or murdered, and I can minimize that risk by screening and letting people know that I am being tracked at all times, and having a safety person that I contact etc.

 

[Fradi]

So the concern from a client's perspective is blackmail and other forms of being threatened, but this risk is minimized by "sticking to well established and reviewed indies and agencies."

My concerns are about being robbed and/or brutalized and/or murdered, and I can minimize that risk by screening and letting people know that I am being tracked at all times, and having a safety person that I contact etc.

No being blackmailed and threatened was just in relation to using a texting app or burner phone to avoid that from happening.

If you actually go see an SP that you don’t know or haven’t done a proper research on you are still vulnerable to be robbed or mugged just like you are except the likelihood is less for us and most times we are better able to protect ourselves although there is not much you can do if you are confronted by someone who is armed or much bigger and stronger than you..
Just like you need to screen to protect yourself we need to be vigilant and do a proper research and use some common sense also.

 

[2fast2slow]

I don't personally mind body hair unless it's a part of your body that I must lick!

I interpret ''dont mind'' as ''I can tolerate it'' lol...
I guess its a state of mind. I don't even like body hair on myself!
I guess I was fishing for info on preferences. I groom. I suspect most clients groom. But do they? Do they groom enough? The more grooming the better? Where is the line? Or do some like the 'masculinity ' of facial and body hair? I guess it aslo depends on the guy too.

 

[2fast2slow]

A text app cannot be traced so it does not leave you open for blackmail or threatening phone calls which do happen even when you don’t actually go see the lady.and you only made an inquiry for information.
There are many people who have been threatened who have contacted scammers on Leo List for instance.
That is why it is Important to do your research and stick to well established and reviewed Indies and agencies,
Same thing goes for a burner phone you can use the name of Mickey Mouse if you like.

My understanding is that as an ordinary citizen, whether it be just as much from a well established cellular provider, as from some random app from the app store, you cannot get personnal details about the owner of that number (name, address, etc).

I believe only law enforcement, especially with a court order, can get number ownership from cellular provider, and LE can also get info from app companies (in certain cases) about IP adresses. And from IP adresses they can get real names and real adresses. Even burner phones, somebody somewhere has to put a credit card number down to activate it...its always traceable for LE.

I beleive a phone number with a 'regular' area code (montreal, QC, neighboring states and provinces) is more a reassuance than an actual safety measure. It just looks more legit and like the person has nothing to hide. Whereas 'weird' phone numbers just dont set the stage for trust.

There could be the context where a client does not want SP phone numbers to appear in his cellphone bill (like a married man lol) and so phone apps are a way to conceal inappropriate marrital behaviour.

But please, correct me if I'm wrong

 

[Julia Sky]

I beleive a phone number with a 'regular' area code (montreal, QC, neighboring states and provinces) is more a reassuance than an actual safety measure.

You're correct at least in my case. When I refuse requests from text app numbers it is mainly to avoid wasting time, and some kind of reassurance that *if* something happens to me, the perpetrator can be traced easily. It's not a protection per se but it does deter a good amount of bad guys, probably.